[ginachan]

We recently just got back together. We were on a break for 1 month (his idea) and he wanted to get back together and wanted me to give him 1 more chance. The problem is his friends and I dont really get along. Lets just say I know his friends are bad influence on him, they're potheads, cheaters...they're just a**holes... . I know my bf is not like that but its really hard for me to trust him knowing his friends are like that and I can see how his personality has changed even though he's trying to change. I'm not saying his feeding off their bad habits, it's just sometimes he can be such an a**hole just like them. Now he thinks I'm acting like a kid freaking out about all this calling me immature, spoiled and I'm trying to give this relationship another chance and talk to him about how I feel, but he just can't seem to understand where I'm coming from.

[fredinsac]

Being with somebody you cannot trust leaves both sides miserable. You'll be stressing about whether he's faithful or not when you're not with him and he'll think you're paranoid. Not a healthy relationship at all.

[jpnoroe3]

if he's not willing to listen to you, that's bad..
try, but in the end, if he never even tries to understand you, then it shows he's not trying to improve the relationship

[OMGitzYOU]

you shouldn't have gotten back together if you can't trust him or you guys didn't come to an agreement about the issues before you got back together again so what was the point of the break o_o;;

[Samael]

this sounds a lot like all my relationships...they didn't trust me being around my friends either. they said they trusted me...but not my friends. weird.