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#1 User is offline   HumanError 

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Posted 28 July 2009 - 04:49 PM

It's a boring read and my relationship problem is probably a cliche. Props to those whoever reads it. I appreciate it very mucch smile.gif


My boyfriend liked another girl and I finally got him to admit it. He said he was sorry then he was gone again. Months later of depression, I start liking his friend when he said he said he liked me. We didn't hit it off because we both still have someone else in our minds too. I was seriously thinking of forcing myself to move on because it was so painful waiting for him. Well Idk what happened...but my ex? somehow figured out that his friend likes me. Gossip =pp Anyway, this is where he confuses me. To him, we didn't break up. I thought we did, we just drifted apart. But he and the girl are gf+bf already. Sometimes I think he's playing games with me and other times he wants me to stay back with him. During almost a whole year, he keeps on giving the same dang excuses bout' why I don't see him much. I thought he wanted to see me... sad.gif I guess he was just buying time to be with his girlfriend and keep me around at the same time. I'm not a fool and it's obvious...I know what he's doing. But I want to wait for him. Because, honestly, I still love him. But argh, I'm mad at him too. We just been together for so long. So guys and gals, should I wait for him? Btw, I can't go with my current crush anymore because he and his own crush seem to be closer again. Dont wanna mess that one up
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Posted 28 July 2009 - 05:26 PM

You shouldn't be with him because of how long you stay together...that is wrong... I have fallen into that trap...by staying together with my ex and I have been with him for more than 3 years... In the end, I feel that I wasted so much time, I could have dated someone else so much better and knowing that there are guys are there for me...

Think of it this way...if you are on a ship and you know its sinking, do you want to jump onto a rescue boat or continue and end up drowning?

You truly shouldn't be with him because of how long you both were together.... I know its hard to let go...and need time to get a one, because that's how it sounded like...

But a guy like that...keeping to girls near him...do you want to be his safety net? You are worth more than that.

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#3 User is offline   tweeti. 

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Posted 28 July 2009 - 06:07 PM

Ouch, some guys can be so selfish and maybe he is conflicted as well.
But you deserve much better than him, don't worry about rebound relationships... If it helps you move on then so be it.
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Posted 28 July 2009 - 08:29 PM

QUOTE (HumanError @ Jul 28 2009, 05:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It's a boring read and my relationship problem is probably a cliche. Props to those whoever reads it. I appreciate it very mucch smile.gif


My boyfriend liked another girl and I finally got him to admit it. He said he was sorry then he was gone again. Months later of depression, I start liking his friend when he said he said he liked me. We didn't hit it off because we both still have someone else in our minds too. I was seriously thinking of forcing myself to move on because it was so painful waiting for him. Well Idk what happened...but my ex? somehow figured out that his friend likes me. Gossip =pp Anyway, this is where he confuses me. To him, we didn't break up. I thought we did, we just drifted apart. But he and the girl are gf+bf already. Sometimes I think he's playing games with me and other times he wants me to stay back with him. During almost a whole year, he keeps on giving the same dang excuses bout' why I don't see him much. I thought he wanted to see me... sad.gif I guess he was just buying time to be with his girlfriend and keep me around at the same time. I'm not a fool and it's obvious...I know what he's doing. But I want to wait for him. Because, honestly, I still love him. But argh, I'm mad at him too. We just been together for so long. So guys and gals, should I wait for him? Btw, I can't go with my current crush anymore because he and his own crush seem to be closer again. Dont wanna mess that one up

I'd suggest you not wait for him. Also another thing is that I would suggest that you not date/crush on anyone in their circle of friends cause all that does is lead to more drama.
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Posted 28 July 2009 - 08:34 PM

Why are you waiting for someone who left you for another girl? It's really hard for me to love someone who is capable of hurting me because of his own selfishness. Honestly, in your heart, you know you have to move on. Stop playing along with his stupid games and stop making excuses up for him. Fact is, he's with another chick and he's just stringing you along. Move on and be happy. Also, learn to love yourself a bit more, k?

My ex and I were together for 2.5 yrs. He didn't leave me for another girl, he left me for something wayyy more trivial than that, but it's the same idea. Don't wait around for someone who doesn't want you.
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Posted 28 July 2009 - 08:48 PM

Girl,

MOVE ON!

There are many diverse, variety guys out there for you like clothes in shopping mall!

He left you for another girl!
From my point of view, he is an indecisive boy, he doesn't know that their is a wonderful girl right there by his side all along!

If he does not recognize your valuable presence than leave his butt in the house and get your shoes and walk away!

Your still young, do not become bury with these deep feelings because trust me, there are more experience that will pull you down, but as Mariah Carey says " There is a hero that come along that will provide you the strength to carry on."

"Be strong, because the hero lies in you."
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Posted 28 July 2009 - 10:56 PM

hop on the next train out of town! and leave him behind
and come see me!
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Posted 28 July 2009 - 11:04 PM

the replies say it all.

your not a rag doll. for crying out loud, leave him behind because i believe he has already left you (even if he's saying or you're thinking he wants to see you).

there are alot of guys out there who truly deserves you - and that's a cliche.
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