[CornFlake]

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Okay, because i find it's really fun to read and share some experience so i started this. Have you ever realized just when it's too late? i meant to realize the feelings or sth lies behind actions of yourself or someone. this could be love non-related


my story:

there's this guy i talked to everyday during a summer break of middleschool and then we met again in my sophomore year. we started chatting and developed into talking on the phone every couple days. sometimes we hanged out together. then one day his mom found out about us and blamed me of making him staying late night. from that day for some reasons we didnt chat much like before. calls were lessened. but still, he called me in some occasion like new year, xmas and random texts were sent too.

when i realized was my last birthday, which he used to call me every birthday because we share the same birthday. last birthday he didnt call. and goshhhh! that did HURT so much. it left me depressed like a week or more. he told me later that he lost his cell. now we're chatting some times but it's not like before. we're almost merely acquaintance.

i think back about everything then i realize the fact that we could have gone out together. he seemed to like me at that time and i, yes finally realized that, liked him too. i regret our close-ness and all the time we were together. they are all considered my precious memories.

this reminded me of someone's quote : it's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew


Please post your stories

[Painterlyy]

Yeah. I liked a guy for a while and then I never told him. A year later, he tells me that he liked me as well. Too bad my feelings were gone.
But I don't regret it. It is what it is

[lhaena]

unfortunately, this happens to me all the time.

the first love of my life.. I let him go then realized how much I truly love him. I hurt him so badly that we will never get together again

last week, met this guy I really like.. supposed to hang out.. he told me to call him when I wake up since I sleep during the day because I work overnight.. I never called him because I always feel weird calling boys.. so we never met up and now he's in Africa traveling.. won't be back for a month or so... we probably won't ever talk again. oh well..

I always let guys go.. then regret it.. I should change that

[Privodevat]

I have no regrets, fortunately.

[illumiinate]

I try not to dwell on the past too much as well as regret things, but if there was one thing I regret it'd be not confessing my feelings to my now best guy friend during the summer before our sophomore year. During that time we were constantly calling, texting, and chatting with each other via AIM as well as in real life. At the time I thought nothing of my crush on him but it developed into something deeper as we got to know each other.

But long story short, he's probably one of the most important people in my life now... but he has a girlfriend. I missed my chance and now I'm living with the consequences.

[greentea`]

Everyone has regrets..
I just have more than the norm

[ilovethatpanda]

i don't like my past. but i've had something like illumiinate's.

[jennx109]

the first love of my life.. I let him go then realized how much I truly love him. I hurt him so badly that we will never get together again

This is exactly what happened to me.

[ONTHEBLINK]

I have/had a friend that I've known ever since I was born (parents and his parents are best friends). We were best friends although we lived far away from eachother and visited once a month. One day he tried to confess to me but I indirectly rejected him before he could because I knew it was coming and I was confused. We were really awkward ever since. Five years later, I realized that all I really wanted to do was stay the way were because it was perfect, and that I really did feel the same. Ten years of friendship wasted, wtf. :/
I saw him again today and it was really weird. We didn't say anything to eachother except for "Bye". I saw a cute keychain with him and wasn't sure if it was his own choice, a gift from a friend, or a gift from a girl. The bad thing is that I felt a little uneasy about the last possibility, which I shouldn't have. Worst thing is that I'm still confused after five years and a realization. :/

Sort of non-related: When I was in grade 2, a white boy I thought I sort of liked asked me if I was having a birthday party. My parents only invited/allowed me to invite their friends and their friends' kids, who are all asian. I considered lying, but I remembered that "honesty is the best policy" thing. I told him that my parents said only asians are allowed to come and it made him sad. I regret it still. D:

[hellosally]

hahahaha in like.. 8th grade?

i like this guy and my friend liked him too..
i backed off and i'm pretty sure he liked me
i think he's one of the best guys i've ever known.
now i barely talk to him :[

[brownman90561495]

tick tick tick tick.... time is ticking

it's never too late if he/she is still not yet married but some things can slow you down or even stop you.

[kimberlay]

i knew this guy and we starting hooking up but he had a girlfriend (and i knew)
he was really cute as in innocent and nice and everything so it was hard to say no
i told my friends about him and at first they thought he was cute too (not talking appearrance here)
then i told them he had a girlfriend and they flipped out
one of my friends told me to break it off with him
i called him and told him he wasnt being fair to me or his gf (yesss..... he was still pretty intimate with her while he was with me)
soooo a couple weeks later i found out he wanted to break up with his gf
then i felt reaaaally sad cause i really liked him
im sorry im the third person but love is love
everytime we see each other its like we want things to be backed like how it was
but it cant
theres a barrier that cant be broken
i regret that phone call
note to myself never listen to your friend's advice! hahah
its been a year
is it weird that i still have feelings for him???
what should i do?? i cant... take him back....
i wonder if this is the reason why i cant get close with any guys after him...

