[PinkVodka]

Do you consider it as cheating when your girlfriend/boyfriend checks out other guys/girls and think about having sex with them or think about stuff like "damn, she's hot! I wouldn't mind mind going out with him/her"?

What do you think about checking out other people while you're already in a relationship in general?

Do you check out other people while in a relationship? Have you ever caught your s/o doing it?


Share your thoughts and experiences!

[ong sta]

its not rlly cheating if your a human being you check out other ppl regardless....but if he or she is saying someone else is hot in front of their spouse i think it's kind of rude.

[CitrusFlower]

Well checking others out isn't cheating it's what we all do but thinking of being with another person is like mentally cheating but not completely cheating

[hireshi]

If you love your girlfriend/boyfriend then you wouldn't pay attention to others in the first place. No to mention "thinking about having sex".
In the more civilized countries, sex is something you have with the person you truly love, to show compassion. If you have thought about sex with someone else when you're already in a relationship then you're more or less screwed and might as well leave her/him.

Technically its not cheating since you ain't saying it out loud. But the average person should be able to figure out for themselves that you don't just have thoughts like that or check out other people when you're already taken.

[donporkuloin]

Thinking about it, and acting on it are 2 different things. As long as the girl is faithful and not acting on it .. it's not cheating in my book.

[xyunaxfantasiesx]

Checking others out is fine, I do it all the time and will continue to do so (mostly girls, although I'm not a lesbian lol).
However, fantasizing about sex with the person is going a bit too far for me, but I know we can't really help that, ugh.

[d a y.b r e a k]

harmlessly checking out people isn't cheating [fantasizing is another thing, that's just wrong]
hey, you guys can check out people together lol
as long as they think only of you at the end of the day

it depends on the type of relationship though
if you got trust



-TEAA`

[angels.disguise]

I dont think its cheating but it is really disrespectful.
harmless checking out during a relationship is fine though imo

[Daylightful]

No, that's not cheating at all~ @~@! But it is terribly painful I'm sure! And I would be worried! I think cheating is more of something physical or when you have ANY kind of romantic relationship with anyone. (Therefor, cybering is wrong too.) Such as kissing, touching someone inappropriately, or having sex. BUT-- I do not approve of the seeing another girl and saying that. That's just mean and hurtful..
Luckily, I'm not attracted to anyone physically and 100% based on personality. (People say I'm broken.) So I don't see "hot" or "ugly" guys. So I would NEVER look at anyone and think I'd wish I was with them. o_O My eyes would be solely focused on my boyfriend and him only! No other guy would be right for me in physical attraction! I think if you really loved someone your mind and eyes should be just on them, too. So I'd hope my boyfriend would do the same. It would hurt me dearly knowing he is thinking of other girls.. Like what if he is holding you and thinking of some girl you guys saw earlier. TT~TTv That would be quite painful! But I think everyone is different~ >~<v But nope! I don't think that's cheating!

[Amaranthine Memories]

Nope, it isnt cheating at all. Everyone lusts for another person, even if they're in a relationship. But, acting upon that lust will be considered cheating.

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

I had an ex-boyfriend who did that.
It's not cheating but it's extremely rude and disrespectful.
I wanted to slap him in the face every time he said, "Damn that girl has a nice ass." Just don't do it.

With my current boyfriend, he doesn't check out girls while with me and I don't check out guys while with him. We're just too focused on each other, haha.
But when I'm not with him, I know damn well that he checks out girls because it's just in a guy's nature. I ask him about it sometimes and he comments that he saw a cute girl at so and so but he never goes beyond that. I, on the other hand, check out guys discreetly but I never tell him I do unless he asks, lol.