[Roubsouay]

well yeah i been crushing on this asian chick for about a few years
shes smart, focus on school, and looks like she doesnt look like she has a bf
so i want to have a relationship with her
but i kinda screwed up
she knows i like her

but im kinda shy
its kinda hard talking to her without class

i need some tips/help

also i kinda get jealous when i see her talking to another guy -.-

[Javus]

Maybe you two have a mutual friend or maybe you can find a common interest. But if you say that she already knows, you can be ballsy and just ask her out.

[Roubsouay]

Maybe you two have a mutual friend or maybe you can find a common interest. But if you say that she already knows, you can be ballsy and just ask her out.

lol yeah but whats with a mutual friend, i dont get it

[daulism]

emphasize how she knows that you like her. from people gossiping?

[Javus]

lol yeah but whats with a mutual friend, i dont get it

If you two both have a friend in common then you can ask that friend for help in regards to your crush.

[Roubsouay]

emphasize how she knows that she likes you. from people gossiping?

well lets just say that i told some friends and i guess they were friends with her and told her

If you two both have a friend in common then you can ask that friend for help in regards to your crush.

oh i see, very clever

[twenty4k]

First off, does she like you? If not, then everything you thought before practically goes down the drain.

[Roubsouay]

First off, does she like you? If not, then everything you thought before practically goes down the drain.

well she likes me as a friend but not "like like"

[Javus]

Ohhhh. If you're sure that she only likes you as a friend than just give up. Friend zone is almost impossible to get out of.

[Roubsouay]

Ohhhh. If you're sure that she only likes you as a friend than just give up. Friend zone is almost impossible to get out of.

idk im selfish,i dont wanna get give up

[twenty4k]

Then tough luck buddy. She's going to have to like you to want to start a relationship with you. If I were you, I think I would stop giving her those clues that you like her. If she doesn't feel the same way, it's not going to be pleasant knowing that theres someone that wants more than to be friends with her. Two words: Awkwardness and guilt, perhaps even resentment.

[Roubsouay]

Then tough luck buddy. She's going to have to like you to want to start a relationship with you. If I were you, I think I would stop giving her those clues that you like her. If she doesn't feel the same way, it's not going to be pleasant knowing theres someone that wants more then to be friends with her. Two words: Awkwardness and guilt, perhaps even resentment.

ahhhh well i just find a way then, thanks anyways

[KanyeWEST]

just give up. she will never like you. save yourself the time and embarrassment and go find someone else. perhaps maybe even lower your standard.
just some advice.

[gkstmdhQk]

If you're friendzoned....
Your best bet is to at least be the one that approach her....
If you ask your friend to introduce.... GG... it will seem like you are desperate/too sissy to even say hi.

[Yienny]

Try to become better friends with her !

If you want to talk to her just.. idk say make a scene like in korean drama's LOL .
Get someone to knock her pencil , book etc down and pick it up for her than start a conversation LOL !.

[vitalrain]

Why have you "screwed up" if she knows you like her? Do you even know this for sure?

Also, you should probably find out if she really has a bf or not. "Doesn't look like she has a bf" isn't very factual. Unless of course, you don't really care if she has a bf or not. Some people like to keep their relationship status/info private, or maybe you just haven't seen her with her bf, if she has one. Even if you see someone who you think is her bf, it might not be .

Honestly, the best way to express your feelings is by talking to the person you wish to express your feelings to, at least I think so. "Hints" aren't always obvious..people don't always pick up your hints, or even if they do, they might misunderstand. Just say exactly what you mean.

If you give more info about this, you'll probably get more helpful advice. What's your relationship [closeness-wise] with her? Are you guys classmates, friends, acquaintainces...or strangers? I'm assuming you guys are at least acquaintainces because you said it's 'hard to talk to her without class.'

If you don't know her very well, I would suggest spending some time getting to know her first before deciding if you really like her/want a relationship with her. Do something together and talk with her....I guess a "date" would be the term for this kind of thing. Forget what I said just now if you guys are already friends and you have an idea, or you think you do, of what kind of personality she has.

So if you already "know" her personally-somewhat, then just ask to talk to her. I'm assuming you guys have at least one class together since you said 'hard to talk to her without class' so ask her before/during/after class if she could talk to you ALONE. Yes, emphasis on alone because otherwise she might have other people with her....unless you're okay with her having other people with her.

Then just try to translate your feelings into words the best you can/speak your thoughts....Perhaps you might want to think a little bit beforehand generally what you'd like to say, but I wouldn't suggest making a "script." You have no idea what the circumstances will be, and your script may have interference.

Then what happens after that, happens.

Again I believe more information would be helpful, especially concerning the level of closeness between you two, at least from your perspective.

[blitzk]

hahah i was in a similar situation last year

but i graduated and such but its like hell awkward when i pick my siblings up coz shes gives me the O_O ITS YOUUU shocked look hahah...

[xoxomcm]

i'm assuming u guys are friends?
and that u know each other well... or kinda well?

if so, then ask her outtt.
get over that shyness boy.
what do u have to lose?
she already knows u like her, and she's still talking to u.
and if she rejects u.... IF! then sure it may be awkward for a few days,
but u guys will probably be friends again after that.
i dont know if that helped...

[Mannosuke]

but i kinda screwed up
she knows i like her

So you screwed up and now she knows you like her? Isn't that good news?

[Sam Sik]

So you screwed up and now she knows you like her? Isn't that good news?

Here's what I'm guessing. She knows he likes her but she probably told him that she only likes him as a friend.

Thus, officially friend zoned.