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Your Bf/gf Obsessing Over Idol Groups what do you think about it?

#1 User is offline   ddalgi 

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Posted 06 July 2009 - 10:02 PM

does it annoy you?
do you not care?
oppinions on it?


for me,
it really annoys me
my bf likes snsd and wondergirls
i tell him to date them instead
i know its childish but urgh!
its not fair cause i dont have their makeup artists and coordinators so of course im not as pretty as them dry.gif

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#2 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 06 July 2009 - 10:17 PM

Screw your bf, I think you look nice regardless. Let's get it on.
Is that what you'd like him to say once in awhile?
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Posted 06 July 2009 - 10:17 PM

ah.. what's worse is when they talk about a certain fictional character.. and i don't mean mr.vampire.

i mean. o_o' at least idol groups you can admire for their talent... or so perceived.
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Posted 06 July 2009 - 11:45 PM

No as bad as having an obsession with a fictional character
Yea, you know who I'm on about ! biggrin.gif LOL
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 02:16 AM


it's just like how you girls go loving you're boy groups; Shinhwa, se7en etc.

don't blame us for admiring attractive women when you gals admire cute men.
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 06:55 AM

im alright with it ; as a matter of fact i can use his idols to make fun of him XD and vice versa
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 07:25 AM

try dating a girl who is obsessed with dbsk.....

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Posted 07 July 2009 - 07:31 AM

usually people grow out of it after 18..... there is a difference between obsession and appreciation.

obsessing over idol groups when you're an adult is pretty pathetic imo.

it makes a guy look pretty childish/gay when they obsess over celebs or groups.

bringing a girl over to your house and having posters of wondergirls/SNSD is more of an anti-poon than having mclovin as your best friend.
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 09:15 AM

LOLLLL
im a girl and i love snsd & my bf got me their minialbum.. hes amazed at how excited i get over those girls but he knows im no les happy.gif
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 10:43 AM

LOL. I kind of think it's freaky. o____o
no fanboys for me please, kthx. unless if they're myyy fanboys. then that's a different story. ;D LOL.

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Posted 07 July 2009 - 10:44 AM

He likes them right?
But he's with you...that means he likes YOU.
don't worry.
Unless he goes OVERBOARD


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Posted 07 July 2009 - 10:51 AM

you are being childish.
why are you acting like you're in a competition with snsd&wg for your bf's love?
and that last line regarding the makeup&coordinators making them look pretty sound even more immature.

you're probably pretty too. i don't think you should really get annoyed over anything unless your bf OBSESSES (&only if he's actually obsessed. don't say he's obsessed if he's not) over them and neglects you.
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 12:32 PM

Me i dont care if my gf looks at other celebrities, they are not the real person, its an image so it doesn't matter

you are being immature haha. Its not like hes gonna go with them . He loves you of course not them. Im sure he finds you the prettiest girl or he wouldn't be with you.

These stars he likes are not better than you in his eyes so stop worrying about that. there will always be girls prettier than you, men more handsome then him, men with big penis than him lol. just be happy with yourself.

im sure he loves you very much.

Ask him
do you find me prettier than those girls? (this will help you feel secure)

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#14 User is offline   xwinnie_lovex 

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Posted 07 July 2009 - 12:43 PM

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try dating a girl who is obsessed with dbsk.....


^ LOL THAT IS SO ME!!

ya i tend to talk about jaejoong WAYYYYY too much
i think my boyfriend sometimes gets annoyed with me cuse of how much i talk about them
D:

but i cant help it!!
besides
my boyfriend is white and dances (cant sing)
so jaejoong just fills that lil void my boyfriend doesnt do for me!

haha sometimes when i talk about them too much
he would start talking about snsd or wondergirls just to annoy me too ohmy.gif
(hes like asian on the inside)

so ya i think its fine if couples crush on celebs
i think its okay if a girl is a bit overly obsessed (yes its annoying, but at least its not gay)
and its not okay if a guy is OVERLY obsessed cuse that makes them feminine and kinda gay.
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 12:52 PM

"Why are you breaking up with me?"
'I've met someone new... Edward Cullen.'
"WTF!?"

Lmao, this thread so reminds me of that. But personally... it would be extremely annoying to date someone that's obsessed with some girl group and always talking about that particular group.
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#16 User is offline   lxh 

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Posted 07 July 2009 - 01:02 PM

QUOTE (adiavoy @ Jul 7 2009, 03:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
"Why are you breaking up with me?"
'I've met someone new... Edward Cullen.'
"WTF!?"

Lmao, this thread so reminds me of that. But personally... it would be extremely annoying to date someone that's obsessed with some girl group and always talking about that particular group.


LOL, this thread reminded me of that too, especially that one Yahoo! question. Oh god lol.

I get jealous and annoyed when my boyfriend talks about Aya Hirano or some anime character (he's not a korean fan). I can't be compared to them >_<, I'm your average girl. But then overtime I learn to deal with it, it's not that bad anymore.
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 06:03 PM

If my bf were to constantly talk about his obsession of celebrity girls then of course it'd annoy me but if he just admired them and that's it then I'm okay with it. I like DBSK and big bang and other groups but I only talk about them with my friends, never with my bf.
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 06:07 PM

As long as they aren't ridiculously obnoxious and don't compare you to them and everything, I wouldn't be too worried. It's true that the obsession DOES go away after a while but as long as your lover appreciates the time they have with you and they're grateful for you then there's not too much of a problem smile.gif if it bothers you though, I'd talk to him about it.
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 06:13 PM

My boyfriend doesn't obsess over groups....but if he did, I would deffinatly have a problem with it!
............Unless the group was 2PM. Then it's okay, haha =D
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Posted 07 July 2009 - 06:40 PM

As long as it's a healthy obsession that doesn't disturb his daily life, there's nothing wrong with it. To the OP, I don't think you should worrying about something like this, unless he spends more time with them by sitting in front of the computer, spends his money on collectibles, CD's, and junk rather than you, or has a shrine of them o_o

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