[donporkuloin]

I'm close to having a gf. We communicate a lot, but she never tells me.. but I feel like I need to be a better listener. Ladies, what can I do to be a better listener to my "girl?"

[hellosally]

if not your fault if she doesn't tell you things in the first place.. o-o?
haha listen to what she does say and bring up little things that she's said before


for example:
if you guys are buying something
"here's a pink one! your favorite color, right? ^^"

she'll notice that you actually pay attention to when she'll telling you things

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

Have you ever thought about being quiet for a few minutes?

[koezane]

you have the wrong idea. it isn't about listening.

its about anticipating. that means, you must understand her and her world so that you understand beforehand what she means see and hears. then you will end up "listening". if you find yourself listening and trying to understand her words only when they are spoken, then you are already too late.