[lisalee89]

I hate it! It annoys the crap outta me. I may be a little on the jealous side but still!!! He tells me he loves me and i'm all he wants. At times I feel like I'm ontop of the world, then he does these lil thiings that just annoy me and make me feel like I am not being loved. I hate it when he stares at other girls. It irritates me to the freakin core. He is a jealous person as well but I show it more because I am a girl. I hate him. I really think that if this doesn't stop, This is be the end of our relationship. When he stares at other girls, it makes me feel stupid and Dumb. I just want to run and hide because my "boyfriend" is looking at this one chick. WTF???

I think that it would be much better fi I let him go and he can do as he pleases. Because once they are not yours anymore, whatever they do, will not affect you anylonger. I am seriously, atleast 85% right now just ready and willing to let it all go. I just feel that once I do, things will be better for me and I wont haf to worry about where his eyes are looking or what he's doing. It would take my worries away. But I also want for him to stop telling his lies and telling me that i am the only one he wants,. Because if that was the case, his eyes wouldnt do what they do.. right?.

[Alt.Loves.Ctrl]

You should just do what you think is right and what makes you happy. Have you talked to him about this yet?
To see what's going on on his side.

I think it's just natural for people to look at others. Except the amount of time you spend gawking at another is debatable.
I mean if he's staring at her for like agessss .. then that's pretty bad D:
Has it he stared at a lot of girls? or was it just that one time?

[hsin531]

He's only looking, he's not acting out on it. It's not like he's actually cheating on you with the girls he stares at. Sure it doesn't feel good to see your boyfriend looking at someone else but if he's not making a move on the other girls and pursing other relationships on the side, I really don't see a big problem here. Looking at other people doesn't necessarily mean you want them. It's natural to look at someone who you think is attractive but that doesn't mean it's going to lead to anything further than that. I think you're making a bigger deal out of this than it needs to be and if you're going to end an otherwise good relationship over this then you've let your own insecurity issues win. If, however, I'm misinterpreting this and he has done things besides just looking at other girls that makes you doubt and incapable of trusting him, then you do need to reevaluate the relationship you're in because you really can't build a relationship without trust.

[GreenTeaSparkles]

guys' eyes always wander. it'll be difficult to find a guy whose eyes are fixed only on you. Try talking to him about it, and if he doesn't stop, just let it be. It's best not to break up over it because guys' eyes are made to check out other girls

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

Break it up already if you are so pissed about something like this. You can't have him staring at you all day, every day, till you guys get married or break up.

[killasnake]

This is not little jealous, you are jealous. I'm a guy and yes my eyes sometimes wanders but I am not going to act on it, I love my girlfriend and would never do such a thing to her. I even bet her eyes wanders too.

If it really bugs you that much then break up with him. You say that you both love each other... then trust each other.

[Mannosuke]

But I also want for him to stop telling his lies and telling me that i am the only one he wants,. Because if that was the case, his eyes wouldnt do what they do.. right?.

No, that is simply wishful thinking.
It's hard to NOT look at pretty things. Or shiny things. Or odd things. Or moving things.

[JooLee]

yea its normal for guys to check out girls, and normal for girls to check out guys haha
as long as he still loves u at the end, i dont see why oogling is that big of a deal =)
as long as he doesnt give you shiet and compare u to the girl hes checking out then its all good


P.S. the guy that i talked to, we constantly girl watched together haha
if i saw someone hot, i pointed it out. but then thats just us lol

[Humilious]

each time he looks at a girl, just imagine him thinking 'my girlfriend is so much more beautiful.'

worth a shot? haha.

[kev07]

goodluck find a guy( or girl) thats all eyes on you always lol

[Yuyu<3]

I don't think there's nothing wrong with looking as long as you don't act on it like someone above said
I do feel bad sometimes because in my relationship I look more then my boyfriend. I'm blinded by him when he's around but when I'm with sisters I notice guys sometimes

[Visvim]

you need to confront him and tell him how you feel.

if he doesnt understand then.. tough luck for him.

