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I'm Going To Write A Rejection Letter To This Guy... does this sound okay?

#1 User is offline   xfruityx 

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Posted 05 July 2009 - 02:04 PM

so theres this guy that has a crush on since i was little, but i dont feel the same way. Hes like two years younger than me.
So i wanted to tell him how i feel...


Hi *insert name*

I think you are a great, funny, and fun to talk to guy, but I don't think this would work out. I'm sorry, i don't feel the same way. I think you should save it for someone else who is more suitable for you and also feels the same way, unlike me.
sorry.



UHm.....should i add anything else?
does is sound a little mean?
HOW do you make a rejection letter sound nice?

well just edit anything if you have an opinion.

i know i sound really harsh or mean at the moment of what i am doing.
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#2 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 05 July 2009 - 02:13 PM

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HOW do you make a rejection letter sound nice?


lolol nice rejection, what an oxymoron.

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i know i sound really harsh or mean at the moment of what i am doing.


I agree
Should've just rejected him when he asked instead of doing stuff like this.
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Posted 05 July 2009 - 02:17 PM

QUOTE (Mannosuke @ Jul 5 2009, 03:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I agree
Should've just rejected him when he asked instead of doing stuff like this.

Okay he didnt ask me, he just told me that he likes me. Thats it.
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#4 User is offline   chewy130 

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Posted 05 July 2009 - 02:20 PM

i dont think u really need to gvie him a rejection letter if he didnt ask u out..if it escalates further then tell him no.

but then giving it to him as a letter can also be worse because that is like a physical manifestation of the rejection, if u just told him then he could still try forget about it,
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#5 User is offline   Oh Deer 

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Posted 05 July 2009 - 02:23 PM

Can't you just tell him? o:
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Posted 05 July 2009 - 02:29 PM

just say ur a lil to young for me

simple and clean, and its understandable
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#7 User is offline   Kanzen 

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Posted 05 July 2009 - 03:13 PM

Don't write him a letter. Just tell him you don't feel the same.
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#8 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 05 July 2009 - 03:20 PM

QUOTE (xfruityx @ Jul 5 2009, 02:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Okay he didnt ask me, he just told me that he likes me. Thats it.


Should've told him your feelings as well.
It was the perfect moment to break someone's heart.
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Posted 05 July 2009 - 03:56 PM

I don't see why you have to write him a letter, especially since you said he never even asked you out. And no offense but putting someone down through a letter is rude no matter how you word the letter.. like breaking up with someone through a text message. dry.gif

Why didn't you just tell him how you felt when he told you he likes you?


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Posted 05 July 2009 - 03:59 PM

i say dump the letter and tell him in person.
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Posted 05 July 2009 - 04:17 PM

don't write the letter .. lol.
it's like giving him something to remember that you rejected him
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Posted 05 July 2009 - 05:05 PM

You might hurt his pride, it's better to just say it to his face.. imo.

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Posted 05 July 2009 - 05:20 PM

if you're gonna reject him, at least do the gesture of doing it face to face
rejection's rejection. No letter, no matter how nice it is will fix the fact that he did get rejected

But if you do it face to face, least he knows you still have respect for him

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Posted 05 July 2009 - 05:22 PM

I think you should say it to his face. Writing a letter to reject someone is so pathetic.
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Posted 05 July 2009 - 05:46 PM

Like others said, I really think you should tell him in person. If he took the courage to tell you that he liked you, you should at least be able to tell him how you feel to his face rather than writing a letter.
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Posted 05 July 2009 - 05:48 PM

Rejection letter? O.o
I've heard of confession letters, but no rejection letters, aha.
Good luck.
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Posted 05 July 2009 - 06:17 PM

a rejection letter it sort of stupid ;s sorry if i offended you.
just ignore it and if he brings up his feelings toward you again
tell him u dont feel the same way
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Posted 05 July 2009 - 06:30 PM

letter's are stupid i swear,
worse way to hurt someone..
even thinking of writing a letter is stupid..
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Posted 05 July 2009 - 07:09 PM

rejection letters are pathetic. it's like you don't have the courage to face them, so why should they take your letter seriously. Just talk to him, and say you're flatter that he likes you, but unfortunately you don't return his feelings.



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Posted 05 July 2009 - 07:12 PM

yeahh... i agree^ ._.' i'm pretty sure a rejection letter would just make things worse
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