[Melody.Love]

so you met this guy and you think ohh he doesn't look that bad
and you exchange numbers and friend each other on like fb and what not.
have they ever turned like obsessive. like texting you everyday
calling you constantly and like fb chatting you and whatever.

this has happened to me and my friends soo many times.
the guys don't look weird and they seem like potential like love interest ;D
but then they get really like obsessive to the point where the guy was asking me where i was
and why i wasn't immediatly texting him... and we aren't even dating o_O
like its such a turn off and they seem obsessive.
maybe they are just not what i thought they were.

haha has this ever happened to you?

[ShadowMax76]

x_X' chyeah... i advise ya not to strike 'em dead into zombie mode with that smile of yours. even the most charming of men can be reduced to an obsessive creature. or at least a not-so charming one.

_ um.. actually. i'd say the opposite happens. i'm not sure if it's because girls normally worry about being seen as 'clingy' or 'easy' but.. o-0' yeah..

_ routine + balance = the way.

[shenrou]

Some likes these type of relationships
Some don't like them


men and women can be equally clingy/controlling

If you're the type of person that likes space, then the clingy type might not appeal to you.

It's more important to accept them as they are. If you can't accept them then you may try to change them and that means you will become the controlling type of person.

[choot]

it happened once.......and VICE VERSA.

for me when that happened, i stopped talking to him because i
was just so weird out to the point that i cant even talk to him
because i feel like i will be mean to him when i see him.

however that was ages ago. now, i sort of wish that i
could've been more mature and just talk it out.

[_ATELIER]

yeah, i just ignore 'em and move on lol
it's not like i have any interest so, i don't feel bad either.
i hate clingy people.

[Elee]

yeah T_T omgsh. eek. big turn off. !!!

[chocopocky]

Hey dude.... same here, it gets to the point where you're practically sick of them.

[dothat36]

yes... this one guy used to text me ALL the time, insist to always give me rides (not the i mind..lol),
ask me on dates every time he saw me.... he used to get mad when i talked to other guys, and i
was like WE AREN'T DATING!!! well, after I let him down a few times he seemed to undestand.
but a few days ago I got out of my bedroom to drink water and there he was, in my house, playing
pool with my brother... WTF! ... how did that even happen? then he was all like, "are you surprised?,
I wanted to surprise you"

[tjh246]

thats what you get when you get guys on facebook based on their looks.

[cavil.]

Some guys are like that. Just be direct with 'em.

"Stop txting me, plz, KTHXBYE"

[Octopus__]

Oh man. This has happened to me
before, but over myspace, lol. I
didn't think it was creepy until he
called me one day on my cell phone.
I didn't give him my number, so I was
really weirded out. I thought he was
pretty cool, so I kept the potential
relationship steady. That is.. until he
called me one day saying he was
outside my house. That was when I
knew he crazy and stalkerish. After
that day, he kept calling and calling.
>>; It just kept ringing and I just
ended up picking up the phone and
asking, "WHAT?!" And then he started
yelling at me for not picking up his
previous calls. I just told him straight up,
"You're creepy. I don't like you. Stop
calling me." Sad thing was.. I had my
morning class with him everyday and
he kept trying to apologize and hug me.
-___-; Fail much?

[demllequ]

hahahah
I introduced my friend to a friend of mine
and he was totally smitten with her to the point that he kept chatting to her
and leaving her huge comments in her blogs and even suggested
that he'd go to Uni with her on the weekeneds when she told him
she was going to be there to do some work.
she told him that if he went then it would be the end of their
friendship. well... at least she got straight to the point

[supa'Wanki]

Some guys are like that. Just be direct with 'em.

"Stop txting me, plz, KTHXBYE"

that's called being an ass. you don't want to be an ass.