[flyingpenguins]

I'm just wondering.
There's this guy, and I think I'd totally learn French & Korean for him (cause he's learning french, but he's korean haha)
How far would you guys go for a guy?
(Like, you're willing to move to another country for him, etc.)

[Mannosuke]

I will not risk my job and my life for someone unless we're legally bound.

EDIT: well that doesn't really answer your question, nor is it about a guy, but now you have an upper bound to work with.

[x3yajme]

I will not risk my job and my life for someone unless we're legally bound.

I second that.

[lil_miss_kawaii]

I would learn another lanaguage for a guy ~ if we were in a serious relationship

If we were engaged and he asked me to move closer to his family I would probably consider it
But it depends where he lives ~ if it was another country then I would have to think about it
If it was just like another county then I probably would ~ but I'd have to find a job first then I'd move
Not the other way round

Ummm ~ Wouldn't really do anything else...

[starber]

I second that.

THIRD !

But it depends if we are engaged or married. If its just a normal relationship, I wouldn't move to another country with him, lose my job, friends & family, or go all the way hahah

[AzizOnDeck]

The farthest I would go would probably be to learn their language haha yeah xD

[erinfinite]

I would go as far as he would go for me.

[babiloveyoo]

I would go as far as he would go for me.

Yup, I agree with you =).

[hannieoon]

I would go as far as he would go for me.

I second that.

[heheimawesome]

I will not risk my job and my life for someone unless we're legally bound.

EDIT: well that doesn't really answer your question, nor is it about a guy, but now you have an upper bound to work with.

legally bound?
married? why.
why do you let the legal bond decide what you do? isn't it the emotions that should? the attachment?
why the legal bond..
i mean i understand that if you're married that means the emotions are there.. but the way you say it sounds like as long as your married its fine

what if you're 3-4 years into the relationship, you see yourself marrying this person but aren't official yet. say you're 23 and you started dating at 19-20

what would you do then? just because you're not legally married you wouldn't?

[Mannosuke]

legally bound?
married? why.
why do you let the legal bond decide what you do? isn't it the emotions that should? the attachment?
why the legal bond..
i mean i understand that if you're married that means the emotions are there.. but the way you say it sounds like as long as your married its fine

what if you're 3-4 years into the relationship, you see yourself marrying this person but aren't official yet. say you're 23 and you started dating at 19-20

what would you do then? just because you're not legally married you wouldn't?

Emotions? lol, if you're going to let your emotions dictate how you act, that's like putting your life on the line and hoping things work out.

Marriage from my understanding comes with a lot of financial benefits and other securities in the event that something happens. I don't think about it much nor have I done too much research on exactly why people would choose to marry than not, but maybe I'll looking into it more to justify exactly why I would think that way.

In an age where divorce runs rampant (at least in the states), marriage doesn't seem to be that big of a deal, but I prefer to have concrete evidence that there's reason for me to be re-assured that giving up my job, school, and essentially whatever I've settled down with is enough to get me to move.

Want to move? Give me the reasons. These types of questions mean nothing without any details, like maybe if the partner got a great job offer such that someone is able to support the two of us, then sure.

I'm not prepared to move to another country and start all over for no real reason.
But whatever floats your boat.

[Regina Rae]

Not very far, ;____;

[xqtpi]

I'll go as far as my tank of gas can take me. =)

[kansaieito]

If I know him pretty well, and have gas, and it's not after 3:30am...I'd pick him up if he was stranded in the middle of nowhere with no money and a dying phone.

otherwise...I'd be nice? o_o

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Nothing.
For a very obvious reason.

[style_eun]

I'd go a little less far than he would, just because I'm pretty insecure.

[cheerydumdum]

hm. dunno. depends on how much i like him. but i'd probably go pretty far. just not as far as risking my job, my family, or my friends. maybe i'd risk my life for him, but really, who can say for sure? i'll probably panic if anything like that ever happens. i guess i'd be willing to wake up super early to cook him a huge meal and drive really far just to see him. lol i don't know.

[ny-sw / ny_sw.]

I'd go a step further than he would. because that's just how I am.
but I'd never. ever. let him know that.

[kyungxah]

visit his homeland..which is in korea
im currently in the usa.
we've been dating for 7months
i love my bf! hes the best!
but sadly hes moving back to korea in 2 weeks T_T

SO...i will visit him in korea

thats how far i can go for someone i love

[Christinaisweird]

I second that.

all aboard.