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#1 User is offline   sweethoothlildimsum 

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Post icon  Posted 28 July 2009 - 03:15 PM

so me n and my boyfriend have known each other ever since middle school and have been dating ever since sophmore year, so i guess we're really close to one another. hes like my husband already...lol tongue.gif well after years of dating, he and i decided to finally have sex and i dunno why but he always acting so weird in bed...like wild...jesus and it hurts me to say this but im a bit scare everytime we do it. hes a really gud guy, hes pretty much perfect for me, but it just bother me that he gets so h**rny in bed. so sometimes wen he want it n i tell him tat im tire, he just kinna think tat im bore wit him or something or go on about why can i be more wild???? huhhh? huh.gif wt...so my questiion is, so r all guy like this or is it just him, and what can i do to tell him the truth n not hurt his feelings? ph34r.gif dry.gif
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Posted 28 July 2009 - 03:31 PM

Wait so, is it that he constantly wants sex from you whenever you're in bed, or is it that the sexual activities he wants to engage in are "wild"? Sorry, couldn't really tell which it was from your post. :[
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Posted 28 July 2009 - 03:35 PM

Communication is key. If he's just not hitting the spot, you've got to tell him or he won't know. Don't be shy about it. I'm sure it's useful info that he needs to learn too.
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#4 User is offline   sweethoothlildimsum 

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Posted 28 July 2009 - 03:47 PM

QUOTE (Limepop @ Jul 28 2009, 04:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wait so, is it that he constantly wants sex from you whenever you're in bed, or is it that the sexual activities he wants to engage in are "wild"? Sorry, couldn't really tell which it was from your post. :[


well he constantly wanting sex and his sexually activity r not really wild wild as for many of u ..but i guess somewhere
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Posted 28 July 2009 - 03:49 PM

QUOTE (sweethoothlildimsum @ Jul 28 2009, 04:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
well he constantly wanting sex and his sexually activity r not really wild wild as for many of u ..but i guess somewhere

u're saying he's not as wild as many of us? where did you get that conclusion?

oy vey having trouble to understand .___.
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#6 User is offline   Limepop 

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Posted 28 July 2009 - 03:57 PM

If he constantly wants sex -- then this thread should be helpful. It's full a variety of answers that range from pseudo-legit excuses to borderline sadistic punishments!

But, really, maybe you should just talk to him about it? If he wants you to be more "wild" -- maybe you should ask him to specify exactly what he wants and work your way to that point, if you're comfortable.

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Posted 28 July 2009 - 03:59 PM

QUOTE (Tuffcore @ Jul 28 2009, 04:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Communication is key. If he's just not hitting the spot, you've got to tell him or he won't know. Don't be shy about it. I'm sure it's useful info that he needs to learn too.


I complete agree. Sex should be enjoyed by both parties and if you are not comfortable with his actions then you need to let him know.

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Posted 28 July 2009 - 10:30 PM

weeeeeeeeaaaalllll.................can you be more specific when you say.. "wild"?

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Posted 29 July 2009 - 12:27 AM

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Posted 29 July 2009 - 12:46 AM

Maybe he just hit the wrong spot? Or is too wild?
I don't know. Ask on one of those relationship forums ;D
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Posted 30 July 2009 - 09:43 AM

wish mine was wilder (: i think i might be the hornier one D:
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Posted 30 July 2009 - 05:13 PM

QUOTE (Tuffcore @ Jul 28 2009, 06:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Communication is key. If he's just not hitting the spot, you've got to tell him or he won't know. Don't be shy about it. I'm sure it's useful info that he needs to learn too.

Definitely agree. Me and my boyfriend are so open, we just talk and discuss in detail what we like and don't like. Seriously, just bring it up with him next time, it's no biggy. You guys have been dating for years, he should understand. smile.gif

And as for wanting it all the time, I'm pretty sure that's normal. Doesn't mean he has a one track mind or is using you for sex or anything like that. Just means he has a higher sex drive because you guys are young and did it for the first time and it's like that for lots of people. (enjoy it now before you guys get old tongue.gif )
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Posted 30 July 2009 - 05:18 PM

tell him that he's doing things in bed that you don't like, he probably thinks he's being a stud but everyone needs pointers here and there
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Posted 30 July 2009 - 05:24 PM

i think you are not active enough in bed. sex is boring if you are just laying still and looking tired while he does all the work.
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