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#1 User is offline   erika.march1993 

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Posted 19 July 2009 - 10:18 AM

are there any soompiers out there who is an adult already, but your parents still wont let you date?

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Posted 19 July 2009 - 11:04 AM

Im 20 and my dad disapproves of me dating but i dont care i still do it, he has no right to dictate my life.
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Posted 19 July 2009 - 11:09 AM

QUOTE (xstarBURST @ Jul 19 2009, 11:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Im 20 and my dad disapproves of me dating but i dont care i still do it, he has no right to dictate my life.


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Posted 19 July 2009 - 11:14 AM

QUOTE (xstarBURST @ Jul 19 2009, 02:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Im 20 and my dad disapproves of me dating but i dont care i still do it, he has no right to dictate my life.


You go hit that, girl!

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Posted 19 July 2009 - 11:23 AM

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Posted 19 July 2009 - 11:59 AM

there are parents out there who are a little more "traditional".

they believe in education first.


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Posted 19 July 2009 - 12:56 PM

QUOTE (xstarBURST @ Jul 19 2009, 03:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Im 20 and my dad disapproves of me dating but i dont care i still do it, he has no right to dictate my life.

haha that's how i feel.


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Posted 19 July 2009 - 01:07 PM

parents won't let me date until i graduate from high school, but since i''ve been dating ever since 8th grade lols
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Posted 19 July 2009 - 01:22 PM

I rarely hear about guys having such restrictions.

It doesn't look like most parents really care either, considering how people have been going behind their backs for years now.

It's not like they don't know.
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Posted 19 July 2009 - 01:49 PM

I'm 21 and my dad prefers that I didn't date. He doesn't try to control me anymore like he did when I was 18 because I no longer live with him, but he's made it clear that he doesn't want my anything to affect my grades. Fine with me smile.gif.
My ex, on the otherhand, has a really strict father. I remember he was 20 when we began dating 2.5 yrs ago, and he had to be home by 10 because his dad didn't like him having a gf for the same reason my dad doesn't like me dating. It was very strange for me because he was the one that had all these rules to follow.
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Posted 19 July 2009 - 01:59 PM

QUOTE (xstarBURST @ Jul 19 2009, 01:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Im 20 and my dad disapproves of me dating but i dont care i still do it, he has no right to dictate my life.


Same here. I know what's right for me more than anyone else possibly could.
I don't hide it if they ask me about it, because it doesn't really matter if they think its good for me or not.
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Posted 19 July 2009 - 02:20 PM

My parents doesn't really mind if we dated or not. They just have one rule for us though 'We have to meet him,' even if they like or don't like him, they just want to meet him first since they have four daughters who are 18+.

I do have a brother who's 24 and hates the thought of us dating. He's always like he'll be the hawk in the sky whenever my sisters and I go clubbing with our friends or if even our male friends call us he'll question them. I'm 20 by the way and I've never had a boyfriend-not because of my brother being so protective or my parents...but I've just never dated.

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Posted 19 July 2009 - 02:41 PM

QUOTE (Visvim @ Jul 19 2009, 01:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
there are parents out there who are a little more "traditional".

they believe in education first.

Like mine .

ok so i had this conversation with my mom abt dating,
and it was pretty awkward [dont ask why]..
and so i asked if 16 was old enuff to date, and she said NUU, it was
still too young. i went so on, 17...18..Lol she turned it down.
she said 21 is when you can have a proper boyfriend or something ;]
& im a girl. but who cares, i've already dated in my middle school years
w/out letting her know.

DEN, my brother who's like 20 is always encouraged to get a girl
and blah blah.
but i can't get a guy? lol it's just how it is.

damn i ranted. my apologies much ;/
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Posted 19 July 2009 - 02:42 PM

Lulz, my mom won't let me date until i'm 20 years old. She said dating early is good for nothing and a student should face their lives on studing. It's all about education, I think we'll all die studing our butts off.
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Posted 19 July 2009 - 02:54 PM

QUOTE (Visvim @ Jul 19 2009, 11:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
there are parents out there who are a little more "traditional".

they believe in education first.

That's my mom for you..

She told me I can't date till I finish college and find myself a stable job.. then go study something else just incase.
I still date behind her back though.. well, only once.

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Posted 19 July 2009 - 04:09 PM

Um... no. My mom's Asian, and she knows I'm going to date. She'd rather I be honest and open about it than hide it behind her back.

I'll never understand parents that are like 'DON'T DATE TILL YOU'RE 30!!'... Huh?
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Posted 19 July 2009 - 04:22 PM

They didn't allow me to date throughout high school. However they let up a bit i went to college. They said i can date if i want to but do not let it affect my grades.
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Posted 19 July 2009 - 05:25 PM

18 means youre legal to vote and some other things, but doesnt really mean you're an adult. so i can understand why youre dad would still be concerned because technically you would still be a kid.
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Posted 19 July 2009 - 05:29 PM

QUOTE (~dhluvr4ever~ @ Jul 19 2009, 03:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Like mine .

ok so i had this conversation with my mom abt dating,
and it was pretty awkward [dont ask why]..
and so i asked if 16 was old enuff to date, and she said NUU, it was
still too young. i went so on, 17...18..Lol she turned it down.
she said 21 is when you can have a proper boyfriend or something ;]
& im a girl. but who cares, i've already dated in my middle school years
w/out letting her know.

DEN, my brother who's like 20 is always encouraged to get a girl
and blah blah.
but i can't get a guy? lol it's just how it is.

damn i ranted. my apologies much ;/

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Posted 19 July 2009 - 05:58 PM

Not until I'm in COLLEGE or GRAD-SCHOOL.
;O maybe even after ALL school!
yeah, that's right, keep quiet.
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