[Xick-azn-chic]

Hi guys

I developed three extremely-serious
problems these past few years that will never
Allow me to get even a bit close to a guy.

the 3 problems are:
1) blushing! I blush too daamm easy,
Makes me seem like I'm east2 get, blah
And makes me look shy, which I am, but..
2) I become even more clumsy when near a guy my age>>
or a teacher/instructor or even a girl when I first meet her.
the exception 2 this is old ppl and kids.
when meeting new ppl I become very self-concious :/
3) I'm a total idiot when it comes2 knowing when a guy
Likes u. I'm the type that ignores the guy if a friend says 2 me
"Hey, u know billybob? He says he likes u"

OMg, how can these problems ever be solved 4 good...?

[stupid.ity]

Maybe you should try to be a bit more outgoing and talk to guys more. I talk a lot so there's no problem for me...
&& Blushing is natural....
you possibly can't blush that bad...
My friend goes red in the face....easily...

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

1, blushing is fine

2, clumsy? Like tripping over your own feet? You just have to learn not to be clumsy then

3. Quit ignoring it then. Be flattered that someone likes you, even if he had a hillbilly name.

[Xick-azn-chic]

How is blushing fine when u can't control it at all?
And clumsy, ye I meant as in doing something stupid like dropping my stuff, 0r saying something weird.
Oh as for the hillbilly name, it was just an example. Ty tho

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

How is blushing fine when u can't control it at all?

Sigh... If the guy is really into you, he wouldn't mind.

[Mannosuke]

I agree with flashlight, the first two aren't problems that will turn guys away

3) I'm a total idiot when it comes2 knowing when a guy
Likes u. I'm the type that ignores the guy if a friend says 2 me
"Hey, u know billybob? He says he likes u"

Why do you ignore him then? LOL makes no sense.
If you want to solve your problems, you should tell us how much effort you've been into it so far.

Problems don't go away with easy fixes.

[xDMufffins]

Your looking for a friend, not a relationship. These things shouldn't matter.
As you get to know them, you will start getting more comfortable and more like yourself.

Work with it, not against it. (:
Some people find it cute (;

[chaumein]

I am you, except I don't blush my face turns completely red and I start sweating. I'm 20 btw. So if you feel bad, don't worry there's always someone in this world worse off than you.

[SayurixPark]

first....
blushing isn't a bad thing, most people blush and i guess you can't really control it.
It's probably flattering to guy or something cuz atleast they know that you like them....

second....
clumsy; even i get clumsy infront of a guy i like .... sometimes i think that what i said to him was plain stupid but i think everybody has their moments. if you do often, like seriously ALOT then you're probably gonna have to try and fix that somehow, someway.
you could probably try and get some guy friends and just talk to the and hang around with them to see how you interact with them and fix up abit once you've esatblished that .. if you get what i mean

third...
don't ignore the guy.. this is probably a good opportunity for you to atleast become more accustomed to a guy's presence. and he's proabably a good guy newayz
it will take time but, honestly, there are people out there that are exactly the same as you. you just need to know how to become comfrotable around guys.

[koezane]

if you do not calm down and take on the challenge of meeting people you like properly,

then you can wait till you are 35 years old. by that time the pressure to meet the right person will have diminished so much it won't really matter if you screw up. then you will have no trouble letting people see the real you.

[brownman90561495]

Hi guys

I developed three extremely-serious
problems these past few years that will never
Allow me to get even a bit close to a guy.

the 3 problems are:
1) blushing! I blush too daamm easy,
Makes me seem like I'm east2 get, blah
And makes me look shy, which I am, but..
2) I become even more clumsy when near a guy my age>>
or a teacher/instructor or even a girl when I first meet her.
the exception 2 this is old ppl and kids.
when meeting new ppl I become very self-concious :/
3) I'm a total idiot when it comes2 knowing when a guy
Likes u. I'm the type that ignores the guy if a friend says 2 me
"Hey, u know billybob? He says he likes u"

OMg, how can these problems ever be solved 4 good...?

i think you're cute. you don't have to solve these problems, IMHO.

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

i think you're cute. you don't have to solve these problems, IMHO.

So you think number three should be ignored?

[brownman90561495]

So you think number three should be ignored?

not ignore. just watch herself out, but she doesn't have to be too worried about herself if these things make her feel bad, as long as she is able to recognize and identify them.

[B L o T T - ii]

u need confidence, girl. that is all u need.
if a friend told u a guy like u, then obviously ure not THAT bad with guys.
also, stop seeing every guy as a potential boyfriend. see them as normal friends. if he's just a friend, u'll start feeling wayyy more comfortable ;D

is it only hot guys that this happens, or even the.... well, dorks?

[ShadowMax76]

x-X' may i ask, what is a guy to you?
an alien life form? judges of girlkind? awesome, untouchable beings?

_ and. x_X' as said. they're not really problems. cos ya make it sound like there's something wrong with you.
o_O' and there isn't. you're capable. i mean you have a functioning voice [yes?], a sociable character [o0' you have girl friends right?],
what more do you need to have a random conversation? x_X' for the moment being.. don't think of guys and girls too differently.

i guess one step at a time is best. otherwise you'd probably have an anxiety attack. aha.
x-X" reminds me of a one-shot manga.. aha. "apple-cheek love".

[lil_miss_kawaii]

Try talking to yourself in the mirror

This is lie a acting method and is suppose to build charisma

I have done it before ~ and I thought "OMG THIS IS SO STUPID"

Thats the embarassment emotion talking which is probably making u blush and unable to talk
But after time you build more confidence and stuff ~
Like in the beginning you might just talk in a low voice and keep thinking how stupid it is
But once you overcome it you will become more confident ~ speak louder etc

I used to do it because I didnt like doing presntations so I practices doing presentations and just talked
And now I am not that bad in presentaitons and I am not as shy as I used to be!