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#1 User is offline   Ice_Angel17 

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Posted 06 July 2009 - 04:16 PM

Ok! I have a little problem. This random guy ran after as i was walking home from school to ask for my number. I gave it to him (don't know why). He text me the next day asking for a date. This will be my first official date. I am nervous about this. But, I like this other guy from my school ( i am taking summer school at another school) he doesn't know because i tend to hide away when i like someone. Well, nothing really hide but not show it. I hate this because I am in college and i sound like a little kid which i don't want to be. Anyway, can you guys help me. What should i do with my problems and the two guys?
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Posted 06 July 2009 - 04:26 PM

invite both of them to the same date and watch the hilarity ensue!
simple as that for your simple ass
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#3 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 06 July 2009 - 04:33 PM

Choose the guy that asked you. Would you reject a job offer and wait for the one you want, which probably won't happen?
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Posted 06 July 2009 - 04:55 PM

You're going out with a guy who you didn't know asked for your number off the street...?
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#5 User is offline   xwinnie_lovex 

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Posted 06 July 2009 - 05:34 PM

um.. are you sure the guy who asked you is safe?

cuse you really dont know him..

i suggest you guys stay at a very public and crowded place to ensure your safety

about the two guys....

date that guy who asked you
and see how he is
if you dont like him
then go for the other guy
cuse hes not going anywhere
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Posted 08 July 2009 - 02:24 AM

take some time first to know this "unknown" guy better.

about this guy that you like from the other school, well set him aside first (i assume he doesn't know you personally)
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#7 User is offline   lil_miss_kawaii 

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Posted 08 July 2009 - 10:39 AM

Ummmmmmmm ~ Do you know this guy that gave you his number? Like is he from you school?

Sounds a bit dodgy just reading it BUT if he is from your school and you have mutual friends etc
then I think you should give this random guy a chance ~ like the previous poster said
You wouldn't decline a job offer because you are waiting for a better one you want which chances
are you probably won't get because your application is a bit lackish

lol

Just get to knw the random guy better ~ who knows he could be the one!

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Posted 08 July 2009 - 11:24 AM

If you know the guy and you tend to have some sort of attraction towards him. Go for it I say, just don't get too caught up if you're main goal is to be with the other guy
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#9 User is offline   choot 

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Posted 08 July 2009 - 01:49 PM

ummmmmmm do u personally know both the guys? in my opinion, random guy > crush. at the least the random guy has the guts to even approach u and let u know that he's somewat interested. BUT safety is first. if that random guy is soemone u dont know at all.........you probably want to bring a friend nearby or something.
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Posted 08 July 2009 - 02:20 PM

Going on a date =/= becoming boyfriend and girlfriend. Take it as a "free trial" sort of thing. You like him at the end of him or want to go on more dates? Go ahead. Don't want to continue on? Then don't.
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#11 User is offline   Ice_Angel17 

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Posted 10 July 2009 - 03:01 PM

haha sorry if the problem was a little jumble up. I was just going on and onSo I am taking summer school at another college and this is where i met the random guy. Well, the random guy ( i don't know and not attracted to. ) keep on texting me asking me out but i keep telling him i am busy (which i am). The guy from my school (cutie!! ) we were partners for a class and that how i met him. I don't know. Towards the end of the school year, I started to like. how do you guys...girls get guys you like to notice you?
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#12 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 10 July 2009 - 03:33 PM

By making your presence known by taking the initiative.
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Posted 10 July 2009 - 04:07 PM

as said. you could be a cute girl that randomly comes up to guy and says "hi." o-0' it'd be hard not to notice that.
_ hm.. reminds me of that manga, The world god only knows. all those strategies to land a love-interest... rofl. take a read over at mangafox.com. it's a romance/comedy with gaming references of a diff. kind.
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Posted 10 July 2009 - 04:11 PM

dates are just dates, you're not gonna marry nor become a couple after a date lol

tis kinda strange you just gave him your number...but why not go out with him and give him a shot?
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