I met a girl about few months ago..
lalalala. editted so she can't read.
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What To Do..
#2
Posted 10 July 2009 - 02:51 AM
talk to her, ask her why she 'doesn't know'. if she says no or refuses to tell you the truth, move on. push yourself to let her go.
#3
Posted 10 July 2009 - 04:29 AM
x-X' ooh damn. puppy love takes two to tango. otherwise it's just blind man hitting the dance floor as the unblinded woman watches on.
_ um.. don't get too clingy? _ i don't mean run away/disappear. >_>' as big a part of our male instinct it is to do so when we feel unappreciated/taken for granted.
be calm. be a gentleman. give her freedom to make her choice. of course, do express how you feel and what you offer.
what happens happens. don't get too down if she makes the unfavorable decision.
_ um.. don't get too clingy? _ i don't mean run away/disappear. >_>' as big a part of our male instinct it is to do so when we feel unappreciated/taken for granted.
be calm. be a gentleman. give her freedom to make her choice. of course, do express how you feel and what you offer.
what happens happens. don't get too down if she makes the unfavorable decision.
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#4
Posted 10 July 2009 - 04:41 AM
Awe! That's so cute..!! I'm sorry about her, though.
FIRST, you could always wait it out. Feelings develop over time, and some times it's slower for other people. BUT-- from what it sounds, "we're not compatible," maybe she doesn't want to be with you. It could hurt, but that could be it. Maybe she sees you as a great friend, but at the moment she's not wanting it. You can either hold out your feelings, or try and get over her.
I suggest if you want to try and get over her I think again that's time.. you can't get over her the next day-- doesn't work that way. Maybe if you try and talk less, don't go over there as much, until you got your feelings straight.. I'm not saying you have to stop talking to her or being with her or anything, but it'll be really hard to try and get over someone when you are constantly being reminded by them because they are right there!! At least just take a tiny break for a month or so. Maybe you'll find interest in another girl, too.
The other option is if you want to wait it out. You pretty much hold on to your hopes and love and don't give up even after being rejected so many times. This can hurt A LOT, though but that's determination. In this option either or could happen, she'll either fall for you or just won't give in. So it can be quite risky. She may not give in and it'll just keep hurting, wasting your time on someone who isn't even considering it. Or she may fall for you, but from what it sounds that doesn't seem so likely. If her answers are, "I don't know." Then she isn't trying to hurt you by saying flat out, "No," She's just confused on how to say things. There can be hope-- but there also can't. I guess it's up to you really.. but best of luck!! I hope it works out.. D:
FIRST, you could always wait it out. Feelings develop over time, and some times it's slower for other people. BUT-- from what it sounds, "we're not compatible," maybe she doesn't want to be with you. It could hurt, but that could be it. Maybe she sees you as a great friend, but at the moment she's not wanting it. You can either hold out your feelings, or try and get over her.
I suggest if you want to try and get over her I think again that's time.. you can't get over her the next day-- doesn't work that way. Maybe if you try and talk less, don't go over there as much, until you got your feelings straight.. I'm not saying you have to stop talking to her or being with her or anything, but it'll be really hard to try and get over someone when you are constantly being reminded by them because they are right there!! At least just take a tiny break for a month or so. Maybe you'll find interest in another girl, too.
The other option is if you want to wait it out. You pretty much hold on to your hopes and love and don't give up even after being rejected so many times. This can hurt A LOT, though but that's determination. In this option either or could happen, she'll either fall for you or just won't give in. So it can be quite risky. She may not give in and it'll just keep hurting, wasting your time on someone who isn't even considering it. Or she may fall for you, but from what it sounds that doesn't seem so likely. If her answers are, "I don't know." Then she isn't trying to hurt you by saying flat out, "No," She's just confused on how to say things. There can be hope-- but there also can't. I guess it's up to you really.. but best of luck!! I hope it works out.. D:
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#5
Posted 10 July 2009 - 04:44 AM
QUOTE (simplicit @ Jul 10 2009, 08:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
talk to her, ask her why she 'doesn't know'. if she says no or refuses to tell you the truth, move on. push yourself to let her go.
