[koezane]

What is your special trick to geta guy you like to fall in love with you so he will chase you harder?

The situation is that a guy keeps you company and you like him but he doesn't "chase" you hard. he just acts disinterested and laid back but still spends time with you. you want him to be on the defensive. he says he w would call him and pester you and give you flowers and gifts if he falls in love with you. what do you do to make him do so?

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

Well... If I want a guy to fall in love with me, I would tell him I was gay and hope he is too.

[eggball]

^

Lol @ that.

For me, I've never done that, but if I'm were to make sure a guy falls for me.
I'll appear @ where he's gonna appear.
I'll do things he like.
I'll dress up for his attention.

[ShadowMax76]

seduce/tempt him? o-O or jealousy... rofl. not advisable paths to go down, but it has something of a success rate - depending on the people involved, of course.

_ btw. o_O' if you li-.. -ahem-. if someone were to be interested in a guy, and he so happened to be reserved, o_O' why would you want to change that... wouldn't that change the reason of interest [the entire guy]? be it the reason or not, i'm sure it'd have an affect on the main reason; a reserved guy is not a clingy guy.

[eggball]

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Jealousy don't work at all.
hahaha.
He'll just think that you're insane.

[mintcracker]

Getting him to fall for you is not about appearing where he is all the time or wearing nice clothes, it's about being yourself, showing your quirks and personality...Getting him to see how you truly are, how you think and act.

You can't force love, it's natural and takes time.



You guys are all talking about getting him interested or getting him to like you. Love is SO much more.

[Mannosuke]

Throw rocks at him. Always keeps him in defense mode.

[mintcracker]

^ ahahaha I tend to like throwing harmless insults to damage his ego lol.

[mrskimjinho]

You can't make a guy fall in love with you. Briefly interested? Maybe. But actually making someone genuinely love you? ...No. There's something called free will and forcing someone to fall in love with you breaks all laws of free will.

Love isn't something you can just turn on and off to your liking.
Imagine all the heartache that can be avoided if love were that simple.

But making a guy want to chase you? Do what any desperate girl would do: flash a lacey thong or maybe even a nipple if you're daring enough. If he's just as desperate he'll definitely shower you with attention.

[hellosally]

hahahaha my friend googled this.
google works.

i'd say push & pull
when you push for a while and there's no pull from that side, he's not the one.

[Mannosuke]

hahahaha my friend googled this.
google works.

i'd say push & pull
when you push for a while and there's no pull from that side, he's not the one.

Fish also play hard-to-get. They KNOW you're just waiting to reel them in.
No matter how many fish there are in the sea, it means nothing if you can't get any.

[loveof]

if you already know him.. your spending too much time with him.. you have to give him some time to miss you and appreciate you. try not talking to him every day give it some time like.. maybe every other 3 days or so.. be busy and don't focus everything on him. it's attractive when they know that you have plans and things to do other then waiting on him. if your always waiting for his call, his text msg, or for him to go on msn then your just going to become clingy. hope it helps!

[AnthonyKkoKko]

Getting him to fall for you is not about appearing where he is all the time or wearing nice clothes, it's about being yourself, showing your quirks and personality...Getting him to see how you truly are, how you think and act.

You can't force love, it's natural and takes time.



You guys are all talking about getting him interested or getting him to like you. Love is SO much more.