[lalagladys]

When you are rejected (or face heartbreak), how do YOU move on? [:

Because basically i got rejected last night, ):
I felt as if I was wasting my time on this boy
so i confessed (he already knew -__-'') && i asked him
&& it basically went down like this :

Me : You know i like you right? o:
Him : really?
Me : You didn't know ? o: How did you not know ? o:
Him : when did i ever not know ? o:
Me : So you knew ? o:
Him : yeah,
Me : well, the reason why i asked you was because I'm worried that i might be wasting my time ): do you like me ?
Him : nope,
Him : Sorry.
Him :

UGH, then i changed the subject & talked about his icepack. [X
&& things went back to normal,
But I'm still sad, ):
so how do YOU move on? D:

[Mannosuke]

You asked online? And you even beat around the bush? Isn't that like a sin amongst women? No woman would accept a guy that ever did that and just call him a ball-less coward. Maybe he wasn't even serious.

But that's irrelevant to the matter.

How do I move on? I don't, I just think about it until I get bored of thinking about it. Why force yourself, that's unnecessary effort. But I don't go crazy over my emotions, so I can do that. Pre-occupying yourself with some puzzle games is great, or any games for matter. Or homework.

Some people are on the verge of killing themselves when they think about it.
So let's hope you aren't the type that goes crazy and stuff

[Lie]

Find someone better and more worthy of my time. Works like a charm.

[Meenuh]

I find other things to do. Mainly I just go play some computer games. When I break up with a bf I play games x100.

I hole myself up for months and months just playing computer games from morning til night. I don't have the time to do that anymore but I think it'd be more or less the same except it'd be work and theennn go play computer games. Lol.

[ohemqeex3]

talk to a bunch of supporting friends :] remember that they're always there for you when he isn't.
act like it doesn't phase you; show him that he doesn't mean anything and that he missed out on something great.
occupy your time by doing something productive that'll take your mind off him so he's not constantly on your mind.

[lil_miss_kawaii]

Find another person
Or
Just keep yourself occupied so you dont think about it
Like hang with friends, meet new people ~ just sort of go on with your life but more so

[starber]

NEVER ask anyone online. Period.
Well the best way to move on is to get another crush :/

[eyeluvyew<3]

Focus on other things like school, family, friends, pets, interests
Also, Don't try to find a better person.
Wait for one instead. Its even better to wait for a guy to like you first : )
Don't spend your time waiting though!
You can still wait and have fun at the same time!

Good Luck!

[Mryanhon]

you, stop talking to the person, you, delete him off facebook, you ...

ok who am i to talk, i fail at moving on ~ but all i know is no matter how much you like/love a person, if you're given enough time, if you're given enough pain, a person moves on ... so give it time, it'll hurt, that'll help you move on : )

it will take longer, if you try to act as though nothings wrong, ill tell you that from personal experience ... chances are, you still have hope, but that just slows u down in the "moving on" process : )

[lovenotee]

delete him from everything. delete any pics u two have together. etc.
dont stay in contact until you're fully over him, or u'll just fall back in that hole again.
get urself all prettied up and go out with your girls, etc.

[ny-sw / ny_sw.]

'don't chase 'em, replace 'em.'
Occupy yourself. spend time away from him. stop chatting as much, stop texting as much, stop talking as much.
live your life.. time heals everything.

[PureSoul]

Rather than relationships or your heartbreak,
Think about what you want to do in the future.
Set your mind on something you like and do it.
In time, the heartbreak goes away and you think
back and realize it's actually quite funny.
Trust me, I've been through it all -.-;;

[ihigh]

for me, it was just take some time away..think, relax, kick back, vent to a friend...get it all off your chest

then the rebuilding phase. forget the feelings[or attempt to] and meet more people.=] you'll find someone that likes you and you'll like him and everythin goes on from there

[Exquoise]

how you move on is basically deleting him from everything, not talking to him anymore, and realizing in reality how he doesn't like you back. it will work and you will move on, of course, it'll take time but it'll be worth it.

[Christinaisweird]

First is acceptance. Afterwards is just healing.
It's a good thing you've realized you're wasting time on him.
I mean what would after he said, 'yes.' It would been the worse relationship anways.
Girl, you have bigger and better things to do.