[whenaicu]

There's already a guys topic like this, where the guy has many female friends. I'm sure we've all see those girls that always just seem to have all the boys follow them yet they aren't dating any of those boys. So girls/boys what do you guys think of this type of girl?

Do you envy her? Are you like her? Do you find these girls intimidating?

[peppermintsugar]

Hmm, I thought there was already a thread like this somewhere, in fact, I was just looking for it O_O

I used to be that girl, but sometimes it doesn't give off the best image. I don't think negatively of girls like that, but I feel sorry for younger, more naive girls (maybe even lonely), that hang around a bunch of boys and are really flirtatious with all of them, because I feel as though she might not know how it looks to someone else looking in.

I still try not to make a rash judgment.

[joxxy]

I used to be like that but I viewed all of my guy friends as actual friends.
They actually considered me to be one of the guys hahaha.
I just find it easier to get along with guys because there's no competitive or catty vibe.

If I see a girl with a bunch of guys, I don't mind.
It just depends on the girl's attitude... If I see a girl surrounded by a bunch of guys and she's all over them, then of course I would make negative assumptions.

[Pinkosa]

Somehow, I'm like that. Not the type of girl who everyone likes but the one that gets along with the boys. People talk bad stuff about me but I don't really care, because I know I'm not a person who likes attention or flirts with every single boy.

But girls who are like all over the boys and they follow her---, well, I don't actually care haha. They can do whatever they want.

[J00NGiEx]

Hm, it depends on how the girl acts around the guys?
Most of my friends are all guys but I seriously just feel like one of the guys.
Just yesterday it was just me and a bunch of guys but on the outside I'm pretty sure I just looked like another guy LOL.
I don't know if that's a good thing or not but I realized girls just bring in so much DRAMA.
Guys only bring drama if you're dating them.
I swear I'm probably going to be single for the rest of my life.

[-aimeex]

My sisters friend is actually one of those girls who has a lot of guy friends but isn't dating any of them because she has her own boyfriend. A guy friend of my sisters actually said he dislike girls like her because they're those and I quote "girls who sends out vibes that says 'oh come to me, come to me' but when you go to them they're all like 'stay back I don't want you'" ROLF. When he told us that we cracked up like crazy because for one-it's true and two...well who would've known that guys thought like that.

Anyways I don't envy or get intimidated by them or am I one of them. I don't really care and it does really depends on a persons point of view of what they're seeing. Sometimes yea it seems like the girls is flirting with every one of them and sometimes...eh...you can tell right away that they're just friends.

[whenaicu]

@PristineNyte;
I agree with you, when I'm walking around the city I see plenty of younger girls trying to be the "head" girl in a group with all boys and she glares at all the other girls. I don't find them intimidating but it does feel wierd for some little kid to stare at you that way.

@maivyaj.♥.minwoo;
LOL that's funny. When I told this to my guy friend he was just like "yeah but when you see a girl hang with a guy or a guy hang with a girl a lot of course you'd make assumptions".

[bonjour tristesse.]

Im like this, I was always the girl that never had a lot of girl friends to hang out with, all that stuff. It's just that with me, I hate how us girls make such a big deal about everything. I mean, I know I do it but once the other party starts doing it too, it gets a bit crazier. Drama starts, the rants and the silent war begins, I mean seriously I just HATE it when this happens. I hate having to listen to someone rant about how the whole world hates them and its like sometimes, they just go too far and make the drama themselves, its so annoying. Its like seriously, the whole world doesn't revolve around you. I like hanging out with guys because its like you can just sit back and relax with them you know, without having them to worry about something you said for like 5 days and then finally make a big fuzz about it. I mean, don't get me wrong. I am not a slut, lmao, I'm still a virgin But like, you know .. I prefer chilling with guys, though hanging out with the ladies from time to time is alright too.

I can honestly say that not a lot of girls that have the same feisty personality than I do are fond of me. I know for a fact that I'm intimidating and I was always told (still being told) that from the first time seeing me, they were scared to talk to me. I mean .. It's not like I'm mean or anything. LOL. I'm actually pretty 8th dimensional its just that I wouldn't be the right person to mess with.

As for others .. I don't mix in with someone that has the same personality as I do. It just kind of clashes and I'll probably get pissed. HAHA.

But even so, even though I don't roll with a lot of ladies, I still get drama from the girlfriends D: aish.

[Penny Lane]

ugh... i WISH i wasn't one of these girls. as much as girls have totally brought the dramz in my life, i still miss being able to go shopping and talk about make-up and watch silly shows (GOSSIP GIRRRRRL) with a girlfriend. instead, i am one of the guys- i always hang out with my BF (he is my BF and my BFF ) and his friends have just become our friends. we get along as if i'm one of the guys- we curse, play video games, read comics, and don't watch chick flicks (my girliness stops at TV dramas). there have never been any misconceptions about whether i'm one of those desperate girls, but probably because we are all in our 20s and i go out of my way to not act "too friendly" with any of them.

