[heineken.]

So the last three guys I've been with had two things in common:

1.) They weren't interested in a relationship.
2.) They just wanted to mess around.

They are 21-24 years of age.

This makes me wonder if it's common for guys go through the non-commitment fooling around stage..?

All of my girl friends seem to actively always look for/be in a relationship. Is this true for you?

Please help me understand

[mintcracker]

Depends on the guy I think, though generally guys like to mess around and get as many girls into bed as possible before they settle down. Girls take it more seriously on average. Some guys mature and only want serious relationships at likw 18, while others still act the same way and want no strings even when they're 28-35-depends on the individual.

[ryoheiyoshida]

I wouldn't think there's an age range , I just think it depends on how many relationships the person has been through.
Bad relationships suck and is pretty discouraging to get back into one after.

[papasmurf]

I WANT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, but....................no soompi girls want me ehhhh maybe not

[moot11]

I'm 22, did too much dating/relationships stuff while I was younger. I prb. won't want to deal with another serious relationship for at least another 2 years.

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

Uh... I am 16 and I havent been interested since I was born o-o

[heineken.]

I'm 22, did too much dating/relationships stuff while I was younger. I prb. won't want to deal with another serious relationship for at least another 2 years.

Because you're tired of it? Too much stress? More important things to worry about?

Sorry for the questions - you don't have to answer if you feel it's too personal.
I just want to know why guys don't want to commit

[azn3dvietboy]

i'm only 20
and i'm always commited when i'm in a relationship
it's just the girls that do the wrong things =/

[supa'Wanki]

I'm looking to get married by 25. I'm keeping my options open and meeting girls so that if I find the perfect girl, I'm going to make her mine. I don't want to wait until I turn 30, because then it'd be even harder to find a woman to get married with. If you're still dating around when you're 30, the chances are that you'll find a good person to marry with is slim.

[1love]

I'm 20 and my last relationship was 17. Don't want to be in a serious relationship for another 3-4 years.

[brownman90561495]

some people do come across this phase. this will pass.

[BAZINGA!]

I think most guys but not all are in this phase and not knowing what they want or not being able to commit until they hit around their 30s. It will pass.. for most of them.. but not all.