[oneheart.onelife]

Okay so I've just recently got back with one of my ex's ... well were just dating (w/e that means). Anyways so its been a pretty basic relationship, we talk all night and day, go to the movies etc. However recently he's been really hostile to me, and always saying really mean things to me , like calling me cheap ass when I say Hi to him on IM. I don't know what his problem is, and Ive tried to bring it up with him. But his reply is either 1. Just Ignore the Question 2. Tell me that I'm Paranoid or being stupid.or 3. That he's joking and I need to lighten up. I can't help but wonder if this has something to do with us having sex for the first time a couple of week ago (we are both each others first). And if it does do you think this will lead to another break up?

Edit

- He only calls me stuff on IM
- Prev. Break up
We were getting bored of each other; things became to predictable
Trust Issues; I didn't like how close he got with his best girlfriend who is known for going around.

[azndubz]

IMO, I wouldn't date ex's unless they were REALLY good to me, and that the only reason that they were an ex was because of long distance probs or anything else BUT cheating and/or not being committed enough. From how you described the problem, your boyf sounds really mean ): Even if he says to "lighten up", being called cheap ass isn't anything to get lightened up about, imo. I think it'll inevitably lead to a break up--sorry!

[starrykt]

cheap ass isnt too hostile the thing is, hes saying it on IM so its hard to tell his tone, it kind of comes off as him teasing you.
my bf and i call each other mean names all the time, sometimes we say it very serious but we dont mean it at all its jsut teasing, like i can tel if hes being super serious and means it. only you can really tell by his tone~

what other things does he call you? does he ever say it to your face or just IM?
also what was the reason you guys broke up before?, you dont have to say if you dont want to~ ^^

[MNLV27]

How long ago did you guys break up and got together? I think it's no use dating an ex again if it didn't work out the first time. It might just end up going in a circle again and the same thing happens..