[bona fide*]

According to my boyfriend, I tend to make most of the decisions and he just goes along with them (unless he's really against it) because he doesn't want to start an argument lol.

Who makes most of the decisions in your relationship-- you, your boyfriend/girlfriend or is it generally 50/50?

[Harbl]

Generally it isn't me. Guys tend to be the more dismissive when it comes to decisions within a relationship.

[Swtess]

hmm....probably my bf for 75% of the time.

[sw33t_innoc3nt]

i think i do....
well my bf wants me to lol
he goes along with whatever... makes me feel bad sometimes tho

[forgottenmemories]

I usually make the decision because he can never make up his mind. He always says "Its up to you babe" or "If you want to..." It drives me crazy sometimes.

[ny-sw / ny_sw.]

Usually not me.. i'm RIDICULOUSLY indecisive about things that don't matter, but.. if I have a preference, I'll def say it.

[Kanzen]

I usually make the decision because he can never make up his mind. He always says "Its up to you babe" or "If you want to..." It drives me crazy sometimes.

Same with my boyfriend. He always says, "I want to do whatever YOU want to do. ", which is sweet, but sometimes I just want to smack him.

I end up making most of the decisions. Haha.

[ltnd.]

I'm usually the one that makes the decision in the relationship..though I always stress to my bf that I'd like it to be a 50-50 participation from both when making decisions =T I'd like his input on stuff too

[Yashi]

me. mostly because he tends to say "it's up to you"/"whatever you want". similar to most of you guys.

and yes, it does drive me crazy sometimes because i just want HIM to have the final say sometimes, y'know? sometimes i'm really indecisive and he still pushes the decision on me...it drives me crazy. but it's fine. i love him either way.

[x3yajme]

It's usually my boyfriend. Like previous posts above, sometimes he says it's up to me and I can choose whatever i want. Makes me feel bad cause it might not be what he wants and also I wanna smack him cause I want it to be something that we BOTH wanna do..

[Champagne*kisses]

lol it is kind of funny because we both are like "oh whatever you like or want to do" lol, most of the time we just discuss things and decide together.

[_ATELIER]

not me, unless we're going to a movie, or discussing what we should eat.
i'm picky bout my food and movies.

[secretzel]

my boyfriend always points finger on me haha.
i don't know he keeps on telling me that " its up to you " but i don't want it
sometimes i'm telling him " No no, i don't know you decide":)

[Harbl]

Guys most pf the time say "it's up to you" or "whatever" because more often than not it turns out they'll make the wrong decision and the gf will get all pissy or just go quiet with the whole "nothing's wrong" treatment.

[jaeka]

Meeeeeeeeee.
Though I try my very hardest for him to put in his input, or decide for once, it's always me. XD;

[lil_miss_kawaii]

usually its mutual agreement in all the relationships i have had

Like movie, where we eat ~ we just suggest places and mutually agree on something
I never liked the idea of only one person making the majority of the decisions

lol but every relationship is different

[meiming8]

hmm....probably my bf for 75% of the time.

same. I pretty much listen to him completely, or do the exact opposite of what he says

[dothat36]

We usually agree, so it's mutual...but we each have our moments.
Sometimes I take all the decisions, but other times he takes the lead (mostly when i can't
make up my mind...lol)

[Yuyu<3]

It's about 50/50
We usually go to the movies
We decide on the movie and on the time together.
If theres somewhere he wants me to go with him, he asks and we talk about it
Same with me
We check in with each other to see if we're free or if we agree and we usually do agree on something

[turnhere]

Me.
Its cause im undecisive.
lol he makes me do it so i can learn to "make decisions"