[janelforsure]

Yeah, pretty much. Everyone's eyes wander. Mine do, & I've told my boyfriend that
they do, & he doesn't mind, because in the end it's just me & him. It's not like I check
guys out & act on it, like wink or wave or smile or flirt. It's just like a "oh, he's cute"
kinda thing, but the feeling pretty much fades shortly after. It doesn't linger, & I don't
see anything wrong with that. Just as someone said, it's hard NOT to look at pretty
things, shiny things, moving things, or odd things. It's normal, but if it bugs you that much
then you should just confront him about it.

[myxo]

It's one thing to glimpse, but it's another if he's making it blatantly obvious that he's checking her out to the point he has drool escaping the corner of his mouth. Honestly, if it bothers you to the point that you're willing to break up with him, there's gotta be something wrong with the relationship. The problem probably stems from something other than the fact that he's always checking other girls out.
I'll be honest, my ex was really sly when it comes to checking girls out. He does this weird glimpse, like he's pretending that he's looking at cars, checking himself out in the mirror but really looking back at the reflection to check the girl out, etc. It didn't bother me because he wasn't staring at them or anything. My guy friend, however, is another story. Every damn time a girl walks by, his head bobs up from whatever it is he's doing (reading, eating) and you can just trace the movement of his head to follow the girl. I don't know how his gf puts up with it.

[AMIbunny]

I hate it! It annoys the crap outta me. I may be a little on the jealous side but still!!! He tells me he loves me and i'm all he wants. At times I feel like I'm ontop of the world, then he does these lil thiings that just annoy me and make me feel like I am not being loved. I hate it when he stares at other girls. It irritates me to the freakin core. He is a jealous person as well but I show it more because I am a girl. I hate him. I really think that if this doesn't stop, This is be the end of our relationship. When he stares at other girls, it makes me feel stupid and Dumb. I just want to run and hide because my "boyfriend" is looking at this one chick. WTF???

I think that it would be much better fi I let him go and he can do as he pleases. Because once they are not yours anymore, whatever they do, will not affect you anylonger. I am seriously, atleast 85% right now just ready and willing to let it all go. I just feel that once I do, things will be better for me and I wont haf to worry about where his eyes are looking or what he's doing. It would take my worries away. But I also want for him to stop telling his lies and telling me that i am the only one he wants,. Because if that was the case, his eyes wouldnt do what they do.. right?.

Wow, I completely know how you feel!!! My boyfriend is the same exact thing. I think all guys are like that though..because his guy friends do that too even though they have girlfriends.

I use to act really really mad and jealous whenever I catch him doing it(he makes it so obvious) but now He does it a bit less.....Sometimes I still see him looking at other girls =/ *sigh... there's nothing I can do though.

I makes me feel like crap because I have low self-esteem.......but I know that he LOVES me and cares about me...and I know he would never cheat on me. So i guess its better to just do whatever he wants.

So...You shouldn't care so much..maybe if u didnt care so much he wont do it as much

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

Wow, I completely know how you feel!!! My boyfriend is the same exact thing. I think all guys are like that though..because his guy friends do that too even though they have girlfriends.

Buahahah! I laugh at you.

[viffaye]

I hate him.

then whyre u still with him?

[Mishi-san]

Huuur when we first started dating I'd be like HEY MAN WHAT THE HELL lol. Now I can't talk; I also stare ._.

All guys stare/glimpse-my bf stares- I told him that he does; and he TRIES not to do it out of courtesy but really you can't help it lol I stare are both females and males =/ But if you can't handle it then I guess its time to break it off~

[MNLV27]

goodluck find a guy( or girl) thats all eyes on you always lol

I second this.. It's natural for a guy to have wandering eyes, heck even girls have wandering eyes and check out other guys. I think you're over reacting about it, at least he's not flirting with the girls, looking is harmless. Break up with him if you feel that way but honestly it's going to be hard for you to find a guy who actually doesn't look at other girls..lol..

[House_Rulez]

Well he didn't cheat on you.

And if you hate him there's only one simple solution to it. Just break up? Er, but this is just plain old advice.

This could be a great lesson for you as well.

Maybe you didn't really love him to begin with, and you may need to be better at analyzing men/guys who are more willing to show you a committed side to them.

I hope this one relationship doesn't prevent you from holding off against men, but it could happen.. lawl ideno