[ryoheiyoshida]

Well here's the thing or my current situation . I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now and this summer (we live together) she went back to her hometown for about a month and a half to visit her friends , family and etc . I was ok about it and stuff because she was homesick , no big deal there .

She came back and only spent about 5 days with me and now she left to Florida for another week to hang out with her other friend.
She doesn't bother to tell me but I see from her friend's facebook that they're going to go to a bar and clubbin' and what not. However I'm not the jealous type but the thing is I seem to be the only one not having fun..

Now I have chances to go clubbin' with my friends and stuff and I wouldn't say I'm a very unattractive guy but the club scene and what not just isn't me . Plus my gf gets some what jealous if I do go but I haven't , just people invite me . All I do relatively is work , work out and come back home because I get pretty tired . However I feel unhappy to know she's having all the fun and I'm stuck by myself at home.

Is there something wrong here? I'm this close to just going out tonight and partying to get over my unhappiness . I even text her to say "hi" but she texts me back 3-4 hours later because she's too busy talking with her friends and hanging out. Don't get me wrong though , I would never cheat or mess around behind her back , no matter what my friends tell me I have my morals and I do care for her a lot .

I don't know , I'm just looking for advice and pretty down at the moment .

Thank you ~

[mintcracker]

Well she's having fun, why shouldn't you? Quit with the doubts and go club and drink until you pass out.

ahaha.

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

^ Seriously, Just don't cheat on her. Just have your phone with you in case she texts while you are partying or you might get an ear full from her.

[forgottenmemories]

There's nothing wrong with having fun, but if you feel like she's being unfair, I think you guys need to sit down and talk about it. That's the only way to resolve things right? Good luck

[heineken.]

There's nothing wrong with the way you feel now. You see how much fun she is having, and you just also want to have fun.

The problem is, you're not a clubbing person, and she appears to be. The only question is, what is your type of social fun? Paint balling? Sports? Fishing? Doing something that you enjoy with your friends is a lot more rewarding than dragging yourself out to a club lol. Plus, most guys I know only go clubbing to scope out the girls. If you're of age, you could drink and watch people grind against each other.. but obviously you can't participate because you have a gf (unless you want to dance with your guy friends?). Maybe (again, if you're of age) you could have a small beer pong get together at a house, or play rockband or something? Haha I don't know what guys do together - but there are a couple of suggestions~

[mintcracker]

^ lol I thought it was some unspoken rule for guys to not dance with only guy frds at a club

looks gay according to em lol.

[brownman90561495]

well, let her know that you going out with some friends having some good clean fun. she SHOULD understand that. if she causes some unnecessary drama, talk to her when she gets back.

[greenlavender]

talk to her about it. and if your not the clubbing type then i agree with heineken just do something you enjoy with your buddys instead of going clubbing because it would just seem like you are trying to get back at her since i probably wont be fun for you. your whole point is to have fun not make her jealous or getting back at her