[hong863]

we been together for a little more than a month

but all of sudden he started to work 6 days a week; from 3 - 12pm ; therefore, the next 8 hrs he's sleeping

he doesnt all me at night (after 12) like he used to, nor text me as much anymore ; may 4 -5 times a day

he said im acting werid, and texting /calling him too much

but then he says he still loves me

so my debate is...

am i being the one that clingy? or is he too busy for our relationship???

what should i do??

EDIT
i think i got the impression that i text too much

i actually only texted less like 6-7 times per day . i really dont see how that is a LARGE AMOUNT

and we dont live here each other.. more like a 1.5 hr drive

[Mannosuke]

Talk to him about it (when he has time). Or more effectively, tell him to set aside from time for you to have a little chat.
He still texts you, do you really need exorbitant amounts of texts?

[killasnake]

You are just being clingy, he is working 6 days a week for 9 hours. You have to give him space, he is tired and cranky. You do not need to talk to each other every single night for hours... Just a quick chat is fine.

[Gofishus]

Well at least he's making a lot of money...

[moot11]

He's prb. exhausted, and rightly so...

I think confronting him or trying engage him in a deep discussion will only push him away. Give him space, let him contact you.

[jaeka]

Imagine yourself working them hours and having your bf bug you about not seeing you and causing crap. How would you like it? How would you react if you were exhausted like him?

[Lie]

he said im acting werid, and texting /calling him too much

but then he says he still loves me

so my debate is...

am i being the one that clingy? or is he too busy for our relationship???

what should i do??

If he says you're texting/calling too much, try to respect his opinion, and give him his space (i.e. call and text less). I bet if you didn't call or text him for a few days, he'd come running to you, begging for your time. That's just how most people 15-25 are, unfortunately. I'm no exception.

[bitter SOOweet]

guys tend to need their space and if he told you straight up that your texting/calling too much .. your texting/calling too much for his taste
he still texts you... and hes just tired so he doesn't call as much.
its not like he's out chilling and thats why he's not chilling/talking to you
he's working and he's prolly tired thats why.

let him be and he'll come around

[MNLV27]

At least he texts you three four times a day. If it's bothering you a bit just ask him if he can call and talk to you just for a few minutes before he goes to bed and doesn't need to text that much during the day. He's off one day a week, spend that day with him if you can.

[HaplessChild]

You're being clingy. Get a hobby.

[MaryMagdalin]

you are def. way to clingy.
4-5 times a day is fine.
he works, of course he`s tired.
you try working with a schedule like that
i understand how you feel, i used to be like you
i got dumped. he left me for some other girl.
so after that, i became a lot less clingy.
just do other hobbies or events and you`ll be fine.
make some friends.

[LindySzeto]

Ever heard of the saying, "You can't force a man to be faithful, he HAS to want to." It's KIND OF like that..and well, you are definitely being too clingy. You guys have only been together for ONE month and he's already complaining, guys don't just do things just for the heck of it, he's definitely serious when he's telling you that you're texting and calling him way TOO much. Give him space, it's no wonder he's picking up more hours. It's a sign that you're just being too much. No offense, but that's what drives these guys away.

[Laxntiga]

Guys need space. When girls smother us with attention and love, all-the-time, they get tired of it.
You should get a job of your own.
Be busy yourself, make him come to you.

[juicejuice]

A bit too clingy... if I work that much... I would be exhausted and just want to go home and rest... you should give him space and try to do other stuff and keeps you busy, do the things you enjoy doing that doesn't revolve around him.

I know you want to talk to him and such... but do you want him to call you because you said so, or do you want him to call because he wants to call you?

You shouldn't revolve yourself around him too much...or lose yourself....I mean before you got together, I am sure you have hobbies or interests that you enjoy doing ... why not do that?

[orgasmiq.]

Answer to your questions in my honest opinion:
Yes, you are being too clingy. He msgs you back, and it's not like he doesn't have a legit reason for not calling you/seeing you.
If you're getting to the point when he has to tell you that you're msging him too much etc, then it's a bit too far don't you think? =/

[have_faith]

>.< i know what you mean. going through that myself. except he doesnt work as much as yours.
umm maybe we are being to clingy lol. but i think its understandable because things just changed and we're still trying to get use to it.
it may seem like they're distant and stuff but thats not the case. (at least i hope not lol)
i say to just give him space for now. he'll end up missing you and reach out first. a text now and then to say hi and to remind him tat u heart him is good enough i think.
dont worry, things will adjust and it'll be normal again soon.

[rawr! :3]

yeah youre being clingy. you have to understand that your boyfriend is busy because of work & he needs sleep. he needs space too!

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[Wadizzle]

Wtf? 4-5 times a day? I'm lucky to get one a week... god I'm lonely.

[hong863]

but even on this day off he does the same