[Shiiine]

I have some friends that are willing to date people/have a bf/gf that they're not completely into or they're not completely into them
They tell me they just want to be with someone but if someone better came along they would drop their bf/gf in an instant

I personally don't usually date people more than once or twice if i know they're not interested in a relationship with me or if i'm just not that interested in them
Usually this also goes along with if a guy was interested in me but i know he's not completely over his ex or something o.o'

So i was just wondering if you soompier's are willing to date/be in a relationship with people you know aren't necessarily completely interested in you, why or why not?

[cheerydumdum]

whoooops. i messed up and read the question wrong. but anyways, i wouldn't go out with them. what's the point if i'm only gonna get hurt? sure, there's always the chance they'll end up liking me, but that probably isn't very likely. i'll only get more attached to them. people who aren't very interested in me probably are people who don't really care about me as more than a friend. i don't think i'd be very happy. if i really liked them, i probably wouldn't want them to be with someone they don't really like. and i'd rather find someone who truly likes me instead of someone who probably goes out with me because of pity.

[pandriuma]

i have people in my school who do that.
they go out for they sake of saying "yeah, i'm going out with someone"
it annoys the freak out of me b/c it's clear that they aren't into each other.
it's just passing by time. more like wasting time when you could actually meet someoe who fits you and vice versa.

i def. wouldn't go out with someone who still has feelings for their ex. or someone else. i wouldn't play someone like that either.
i mean ... what a self-esteem crusher.

[GreenTeaSparkles]

if i'm still at least a bit intrested, then yes, i will..as long as i have some interest in him.
If i don't like him AT ALL, then no. i find it really boring if i'm out with a guy i don't like. And couples like to call/text each other almost everyday. I will get so annoyed if a guy i don't like texts/calls almost everyday.

[muffinx3]

I don't like people who date another person just for the sake of dating someone.
That's pretty lame, if you ask me. You're basically using that person for the status and it shows that you're materialistic (the material being the boy).

And if someone was kinda interested in me and I was kinda interested in them, I'd rather wait till we're completely interested in each other to date. Atleast if it turns out that he doesn't like me, I wouldn't have wasted my time and energy into being in a relationship just to have it turn out to be nothing. You can say "Well you wasted time in figuring it out". Yeah that's also true, but it's not like I had my hopes up by being in a relationship that maybee it would work.

[xxvictastic]

no. :/
it`s really lame.
many guys have asked me out, but
i`m still waiting for "the one."
i want my first relationship to be perfect
and with someone i really care and love.

[twix0rz]

Nope. I will only date guys that i am interested in. Guys that i wasn't interested in asked me out and stuff...but i always say no. I don't want to give them any false hopes and lead them on. I am fine being single until i find a guy that i really want to date.

[MNLV27]

No I would not do that just so I can say, Yeah I have a boyfriend. I have to be emotionally into the relationship to be able to be with someone, and vice versa, if not then it's a waste of my time and his time to be together when we could simply do our own things and find someone who we actually like.