[mannyxfattie]

Soo lately people have been asking me to be just friends with benefits with them. I don't get it. Am I like not girlfriend material or something? =/ Sorry not much detail bout the situation o:

[xAzumi]

They want to use you, and don't want to have the strings attached.

Don't be used and feel the emotions that are tied along with it.

You are beautiful in your own way, and you will soon find the guy that will be proud and say, "She is my girlfriend <3."

[brownman90561495]

Soo lately people have been asking me to be just friends with benefits with them. I don't get it. Am I like not girlfriend material or something? =/ Sorry not much detail bout the situation o:

i think you should know more if you are a girlfriend material than us soompiers.

[ShadowMax76]

x_X' perhaps you seem too easy?

[junkers]

Too flirt? TOo Sociable? Guys' trust issues?

Or it might be the other way around. Perhaps you lack something that guys want. They just want your body.

[krankee]

do you think you are gf material? do you treat all guys the same or you only give that special guy special attention? but then again, guys these days are... no common. theyre just looking for a fun time.

[phyr3]

totally up to how you feel about it I guess.

If you have no issues then go with it till you find someone? (or someone finds you).

Personally I wouldn't be cool with such a situation. You deserve someone who actually wants and needs you.

Not just when they want to their own terms and conditions.

[april_showers]

umm tell the douches who asked you to eff off?

I think it's plain rude. It's like saying... "I want to fool around with you when I'm horny, but nothing else to do with you"

Who are these boys anyway? Are they close to you? If so that could be a problem.

[sixth.]

maybe you're just meeting the wrong guys.
or you're giving off the wrong vibe.

[Mannosuke]

Don't let it get to you, there are plenty of insignificant men out there with insignificant desires.

[ltnd.]

They want to use you, and don't want to have the strings attached.

Don't be used and feel the emotions that are tied along with it.

You are beautiful in your own way, and you will soon find the guy that will be proud and say, "She is my girlfriend <3."

Word. Friends with benefits...I don't know..sometimes that translates to a sexual nature when I think of "Friends with benefits" :T

[sethsegel]

I wouldn't really get down on yourself, it's probably not that you aren't girlfriend material, but more that the guys you meet are too focused on a sexual connection as opposed to an emotional one.

[Daylightful]

Yeah.. I agree. You could be just giving off the wrong vibe, but nonetheless don't let it get to you. Some guys just want sex, doesn't mean you're not girlfriend material. I'm sure you'll find a guy who loves you and want to do more than just sex.