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Would You Get Mad At Your Friend In This Situation?

#1 User is offline   chocc 

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Posted 31 July 2009 - 04:38 PM

say you're best friends with Friend A and Friend B. They're good friends with Friend C. You kind of know Friend C, but not that well. Anyways, so Friend C invited Friend A and B to a road trip, and since Friend C doesn't really know you, he didn't invite you. Would you get angry if Friend A and Friend B didn't ask you to go with them even though you are best friends with them? Remember though, it was Friend C who invited them.




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Posted 31 July 2009 - 04:41 PM

i wouldnt be necessarily mad.. though i'd be disappointed.
disappointed cause i cant hang out with my two buddies for a while.
but ya i hate that.. when two really good friends are friends with someone else.. but doesnt really introduce you to the new friend. i want to be part of the group too T_T


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Posted 31 July 2009 - 04:48 PM

Nah, though I would be a bit sad about not seeing my friends
I mean, if Friend C is the one organizing the trip, it'll be rude of Friend A & B to invite their friends along without considering Friend C's feelings about it

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Posted 31 July 2009 - 04:52 PM

Oh. Something like this sorta happened but it was more like.

I USED to be really good friends with Friend A.. And Im close with friend B... I know Friend C through Friend A and B as well to a point that I consider Friend C as my own friend too.

Well. If I was still really good friends with Friend A, I think he wouldve invited me.. But since thats in the past..

Im not supersuper good friends with Friend C though, I don't blame her for not inviting me.. Although I was just like :T... I didnt really feel offended because I understood why she didnt invite me.

But in the end, they didnt end up going XD.

But wait. I think if you're best friends with A and B, they def shouldve invited you.. But but.. Iuno o_o.
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 05:07 PM

I don't know C, not his fault.

It's like if I kind of knew a friend's friend's friend (let's say, D), and D decided to invite his friends to a party (which excludes me AND my friend), well, not his fault.

We all probably have huge social networks without even knowing it after all.
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 05:11 PM

I wouldn't be mad at Friend A or B. Friend C doesn't really know me so why would they invite a stranger? I'd be kinda sad that I wouldn't get to go either but I'm not gonna force A or B to invite me.

And trying to invite myself on their trip would be really rude too.
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 05:14 PM

I wouldn't be mad..but I mean..I'd be a little annoyed? I dunno..it's not really A & B's fault because C was the inviting person..but C doesn't know you too well...then I guess it's not really something to be upset about =T
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 05:14 PM

I would be emo about it because how come they didn't invite me.
Am I not good enough?
It happened to me before and one of my friend reponse was "we don't have to you invite you everywhere we go"
My other friend didn't say anything to back it up
OUCH~
So after that I just treat them as my casual friends and move on.
Show how much they care about our friendship.
I was right about it too.


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Posted 31 July 2009 - 05:27 PM

Hmm, I don't think I would be angry.

I might be dissapointed, but not angry.
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 06:25 PM

That would hurt a bit...but
I don't think I would be mad about it though. I say how about hanging out with friend c
a bit more, so all of ya'll can be become all close, and no one would be left out when
going on a trip or just hanging out. ^__^

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Posted 31 July 2009 - 06:57 PM

I would be pretty upset, because I would wonder why they wouldn't
ask me to come and allow me to try and become friends with Friend C.
Then that way, we'd all know eachother and there won't be disappointments like this.

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Posted 31 July 2009 - 07:00 PM

I'd feel lonely and left out but... iono, think of it this way. If you were invited, it'd be like 3 best friends and then C.
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 07:03 PM

Disappointed, yeah... but it IS friend C's trip, not theirs. It's NOT their place to invite people to something they didn't plan; it'd be incredibly rude for them to do so.
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 07:03 PM

No I wouldn't. You're not friends with Friend C so there should be an expectation to be invited to it. Friend A and B weren't the ones who organised it so it's not really their right to invite you along.
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 07:30 PM

QUOTE (Cheri.B* @ Jul 31 2009, 06:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I would be emo about it because how come they didn't invite me.
Am I not good enough?
It happened to me before and one of my friend reponse was "we don't have to you invite you everywhere we go"
My other friend didn't say anything to back it up
OUCH~
So after that I just treat them as my casual friends and move on.
Show how much they care about our friendship.
I was right about it too.


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Uh, well they don't. .______." I mean, it's not like you can plan something around everyone's schedules. It's a pain in the ass. =_____=

And to the OP: No. I'd be sad I wouldn't get to see them for a bit, but that's it. I mean, if I were Friend C and I found out that one of my friends randomly invited some person I don't know too well to the road trip I planned, then I'd get pissed. It's better they didn't invite you.

I'd only get really pissed off if the three of you guys started hanging out afterwards and they kept on making inside jokes and whatnot. Then I'd get pretty annoyed, cause I'd be like the third wheel.
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 07:37 PM

i wouldn't be mad at them..but more like disappointed.
GAH hate when taht happens
as long as friend a and b arent ditching you for friend c...i wouldn't think about it that much
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 07:48 PM

not mad but disappointed. it's not friend c's fault that he doesn't know you.
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 07:53 PM

I'd be a little upset...but I wouldn't be mad.
I would get over it though. smile.gif
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 08:12 PM

Not really. If I did tag along, it would have been more awkward, most likely.
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Posted 31 July 2009 - 08:39 PM

I wouldn't be mad...at Friend C...if she knows Friend A and Friend B well enough to invite them then, Friend A and Friend B should go on the trip. It would be nice to be invited. But since I don't know her really well, it might make her feel awkward during the entire trip...
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