The Truth About Guys And Guys Relationships. what do they do when they hang out?
#1
Posted 07 July 2009 - 10:14 AM
Of course a lot of things. No , really they don't do anything. Relationships with guys and guys together. I can be wrong, since I'm not a guy. And not everyone is the same, but here is for the general guys. They like to call each other , to hang out, but they don't do anything. Then when they come together, they ask each other " so what do you want to do so?," And they tend to like to ask each other that for a few times, until someone strike up a thing to do. Unlike GIRLS, we like to hang out , with a reason first at hand. For example, let's go shopping together! , Something like that. Then when the group of guys are together they always tend to think of something like " let's hit it to the bat mobile! Drive around and maybe something will come to mind!" . And yes, they love driving each other cars. And show off each other's cars. Then comes in the spurr of the moment. When one person, say something, NO MATTER IF IT'S STUPID or not, they'll do it. At that moment, to them, it's the BEST THING on earth to do, their " GREAT IDEA," like how they say it... " alrite then!" they are all very excited, about that one idea!.
For example: (real experience that this one guy was saying) " me and my buddies, when to drive in the car, and one of us, decided it'll be cool to light a firework and throw it out the window, WHILE DRIVING" so they do it, because at that time, they thought, it was a great idea! The best one on earth. Then after awhile , once again spurr of the moment, they didnt think it was cool enough. because it exploded at the wrong time. So they decided to hold on to it, longer, before throwing it out. And right at that time, the police came! And the guy driving the car, slow down, to make sure he's at the speed limit. And the guy holding the fireworks, was looking at his other buddies in the car, going " OMG WHAT TO DO WITH THIS??????? IT'S STILL LITE" . And of course right at that time, they all know what they were doing was stupid, and ask themselves why did we even believe that loser who came up with that idea?. And at the end, the guy with the fire cracker, just put it under his lap. ....
All guys once again, may I say is not like that. But in general , some are. And this is the reason why they don't like to make decision when we ask them to. They really don't have anything in mind.
Guys are mostly just easy going, unlike us girls. We like to do things ... We like talk about EVERYTHING. ....
SO what do you think? What do you do when you go hang out with your friends?
#3
Posted 07 July 2009 - 10:39 AM
-I remember a guy friend called me up to hang out, and we did, all throughout the day was awkward and there's nothing to talk about. I don't do well with sports etiher, but that's something i rather do then to hang out with my guy friends.
#4
Posted 07 July 2009 - 10:42 AM
Maybe the young ones do absolutely nothing...
some guys hang out and smoke and talk about cars
others go to there guys and talk about other chicks too and other disloyal stuff they would not share with there girl friends (since girls gossip)
WHO KNOWS.
#5
Posted 07 July 2009 - 10:50 AM
Guys gossip too. A lot in fact.
In any case..I'm not sure where this topic is to go. I'd have to agree with Hyuni, you seem fairly clueless about guys. My guy friends are completely different then the ones you describe.
#6
Posted 07 July 2009 - 12:04 PM
#7
Posted 07 July 2009 - 12:18 PM
Indeed, when we get together, we just stand around nodding heads and stuff. You know, just like how they portray us in the media and cartoons. You girls would never understood the power behind a single nod of our heads. It turns the tides in entire battles.
#8
Posted 07 July 2009 - 12:37 PM
#9
Posted 07 July 2009 - 12:49 PM
And I can definitely relate to the random driving around and doing dumb stuff. I did that a lot w/ my guy friends my junior and senior years of high school.
Oh and I'm definitely not going to lie - guys do gossip. Call it girly or nosy, but - yep, we do. I admit it. Talk smack about other guys or go into detail about other people's relationships (he cheated on her, she had sex w/ this guy, etc etc). I've had 4 guys over at my house once and all we did was talk about people. x.x
Overall, I think what guys do together depends on the type of people. For example, guys who want to drink (alcohol) with me - I might not necessarily go shopping with them. Guys who call me up to get boba or dinner, I might not necessarily drive around aimlessly and do dumb stuff with them. Guys do different things with different types of guy friends.
#10
Posted 07 July 2009 - 12:50 PM
When my boyfriend's friends call him, it's something specific. "Let's play baseball." "Let's see Transformers." "Let's play Call of Duty." And then they do it. They don't just hang around and do nothing.
As a matter of fact, me and my girl friends are way less decisive about things. If anything, I'd say guys are MORE decisive because they don't care. When it's me and my girl friends we're like "What do you wanna do. I dunno, what do you wanna do. I dunno."
#11
Posted 07 July 2009 - 12:58 PM
The guys you describe sounds like those guys that are in high school/early 20s.
#12
Posted 07 July 2009 - 01:01 PM
#13
Posted 07 July 2009 - 01:29 PM
When my boyfriend's friends call him, it's something specific. "Let's play baseball." "Let's see Transformers." "Let's play Call of Duty." And then they do it. They don't just hang around and do nothing.
As a matter of fact, me and my girl friends are way less decisive about things. If anything, I'd say guys are MORE decisive because they don't care. When it's me and my girl friends we're like "What do you wanna do. I dunno, what do you wanna do. I dunno."
Exactly what I was gonna say. Sometimes I envy the simplicity and straightforwardness of guys.
Us girls... why must we always overcomplicate the littlest of things?!
My bf once told me that when he gets together with his buddies and talk, they crack open the beers and talk about sports, cars, girls, and every once in a while, their poop (how big it was, how long it took for them to get it out, etc.). Not sure whether or not he was joking about that last part...

BS JP
#15
Posted 07 July 2009 - 03:59 PM
In any case..I'm not sure where this topic is to go. I'd have to agree with Hyuni, you seem fairly clueless about guys. My guy friends are completely different then the ones you describe.
oh man...agreed.
a lot of the guys here...they gossip soooo much >____> LOL.
that or they play DoTA or WOW. xD
i never realized how i ugly i was,
until i saw how beautiful you are. ♔
#17
Posted 07 July 2009 - 04:43 PM
Yup, pretty much like King of the Hill.
#18
Posted 07 July 2009 - 05:21 PM
it's very sad but true. GUYS YOU ARE SO MEAN!!!!
#19
Posted 07 July 2009 - 05:23 PM
#20
Posted 07 July 2009 - 07:23 PM
it's very sad but true. GUYS YOU ARE SO MEAN!!!!
It's only mean when you add adjectives like "demeaning" to each topic.
Let us call it "exciting talk" and therefore us guys are exciting.




