[brownman90561495]

i knew this guy and we starting hooking up but he had a girlfriend (and i knew)
he was really cute as in innocent and nice and everything so it was hard to say no
i told my friends about him and at first they thought he was cute too (not talking appearrance here)
then i told them he had a girlfriend and they flipped out
one of my friends told me to break it off with him
i called him and told him he wasnt being fair to me or his gf (yesss..... he was still pretty intimate with her while he was with me)
soooo a couple weeks later i found out he wanted to break up with his gf
then i felt reaaaally sad cause i really liked him
im sorry im the third person but love is love
everytime we see each other its like we want things to be backed like how it was
but it cant
theres a barrier that cant be broken
i regret that phone call
note to myself never listen to your friend's advice! hahah
its been a year
is it weird that i still have feelings for him???
what should i do?? i cant... take him back....
i wonder if this is the reason why i cant get close with any guys after him...

if you feel it's right, try talking to him for you to know if it's already too late.

[lhaine13]

yeah..he liked me and he was like head over heels for me..and i can really feel his sincerity..but i just realized that i loved him a lot when he was gone..after a few months good thing he came back..but my feelings are gona again..i guess we're not really meant for each other.

[truevibesgal2003]

yep! Don't we all...

1) i broke up with my first love of 4 yrs & now he's married with someone else with a kid o.O - i blame it partly on immaturity cuz i was 14 and he was 17 & well i did not know what TRUE LOVE was

2) my 2nd love that i grew up with (when he went away to college in PA, he asked me to move with him but I shot him down) - we're still really good friends but he has a gf now - i figured that I'd learn to live w/o him as the "other half" but i truly loved him - he drives to NY to see me occasionally

3) after these 2 guys I've been draining myself in school, work and just dating randomly guys for fun

It all comes down to commitment issues - I don't think I'll go for another round of relationship until I'm mentally prepared

[aleener]

I have this problem right now... heh. idk if its too late, but idk you never know?
I think I'm going to take my chances if i see him again, even if he turns me down and stuff. Atleast I could stop thinking about it.
or maybe its a bad idea...?
=====
Well, anyway. I grew some nuts and tried talking to him.
We became friends, i think he liked me - i have my doubts though. He asked me to go out one day, but i got the message too late...
He started to talk a little less, then word got out that i liked this guy with the same name as him, I guess he heard about me liking that guy (one of his friends) and completely cut me off and everything. ha, i hate rumors and gossip.(it wasn't true! it was him i liked.>:C ) Since then, when i saw him. Its like he never met me or anything or i guess he forgot about me?
& now i might have a chance to comfront him about it? or get off with a new start with him?
what do you think about me doing that? or should I just lay off and stuff?

[nailbunny]

im sorry im the third person but love is love
everytime we see each other its like we want things to be backed like how it was
but it cant
theres a barrier that cant be broken
i regret that phone call
note to myself never listen to your friend's advice! hahah

If he's willing to drop everything for you, then maybe it's worth trying again...
But really, if a guy is willing to cheat on his gf for you, then he's probably likely to be ok with cheating on you when someone better comes along. In other words, he isn't worth it.

I have a non-love related one...

So I went to a 5 week summer program right after graduating high school and the people there were from all over the US and Canada. They were wonderful, I’d never before and I’ve never since then been surrounded by people like them. Anyways, I was friends with a group of girls and after we all left the program, they sent out mass emails just talking about what was going on in their lives. And each email was sent to every person and people would respond with advice or help or to talk about themselves.

Now, I SUCK at keeping up correspondence AND I was just starting college so I was super busy. Eventually, I stopped replying to their messages and even reading them…I kept them all in my inbox with the intention of reading them and they still included me in their emails. But eventually the emails stopped, I’m not even sure when since I hadn’t been paying attention in a while. Plus I switched my email address to gmail instead of yahoo, but I still have that yahoo account and all the hundreds of messages they wrote. Still unread. lulz. And I don’t think this group keeps in touch very much anymore and it really makes me so sad because they were all such wonderful girls.

There was another guy also at that summer program and they sent you to the airport to go back to your home depending on when your flight was. My flight was later than this guy’s so I was on a later bus so I was saying goodbye to him. He was more just a casual friend but I was lamenting because I didn’t have my camera with me and I didn’t have any pictures of him and me. So I said something like “You have to write to me and send me some pictures when you get back home!” and I remember exactly what he said, he laughed and said that I had to write to him too then. But guess what. I never did. I found out a few months later that he died in an accident of some sort.

God, now I feel like crap.

[kimberlay]

But really, if a guy is willing to cheat on his gf for you, then he's probably likely to be ok with cheating on you when someone better comes along. In other words, he isn't worth it.

yupp i thought abt that too
that's one of the reasons why i wanted to stop seeing him

But guess what. I never did. I found out a few months later that he died in an accident of some sort.

so sorry abt your friend

[jhsu327]

AWW.. Okay I have soo many of those stories but I'll just share one
About two years ago... I was in this dramaaa.. where three guys liked me. I liked two of them and the third one.. not quite XP. Anyways, so then the first guy was really cute (probably one of the cutest guys that liked me hehehe) and the second one was okay, decent looking but kinda funny. So I really really liked the first guy but I didn't get to see him often (because we were in different schools) and so I decided to go with the second guy. I told the first guy that I am going out with another guy and ended the fling. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH omg i regret going with the second guy sooo much ): It's been a few years, and I'm still not over the first guy. CRY CRY CRY ):