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[lifelovebeauty27]

It is hard to say without seeing the two of you together, but it does sound like he is kind of flirting, OR he thinks you are such great friends that you won't mind him doing things like drinking your tea, etc. I want to say there is a chance, but I think you have to test the waters to see if there really is a chance or not. Do you flirt with him at all? His response to your flirting could be a helpful indicator!

[Mannosuke]

What do you mean by "chance"?

If you mean you're planning on making the move and asking him out, then yes.
If you mean you're planning to wait for him to ask you out, hard to say.

Opportunity is what you create for yourself.

[beatiingheartzx3]

well, i don't really know what to say
cuz my friends and i always drink each other's drink... we don't really care LOL

but if u like him, GO FOR IT
don't worry bout wat ur friends say!

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

I hope you are not going to wait for him to make the first move. If you really want him, go for it. Just don't come in and make another thread saying how you totally messed up because you hoped he was going to make the first move and end up regretting not taking initiative.

[Ninshark]

Well, there is always a chance. but given your context, I'd say that you should probably just tell him you like him, which I assume.
What's the worst that could happen? Your can of tea will still be full the next time you meet him? ha hah..
since you see him so often, even if it goes badly, you can still talk to him.

[Bubbie]

To me, the only thing he is doing is play fighting in some way, trying to get your attention. Do you know any of his friends? If so, have you heard anything from them, about you, or what he sees in you?

As all the other people said, it's up to you to advance the relationship.

[cow_vinh]

LOL the guy is totally trying to get at something!
I always get less germaphobic to people Im interested in.
so I would share a drink with only people I like (MOST OF THE TIME!!!)
sometimes I can just be really thirsty =P

also if the guy is talking to you a lot then yah he's into you.
this one girl would always talk to me when she liked me.

You should seriously ask him to simply hang out and watch a movie or something.
Make it sound like "just hanging out" instead of a date and if stuff happens then it happens. =P

^
This is what I'd do with a girl if I were in your position.
I'm still young and I don't have much experience but it sounds about right =]

[jaejoongiefied]

Make your move x) .
Ask him out .
He doesn't seem like the guy who would ask first .

[muffinx3]

We're not him and there's not enough examples, so maybe it's in his personality to be really comfortable with his friends.
The only way you'd probably find out is maybe make a subtle move and see how he reacts (if you're worried about getting rejected).

:]

[Mannosuke]

Forget subtlety, guys like confident girls. If you're going to make the move, you should put in your best effort.

[hobobear]

omg just do it.

what do you mean do you have a chance?
if he doesnt have a gf, ofcourse you have a chance.

[xwinnie_lovex]

um..
i share drinks with basically all my guy friends
even sometimes nonfriends
so i dont think the drink thing is a HUGE sign
unless he doesnt usually do that

you probably do have a chance
but like others said
you gotta make the chance

[eternal_bliss]

Ask him out. He sounds mildly interested but you'll never know if you just wait around.

If you really aren't comfortable asking directly, ask if he's seen the new harry potter movie or whatever and go together.

[~MinHee~]

OMG. don't do it.
Rejection is the worst thing EVER, and then it'll be awkward between you two FORVER after that.

it'll all be ruined.

I say, wait until he asks you out.

[Mannosuke]

OMG. don't do it.
Rejection is the worst thing EVER, and then it'll be awkward between you two FORVER after that.

it'll all be ruined.

I say, wait until he asks you out.

That is a myth and horribly exaggerated based on k-dramas.
I hope girls don't believe this when they start thinking whether they should make the move or not.

Guys play the game with fog of war ON, not OFF, and we take rejection straight-up.
Rejection is a pinkberry, deal with it. If you don't want it, don't get involved with relationships in the first place.

[starber]

Well ask the guy out. If he says no, it's his loss now isn't it?

[~MinHee~]

That is a myth and horribly exaggerated based on k-dramas.
I hope girls don't believe this when they start thinking whether they should make the move or not.

Guys play the game with fog of war ON, not OFF, and we take rejection straight-up.
Rejection is a pinkberry, deal with it. If you don't want it, don't get involved with relationships in the first place.

hey. I know guys liek that. Actually, a guy exactly like that, and girls ask him out all the time, he rejects them, everyone hears about it, their rep goes down the drain, and they never talk again. that's how it is. for some reason its more socially acceptable for guys to get turned down by girls. Not that it doesn't hurt just as much, but still.

[Mannosuke]

hey. I know guys liek that. Actually, a guy exactly like that, and girls ask him out all the time, he rejects them, everyone hears about it, their rep goes down the drain, and they never talk again. that's how it is. for some reason its more socially acceptable for guys to get turned down by girls. Not that it doesn't hurt just as much, but still.

I agree, there appears to be some outdated norm floating around that encourages guys to make the move first and that it's ok if the guy gets rejected it's part of his job anyways.

However, if you're just going to keep waiting, society isn't going to change, nor are you going to change, nor is the situation going to change. Nothing will change if you remain idle, and a lot of girls I know that take the first step into the real world end up enjoying it more than staying cooped up in their shell just going where the tide takes them.

"That's just how it is" is no excuse for one's inability to make the move. That's simply poor justification for lack of confidence. Girls constantly rant about how their man expects so much and therefore should be EXPECTED to provide just as much. Why isn't this the case with girls wanting confidence in a guy? No, "double standard" is not the answer, that's just an excuse that people fall on when they can't answer themselves.

[c0lap1nada]

Of course you have a chance, you just have to grab it.

And yeah, you might be thinking a little too much... '_' who cares about sharing a drink? Lol.