i agree with @PristineNyte and @whenaicu- so pathetic to see that girl in a group of guys that is crazy possessive over them and/or flirty with all of them. it can be both funny and sad- no girl should ever be that desperate for attention from the opposite sex. i try not to make assumptions, but some of them are pretty obvious. especially if the silly broad is giving me stank looks at the mall because one of her boys is looking at me

[michikosashimi]

i have many guy friends o_o
but they're just friends. i agree with what pennylane said.

i agree with @PristineNyte and @whenaicu- so pathetic to see that girl in a group of guys that is crazy possessive over them and/or flirty with all of them. it can be both funny and sad- no girl should ever be that desperate for attention from the opposite sex. i try not to make assumptions, but some of them are pretty obvious. especially if the silly broad is giving me stank looks at the mall because one of her boys is looking at me

[Jnn]

My mom doesnt like that and always tells me to hang out with more girls. so yea i get how people would make assumptions. im not exactly "that girl" contrary to what my mom sees and i dont envy those girls because i dont see whats so good? like its not bad if thats just how it is...but i personally like having a balanced set of friends.

[Amethist]

I have many male friends, but I guess I can't help it, regarding the fact that I'm 1. a bit of a tomboy, 2. my class consists of 46 males and only 8 females, and that kind of forced me to hang out with guys even more than before ..
But I really just see my male friends as friends, I have had some male friends in the past that confessed they liked me, but I didn't like them back, I really saw them as just friends who happened to be male, and not as potential lovers >_<.
I still have a lot of female friends too btw, it's not like I hang out with guys only, female friends and male friends both have their good sides and bad sides..

Btw I also don't like girls that are acting overprotected when it comes to the males in their friend group.
I remember my sister, our female friend and I were just talking with this guy, and the girls out of the group he belonged to were trying to get his attention back from us, also talking in chinese and stuff (aka a language he understood and we didn't). Seriously those girls were acting childish and pathetic, because none of us even liked the guy, we were just befriending with the guy ..

[makelovenoises]

I get along with guys better than girls.
My best friend even admitted to me that she got jealous of me because I hangout/am friends with with cute guys.
When I first meet them, I was like the other girls thinking the guys were fricken cute/hot. Now I just think of them as a good friend.
Honestly, I had 10 girls that hated me last school year, they crushed on 6 guys. I was just the guy's "little sister" T___________T
They're so mean.
And yup. I finger counted them

[CL_socool]

I'm like that, I always hang out with my buds.
I think it's easier for me to hang out with guys 'cause
I hate the 'drama thing'.. Girls sometimes make a big deal
out of everything, I hate the fact that girls have cat fights over
some dumb arguments.. It's alright when I hang out with my girl friends,
but being with your guy friends.. You could just chill and do stuff without
people thinking something negative about you.

It can cause problems though some girls would say negative
stuffs about me, they hated me just 'cause I can hang out with
guy they like, and they think that I'm 'trying to steal their 'boys' away from them'.

Plus I see my guy friends as brothers, not lovers.
Even though I have girl friends too, I'd rather hang out or go
shopping with my buds, and besides, my guy friends think
that I'm one of the boys haha.

The thing about having guy friends is though..
They try to make you friends with the girl they like just
so they could find out more about the girl, haha.
Or try to impress the girl by saying good stuff about the guy.
Being the bridge sometimes ain't fun. =x

[thaoyunho]

I have a lot of guy friends, but also a lot of girl friends. I like hanging out with both gender lol. Sometimes it's fun to just hang out with a bunch of guy and be competitve and sometimes It's fun to hang out with girls and do girly stuff.

[Painterlyy]

Nah not jealous.
I have a lot of guy friends too. And a lot of girl friends.
It's fun to hang out with both.
Best of both worlds =]

[Floatii]

i get jealous of those girls. LOL
because i somehow don't really get along with guys and that saddens me because sometimes i need a guy's opinion on things too right? guys are intimidating to me. ahahah
and the one guy friend who i have is now my boyfriend. o.o

yea i would find that kind of girl sort of intimidating. =/
well..i find lots of people intimidating so..XD

[evans]

i'm kind of like that/used to be, where i'd hang out with groups of guys most of the time, but i'd have lots of female friends too, only we don't hang out as often. problem is, other people started saying stuff about me, and all. but really, all my male friends are just what they are: friends. they view me as one of them too! and they're always going on about how manly i am, and it's always nice to hear a guys point of view, and sometimes i find it easier to get along with guys than girls. but i think there ARE some girls who don't keep entirely platonic relationships with guys just for the attention >< and that gives other girls who DO have platonic guy friends a bad name.

[hyunnibun]

yeaaa i'm kind of intimidated by them! somehow i can't really see in their shoes.. maybe that's why...
but i guess i can see WHY they would hang out with more guys than girls. i like talking with my guy friends because we aren't talking about guys all the time or gossiping, we're just having a great time talking about enjoyable things. now that i think about it, i think that might be enough for to be jealous of a girl with more guy friends!

[Ericcc]

Personally, I think its alright, those type of girls are normally the type that are always up for a laugh, or maybe they enjoy the male company I guess.

I say this because I am the type of guy who hangs around with alot of girls. If theres one thing I hate, it would be hanging out with a group of guys, I get bored ever so easily.