QUOTE (ShadowMax76 @ Jul 10 2009, 10:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
x-X' ooh damn. puppy love takes two to tango. otherwise it's just blind man hitting the dance floor as the unblinded woman watches on.
_ um.. don't get too clingy? _ i don't mean run away/disappear. >_>' as big a part of our male instinct it is to do so when we feel unappreciated/taken for granted.
be calm. be a gentleman. give her freedom to make her choice. of course, do express how you feel and what you offer.
what happens happens. don't get too down if she makes the unfavorable decision.
_ um.. don't get too clingy? _ i don't mean run away/disappear. >_>' as big a part of our male instinct it is to do so when we feel unappreciated/taken for granted.
be calm. be a gentleman. give her freedom to make her choice. of course, do express how you feel and what you offer.
what happens happens. don't get too down if she makes the unfavorable decision.
thank you. very helpful.
QUOTE (Fumouffu @ Jul 10 2009, 10:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Awe! That's so cute..!! I'm sorry about her, though.
FIRST, you could always wait it out. Feelings develop over time, and some times it's slower for other people. BUT-- from what it sounds, "we're not compatible," maybe she doesn't want to be with you. It could hurt, but that could be it. Maybe she sees you as a great friend, but at the moment she's not wanting it. You can either hold out your feelings, or try and get over her.
I suggest if you want to try and get over her I think again that's time.. you can't get over her the next day-- doesn't work that way. Maybe if you try and talk less, don't go over there as much, until you got your feelings straight.. I'm not saying you have to stop talking to her or being with her or anything, but it'll be really hard to try and get over someone when you are constantly being reminded by them because they are right there!! At least just take a tiny break for a month or so. Maybe you'll find interest in another girl, too.
The other option is if you want to wait it out. You pretty much hold on to your hopes and love and don't give up even after being rejected so many times. This can hurt A LOT, though but that's determination. In this option either or could happen, she'll either fall for you or just won't give in. So it can be quite risky. She may not give in and it'll just keep hurting, wasting your time on someone who isn't even considering it. Or she may fall for you, but from what it sounds that doesn't seem so likely. If her answers are, "I don't know." Then she isn't trying to hurt you by saying flat out, "No," She's just confused on how to say things. There can be hope-- but there also can't. I guess it's up to you really.. but best of luck!! I hope it works out.. D:
FIRST, you could always wait it out. Feelings develop over time, and some times it's slower for other people. BUT-- from what it sounds, "we're not compatible," maybe she doesn't want to be with you. It could hurt, but that could be it. Maybe she sees you as a great friend, but at the moment she's not wanting it. You can either hold out your feelings, or try and get over her.
I suggest if you want to try and get over her I think again that's time.. you can't get over her the next day-- doesn't work that way. Maybe if you try and talk less, don't go over there as much, until you got your feelings straight.. I'm not saying you have to stop talking to her or being with her or anything, but it'll be really hard to try and get over someone when you are constantly being reminded by them because they are right there!! At least just take a tiny break for a month or so. Maybe you'll find interest in another girl, too.
The other option is if you want to wait it out. You pretty much hold on to your hopes and love and don't give up even after being rejected so many times. This can hurt A LOT, though but that's determination. In this option either or could happen, she'll either fall for you or just won't give in. So it can be quite risky. She may not give in and it'll just keep hurting, wasting your time on someone who isn't even considering it. Or she may fall for you, but from what it sounds that doesn't seem so likely. If her answers are, "I don't know." Then she isn't trying to hurt you by saying flat out, "No," She's just confused on how to say things. There can be hope-- but there also can't. I guess it's up to you really.. but best of luck!! I hope it works out.. D:
haha mm.. i think i will just try talk to her less.. give her some space..
maybe she might miss me ^^
just maybe.
thank you.
#6
Posted 10 July 2009 - 05:58 AM
Don't let go, continue your hot pursuit. They play silly mind games then forget what they actually want.
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