[ymt]

Say this girl really likes a guy. So when she feels that her girl friends may be "threats" (either it appears they also like the guy, or that the guy may like them), she would tell these girls bad stuff about the guy so that they won't like the guy. But then when she's talking about the guy to girls who aren't "threats", she would say nice things about the guy.

What do you guys think about this type of girl?

[ShadowMax76]

dishonest and deceitful conduct towards one's own friends in hopes for one's own possessing of love interest over one's own friends: eh... typical girl. lmao.

watch it. not long. -> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HG9CnI8O6e8

btw. jealousy ain't how much you love someone or how possessive you are, it's how insecure you are.

o0' i think insecure girls are... girls. >.>' a little scary.

[xAzumi]

Simple question requires simple, blunt, and straight forward answer!

She is deceptive, manipulative, jealous, and dishonest. She is ruining other girls reputation for her benefits, and destroying their lives for her own selfish needs. If she gets the guy, he will soon found out her ugly personality, because no matter how good she look, her personality will be seen overall, and she will be ugly inside and out.

[Kanzen]

Sounds like a lot of girls.

Is she horrible for doing that? No.

But she would have better conversations if she talked about herself, her accomplishments, what she's interested in, etc, rather than making petty comments about her "friends".

[heavenlydreamy]

totally insecure.
i think that's a shady way to win points.
if i win a guy, i wanna win him knowing that i really won him over.

but for reals, there are girls like that.
yah, there's nothing wrong for being you,
but, it's your head and your heart.

if she can play that game, let her play.

but you know, those girls will always stay on their toes being afraid and insecure.
while the other girls who aren't will live life living it.

*rants on*

[Limepop]

This is why girls scare me more than Brüno ever could. :[

[Christinaisweird]

At times, but it shouldn't be all the time for every guy you know?

At least she know what she wants, but what happens when the relationship between her and the guy ends?
No guy and no friends. I don't think that's worth it for a guy.
But it's her choice so whatever.

[<3StrawberryPocky<3]

Hm......I know a lot of girls in my school that behave the same way.....and I have to say it's sort of a poor decision to make. It's like choosing a guy over friends when there is no guarantee she will end up in a relationship with him. Moreover, her method caused her to lose so much. Even though it seems terrible, the sad truth is that it's so common among society........but people probably don't tell each other about it out. Lol.

[StephyT]

That seems pretty common to me.
I'd probably do the same thing if it got really serious.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Well the only risky thing I can think of is, If those girls tell the guy the things you've said to them.
LOL GG.

[ickboo]

to the girl...i think she's insecure (and maybe a little immature) about herself. level up, girl! he's with you right now, so be happy and stop worrying.

[tiffanydawn]

yes i think that girl is horrible, insecure and childish.

[The Pink Panda]

well, at least you can judge if she thinks you're hot or not

[joogrlpekaun]

If I were a guy, I think I'd lose interest in a girl who plays those kinds of games and said bad things about me behind my back when she supposedly likes me if I ever figured out what she was doing, especially since it seems like she'd also be the type to talk smack that's at best half true behind an ex's back after the eventual break-up. I don't think much of it as a fellow female, either. Like a previous poster already pointed out, it's both an insecure and childish thing to do and a stupid strategy that risks your friendships if your friends figure you out while not guaranteeing you the guy. Think about if you do get the guy after getting your friends to back off, too: they'll think it's fishy that you made him seem so undesirable to them only to grab him yourself, which makes it more obvious what you were doing.

Absolutely horrible? Maybe not quite that strong. Immature and selfish? Yes. Manipulative? Hell yeah. Even if it's common, that doesn't make it right.

[myxo]

In middle school, my friend and I used to like the same guy. She used to tell me bad things about the guy we both liked, but then she would always flirt with him. She'd tell me that she didn't like him anymore, but the fact was she was just feeding me a bunch of lies to get me to back off. Her acts of deception and manipulation qualified her as one of the worst friends I could have had. Friends don't do that to one another. Now reflecting back on it, she might have liked him a lot more than I did, which was why she went to extreme measures to deter me from liking him. I have no beef against her now, but it really hurt our friendship back then.

[sourpoplime]

I think all of you girls are being fake right now.

[Regina Rae]

I don't see anything wrong with that.

[_ATELIER]

she just wants him for herself that's all.
eliminating the competition?

[aznsweetie143]

she's stupid. [although, a lot of women are.]

desperate for some guy, so she talks him down? she should praise the guy she likes ==;;

it sounds really immature.

just being real is the way to go.

[supa'Wanki]

They're insecure about themselves, which is a downer.