[sweet-like-chocolate]

so theres this guy that I started speaking to on MSN quite recently.
hes three's years older than me and lives quite close but i've never like seen him in real life.
well anyway, we've been talking everyday for the past couple of days and sometimes the things he says really confuse me.
like, just ydai [this is the only one i can remember] we were talking and it was quite late and he kept saying he was bored and i was like 'what do you wan me 2 do?' and so he said 'entertain me' and used a winking emoticon. i asked how and he said 'use your imagination'. i didnt quite know hw to reply to that.
i know it must sound a bit perverted but hes not hes really sweet and funny [and not to mention cute!]
but i dont know what todo.
am i just blowing it out of proportion thinking tht he may like me? he saw my pic and sed i was really pretty.
is he just playing around?
what are yuor views?

[tehpockyninja]

umm...
yeah this has happened to me too...
more than once -___-
because i'm surrounded by heaps of ppl who think rape is funny
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but anyway
try not to think too much into it
i'm sure he is very sweet.

[ohemqeex3]

i'm taking your word for it that he's really sweet :]
he was probably just kidding around, but you should still be careful.
the internet does have some crazy perps these days.
get to know him a bit more before you start anything serious.

[HaplessChild]

wtf? Just ignore it. If he's really that bored he'll find something else to do. You ellicted that response by asking "what do you want me to do?"

[anniiepoo]

To be honest I dont think you can trust anybody over the internet. Ur 17 right? And he's 20... I dont know how 20 year old men think but from how he said 'entertain me' with a wink lol; it seems he wanted some cyber sex =P
U say hes really good looking; but who knows what's lying behind those photos you see (unless you've webcammed him or something). For all you know he could be some 50 year old creep.
He can't realli 'like' you if you've only met online, cz the way you chat can't exactly show the person you really are. He may think you're attractive and all but that's it.
Blah.. all Im saying is yea in my opinion he is playing around looking for a strip tease from some pretty girl online but that's up to you to decide. Just be careful girl!

[evz88]

sometimes when im really bored and tell this guy friend i talk to all the time to entertain me (im a girl btw) with no perverted thoughts lol, i usually want him to tell me something juicy that would entertain me or something he just replies with im not your personal clown most of the time though rofl. so maybe he wasn't being perverted by saying that but then again hes a guy hmm..

[Mannosuke]

He's just playing around. Don't go crazy over it.
It's a winking emoticon, I randomly select smilies at my disposal just to decorate my posts

[WoopieDaDoo]

To be honest I dont think you can trust anybody over the internet. Ur 17 right? And he's 20... I dont know how 20 year old men think but from how he said 'entertain me' with a wink lol; it seems he wanted some cyber sex =P
U say hes really good looking; but who knows what's lying behind those photos you see (unless you've webcammed him or something). For all you know he could be some 50 year old creep.
He can't realli 'like' you if you've only met online, cz the way you chat can't exactly show the person you really are. He may think you're attractive and all but that's it.
Blah.. all Im saying is yea in my opinion he is playing around looking for a strip tease from some pretty girl online but that's up to you to decide. Just be careful girl!

You basically just said everything I wanted to say lol =D

[simplicity85]

all type of people, you'd be careful and not take anyone so serious until you meet that person

[Pinkyx]

DANGGGG !!!`
hrmms....let's see...a hot guy...lives around you...how far? like really really realllllllllllllllly far or like...near your area or what?
and his cute...HOW CUTE? D:
ok..my point of you honey, if his realllyyy cute...be careful because he can easily get off your hand by another girl !
and guys can like...errr get really flirty or something like that which is...maybe they enjoy single life? or want to know more girls? the way he socialize? so dont keep his sugar mouth inside your head.
and with that ... can he go out often? are you allow to be out?
if both yes...im prefer you guys meet now !
if he can't or you can't then...hrmm...webcam?
and and and if you want his attention....try and play hard to get
cute guys like girls are hard to get. and if your too easy...he'll would just play with you!
like..whenever he asked for something...dont always say yes. and act like....his aint the only one you care for.
also, act REALLY REALLY NAIIVE AND HAPPY ! guys like girls that are happy! not all emo, sad, love freak, teeny bopper & like all those other common girls who are flirty..(well your guy seem flirty)
may allow to flirt with him? but if he gets tooooo far like...ehh for example...

"Me and you alone? " - him (yes i know random).

"oh great! i bring my dog along!" tahts just for him to get PWN and have lame replies or if you want to be hot and spicey you can go as "I'm fine "

Oh and dont act too boring..have something interesting to talk about so that he wont forget the moment and make him laugh ;D

[MNLV27]

You're over thinking it. Honestly, do you even know if whatever he's saying is actually the truth? Don't always trust guys over the internet, didn't anyone ever tell you that? You sound naive, just don't do anything rash like meeting up with him alone or whatever. Just take precautions.

[ebolainmemphis]

He's probably just flirting and expecting a "XD" response. He's not really being a creeper... keep talking to him.

[Frozy]

A lot of stuff online can't really be taken seriously, especially people. He's probably teasing you, just like your friends would when you see them. But if it creeps you out, then definitely say something about it.

[xMYOOx]

wtf? Just ignore it. If he's really that bored he'll find something else to do. You ellicted that response by asking "what do you want me to do?"

yeah... you did call for that response whether you meant to or not.
for all we know, he's probably saying the same thing to other girls on the internet.

[Chooniex]

Um your title already creeps me out. Meeting guys online is creepy/scary/stupid/dumb/ridikurus!
Meet someone from a coffee shop or the library or like, anywhere else on the face of this planet EXCEPT the internet.

[joogrlpekaun]

He's probably just flirting and expecting a "XD" response. He's not really being a creeper... keep talking to him.

A lot of stuff online can't really be taken seriously, especially people. He's probably teasing you, just like your friends would when you see them. But if it creeps you out, then definitely say something about it.

I agree with these. It doesn't sound like he's done anything beyond the ordinary or actually meant anything bad. It sounds like the type of joking that's pretty standard in online conversations and he probably didn't expect you to take it seriously or feel so uncomfortable. It's definitely not enough to elevate him to pervert status in my mind.

[♥Yoo-Bin♥]

few words.

block him, & don't talk to him anymore. try to meet guys in real life because the cyber world is just not safe. take care. btw, why are other people encouraging this again????!!!

[Mannosuke]

few words.

block him, & don't talk to him anymore. try to meet guys in real life because the cyber world is just not safe. take care. btw, why are other people encouraging this again????!!!

Saying it's nothing doesn't imply we're encouraging it.

[Regina Rae]

Yeah, he was probably just playing :D

[PineappleBlast]

Unless he straight forward tells you i wouldn't jump to conclusions. Its so easy for guys to flirt and say sweet things online cause they have so much time to think and respond. See how he really is in person.