[yoochunee]

Okay so there's this guy I like. Let's just call him Joe.
So I met Joe through his friend(let's call him Dave) and Dave supposedly grew a liking for me.
I don't have any interest in Dave and I really just think of him as a good friend.
But because I texted him once in a while, they thought I liked him.
Well anyways, Joe and the other guys call me the Dave's girlfriend

Joe is the typical bad boy. He curses a lot and he doesn't really care about what others think.
And he doesn't mess with his friend's girls.
I don't know...I'm kind of confused because when I met Joe and the other guys last week, he actually seemed somewhat interested in me.
He usually always starts fights with me but that day he would stare at me and if I asked what he wanted, he'd just smile and look away.
So that happened and that was basically when I started to like him.

And then a week later I get a text from Joe: Are you coming?
me: Where?
Joe: To the movies. Dave didn't tell you?
me: No...lol
Joe: Me and him are going to the movies. Wanna come?
Me: sure

So I go to the movies. And when i got onto Joe's car, he didn't even look at me and he just said hey. I sat in the back so it was basically Joe and Dave talking.
He would only talk to Dave and if I said something, he would just respond and then start saying something else.
When we went to the theater, I said I would buy popcorn and Joe tells me to buy Gummy Bears and Crunches and a large coke as well.
So I do and he makes me carry it all too. I'm telling you, he's such an ass haha
Anyways we're in the theater and if I reach for the popcorn at the same time as him (you know those romantic dramas where their hands touch)...well he would shove my hand away and get the popcorn first.
Things like this, he would keep trying to pick fights with me. He would push my arm off the armrest, etc..

And then I went drinking with Joe and my cousin that night and my cousin was out smoking with him and this was their conversation.
her: You know it'd be awesome if you went out with my cousin. What do you think about her?
him: Her? She's cute. But she's Dave's girl.

Later on he got drunk and he grabbed my shoulder for support. And then he grabbed my hand and just held it for a while.
And I got a mosquito bite on my knee so I showed it to him. He slapped it so I was like wtf??
And he smiled and rubbed it and just kept his hand there. (We were sitting next to each other on the steps)

Ahhhhhhhhh I'm so confused.
Does he like me? Do I have hope?
Help!

[MRLEE]

Hes just a tease.
But maybe there is a chance
Just grab him, shake him, and be like
"HEY YOU. ME LOVE YOU LONG TIME"

[diam0nds.]

LOL to MRLEE.

I think this Joe likes you. You should tell him that you like him, or establish the fact the you don't like Dave and you two don't have anything going on. I mean, the only way Joe's going to know the way you feel is if you tell him.

[AngieK]

Even if he likes you, he probably won't act on his feelings because of Dave. That's what a good friend would do after all. =/ Just sayin'

[[HyuNi]]

Just to add onto what Angie said...

Even if you and Joe became a couple, don't expect he'll turn into a perfect boyfriend.
If you like guys that swear, rude, ignore you in front of his friends, hits you, etc there's tons of guys like that. Just visit a prison.

He's showing you what he's really like. I find that a lot of girls don't take guy's actions at face value, which as a guy, I completely do not understand. It's not a matter of if he likes you, but you do really like that kind of guy?

[Meenuh]

Even if he likes you, he probably won't act on his feelings because of Dave. That's what a good friend would do after all. =/ Just sayin'

I agree. I wouldn't even want to put myself into a position where i'd possibly tear their friendship apart. It'd be so so awkward on so many different levels.

The way he picks fights with you makes him sound immature. I wouldn't want to deal with a guy like that.

[Mannosuke]

And he doesn't mess with his friend's girls.

And then I went drinking with Joe and my cousin that night and my cousin was out smoking with him and this was their conversation.
her: You know it'd be awesome if you went out with my cousin. What do you think about her?
him: Her? She's cute. But she's Dave's girl.

It sucks to be in your position.
Is dave a bad boy too?

[greenana]

You should tell him straight up that you like him and not Dave.
I mean you're not even Dave's girlfriend. Tell him before it's too late.

[shining_star[:]

^ agreed and lmfao mrlee