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Crushing On Your Older Brother's Friend Has anyone experienced this? Did it work out?

#1 User is offline   kissAndRUN 

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Posted 15 July 2009 - 06:36 PM

Well, lately, me and my older brother's friend have been talking and messaging to each other for some time, and its nothing special, just like normal conversations, haha.. but I think I'm starting to develop a crush on him ;x He's 2 years older than me.

I was wondering if anyone was ever in the situation I am in right now?
and did it work out? what happened?
because I'm starting to have doubts, i think i should just move on..
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#2 User is offline   sassa15 

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Posted 15 July 2009 - 06:46 PM

It really depends on your situation. If it's okay with your brother, it will turn out fine. Besides, you're just having a crush and maybe, if he's courting you, it will be okay.. You don't have to move on if you think you will win him.. You just need moving on if he says he doesn't like you and just treat you as a sister..
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Posted 15 July 2009 - 06:49 PM

Haha make your move before you're in the friend zone smile.gif
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Posted 15 July 2009 - 06:53 PM

wow this is like a guy's dream lol
your friends younger sister having crush on you

I guess the rule here is to be fast and furious
don't wait for anything, just make your move wink.gif
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Posted 15 July 2009 - 06:57 PM

If I was like five/six years old and liked my brother's friend who was like 15/16, does that count ?
LOLOL .
I was young back then -__- .
And no, it did not work out .
LOOL .
Why would it .
xD .

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Posted 15 July 2009 - 07:03 PM

I used to like a guy that was on my brother's baseball team. Needless to say, nothing happened. I think it would have just made things reeeeeally awkward between them. Talk to your brother about it first. If he's okay with it, then go for it.

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Posted 15 July 2009 - 08:11 PM

QUOTE (AresJK @ Jul 15 2009, 10:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
wow this is like a guy's dream lol
your friends younger sister having crush on you

I guess the rule here is to be fast and furious
don't wait for anything, just make your move wink.gif


how is that a guys dream? xD
its more like a nightmare from the awkwardness
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#8 User is offline   jjong_yoon 

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Posted 15 July 2009 - 08:15 PM

unless your brother approves dont go there.
and if he does, and it doesnt work out, end it nicely. you dont need your brother going down for murder.
but then again i might have this opinion because i know my brother would kick his friends ass if one day i dated one of them.
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#9 User is offline   I.♥_Y0U ;) 

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Posted 15 July 2009 - 09:02 PM

Not me but my friend was in that situation & it turned out horribly, but then her brother is extremely protective of her. But if your brother approves, go for it.
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Posted 16 July 2009 - 01:59 PM

At the beginning of this past school-year I had the hugest crush on my brother's best friend, who is a year older than me [I was a freshman, he was a sophomore], and I talked to him for a while and we went to homecoming together. But afterwards, I got to know him better and found out that he's the weirdest, most perverted guy EVER and I was like wtf was I thinking. I guess I was just blinded by his looks >.< So yeah, that didn't work out.

But later in the year I had a crush on another one of my brother's friends, but they're not that close...and instead of rushing into it I thought it would be better to become friends first. And I tried to turn it into something more but nothing ever came out of it :/ So now we're just friends, and I guess I'm okay with it. But I'm still kinda disappointed. I still wonder if the reason why it didn't work out is because he's friends with my brother...T_T



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Posted 16 July 2009 - 03:07 PM

Hahaha cute. For me it was the other way around. My friend's older brother asked me out three times and he was rejected all three times.

Anyways, I HAVE crushed on a friend's older brother once or twice wink.gif One was 2 years older than me. The other was 5 years older; lmao.
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Posted 17 July 2009 - 03:15 PM

no
it wont happen
ill murder him
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Posted 17 July 2009 - 06:44 PM

my brother is 5 years older than me.

so.. his friends are a lot older.

first instance was when I was 13, his friend was 18. Yeah, didn't work out. lmao.
Now I like his friend who is like 23. =_____= I have problems. lol.
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Posted 17 July 2009 - 07:38 PM

I had some like me in the past, but nothing happened.
While riding in the car with some, haha one was joking around putting his arm
around my shoulder, the other said "Your not suppose to go out with your friends sister."

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Posted 17 July 2009 - 10:32 PM

when my older brother went out with my friend OMG it was so damn akward seeing her in school.
and i was NOT okay with it so ask your brother if hes okay with it b/c my brother and i fought over this "issue" alot.
if hes okay with him make a move(:
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Posted 18 July 2009 - 05:17 AM

LMFAO. I actually liked 2 of my brothers friends.
I thought they were different from all the other guys from my brothers friends, but man, I was wrong.
Sad thing is, they both don't know that I really exsist. -______-;

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Posted 18 July 2009 - 09:58 PM

Okay.......that'd be gross if I had a crush on my older brother's friends because he's 14 years older than me. Lol. But my mom had a crush on her older brother's friend. They saw each other often, and eventually started dating for a few years. Now......he's my dad. Hahahah. Even though they're 8 years apart, it still worked out for them!!
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Posted 22 July 2009 - 04:24 AM

my older brother won't bring any of his guy friends to our house anymore. xD he keeps all the "cute" ones away from me. =( nah jks, but he hasn't ever let me talk to any of his cute friends. so, i've never been in that situation before. i don't think my brother would approve of it, considering he knows what kind of stuff they'd get up to and stuff, and he'd think that I deserve better than that.

i guess many of his guy friends wouldn't been too good for anyway. =P
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Posted 22 July 2009 - 07:02 AM

NO. DO NOT GO FOR IT.
it will ONLY estrange the relationship b/w your older bro and his friend. Imagine it--guys talk about things that they do with their girlfriends all the time with their friends. Think about her awkward it would be if your older bro's friend started talking about the date that you guys had. AWKWARD.
Find other guys. This one is not worth your time--it will only go bad places.

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Posted 22 July 2009 - 10:34 AM

Ummm ~

Tough situation

Cos aint one of the "guy codes"

*you should never date your friends siblings*
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But if hes okay with you have a crush ~ i mean do you even know if he likes you back?
Cos its just a crush then and it mean no harm ~

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