[lilvanillaxo]

So, I met a bunch of international students over the summer and we all became really good friends. (Or so I thought).
I was chilling at their house last night and I started saying how it's so sad that one of the girls left a few days ago and they are all going home soon. And then, the rest of the group tells me that she didn't like me. And here, I'm going WHATTTT??

I thought this girl and I were pretty good friends because every time she would see me she would act sooo happy. Running up and giving me hugs and kisses and sht. I'm almost 100% positive that they are not lying to me though. So why did she do this? Why did she act like she loves me soo much when in reality she didn't even like me?

I'm not upset that she doesn't like me. It's okay, whatever. What bothers me is that I'm pretty good at reading people and this time, I didn't catch onto it at all. It bothers me that someone can be sooo fake. Ugh. So please answer me...why did she do this? share experiences too please.

[Mannosuke]

So she can use you and manipulate you.
We wouldn't know, only she would. Her being an international student doesn't really allow for more possibilities either.

[AS1AND0LL]

Humans can be pretty scary and evil.

[rectitude*]

Fake people, tell me about it. haha I don't know why she did it, but of course only she knows. If you're not upset, then you shouldn't be bother with her reasons. It's pretty much a waste of time. I knew this girl who went around telling people we're best friends and the next thing I knew, she was telling people that she can't trust me. so much for being friends. But that's just the way things are, so many fake people and nothing we can do.

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

look up belovedrose's post

[xsaranghae<3]

ugh i hate people like her
she was probably just using you.

i had this friend, we were really close you know?
hanging out every weekend
talking in class etc

then when someone tells her that i was talking mini cooper about her behind her back
she believes them T_T

and she keeps claiming that EVERYONE that does her wrong, or etc
has changed
when in reality it was her that changed.

she used to be nice and all that
and now shes manipulative, a jerk, fake, etc
always trying to be the victim
she's NEVER HAPPY
if me and my friends include shes unhappy, cause she wants all the credit
if we dont inlcude her shes unhappy cause she thinks were mad/disliek her T_T

like one day its all smiles
while the next she just rolls her eyes and look sthe other way.

one month she's talking to me
the next she's all ignoring me

she's still playing the "my father died" sympathy card after two years T_T
i know its hard and all
but she knew that this was going to happen, i mean he was having medical problems...

and the card would be played randomly...

as i said one minute happy the next mad/sad/depressed/heartbroken

she's always making up excuses

she was beign such a pink berry this one day

our teacher had pink eye
and didnt tell us (yea thats really nice huh?)
BUT she told her since shes president and all (but she doesnt do anything. i do more hten her and im not Officially part of stufdent government)
and she didnt tell us about it till the end of the day
where we probably touched our faces and etc already T_T

she wants everyone else to do the work for her when she lieks someone
she wants you to talk to them
find out if they like her
but then in the end she ends up mad at you
cause you told them about her crush
or she suspects you liking them etc

PLUS she's going to my highschool next year

sorry bout the long rant
had to get that all out x__X

but yea fake people are pink berry's

[maharu.]

Oh how I hate that.
I remember a international girl did the similar thing to me as well.
She would hang out with me, be nice to me, and do all these things but in the end, she was just using me.
I figured out something was off when she said that she can call me 4 years later right before it was the last time I was seeing her.
Even my dad was like, "Wth?" when he heard that.


That's why I don't really like international students. I feel they'll just use you.

[WENJJANG]

Oh i know a WHOLE GROUP of people like that.
It's just because of my ex friend who would start spreading rumors to all of my other friends.
Then they were all against me, but never said it to my face. I heard from my best friend that one
of the girls that hang out with the whole group said they all hated me. I think it's funny when a whole group
hates you and you have no clue why. Honestly, I don't ever hang out with them, they do under age drinking and smoke always cause trouble. Do I need friends like that? No. However, they taught me to not trust people so easily anymore. They show me how evil humans can really be.

[SurpriseSex]

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[Meenuh]

May I introduce you to soompi 411 section?

Rofl.


Eh, you're gonna meet people like this all your life. I went through this type of thing all throughout highschool and have repeatedly witnessed it happening to others. One second they'll be trash talking someone and then the next they're all buddy buddy.

I learned later in life that sometimes it's actually useful to learn to "be fake". Lol. As horrible as this sounds, you need to learn to manipulate people. Even while I was working I learned that even though I might not like a particular manager, if I was able to manipulate them I would get a promotion! Hahah.

It's gonna happen all the time. You just gotta learn to deal with it.

[Envious-Sleep]

I admit that I can be kinda fake too. Not like, acting all cutesy and stuff to get attention. Ugh, no. I just hide wahtever emoness I feel so that other people don't bug me about it, lol. 'Cause everytime I let people know I'm upset, and I'm hoping my friends would comfort me, it turns the other way and I end up either being totally ignored in my time of need or basically being told that even though I was the one who was hurt or depressed, I was in the wrong. Yeah...anyway.

That girl probably acted all happy with you and stuff even though she didn't like you because she didn't want to hurt your feelings. I don't act THAT close with people I don't like, but i don't outwardly show that I dislike them, 'cause it just seems kinda mean to me, lol.

Then again, a lot of people act fake and stuff for the attention. They don't want to avoid hurting you; they just want you to like them even if they don't give a rat's a.ss about you. This one girl I knew, I'm not kidding, I thought she was one of my bestest friends in the world. I knew her for almost 7 years. Because we were different, we never seemed to be that close, and admittedly, I wasn't as fond of her in the early years of our friendship. Still, I tried my best to be there for her, to help her, and she did the same. I thought so, at least.

Very long story short, she acts like a perfect little person, acts all cutesey and shy and stuff, and makes everyone thinks she's the nicest person in the world. Then she'd turn around and tell other people about 'how so-and-so is a terrible person! She did this-and-that and I'm so upset!' and basically turn people against that person, and get people to pity her. I sometimes did pity her before, but now I realized that she's just putting herself in pitiful situations to make people sympathize.

[eternal_bliss]

I learned later in life that sometimes it's actually useful to learn to "be fake". Lol. As horrible as this sounds, you need to learn to manipulate people. Even while I was working I learned that even though I might not like a particular manager, if I was able to manipulate them I would get a promotion! Hahah.

Too true. It's a good skill to have. Inevitably, everyone uses people whether they realize it or not. Parents will manipulate their kids to listen, men manipulate women and vice versa. It's essentially part of life.

As for phony people, I think most people are fake to an extent. At least once in your life, you will have acted 'fake' towards someone regardless of the reasons. No one is honest and real all the time. And there's always going to be someone who dislikes you and someone you dislike.

[hellzyah;D]

May I introduce you to soompi 411 section?

LOL.

[dudeilovefood]

arghhsss i know right?
i hate fake people.
i have honestly no idea why she even did that to you, maybe to seem nice and kind.

[Psychotic Otaku]

...Everyone is fake on some level. It pisses us off, but then later on we find ourselves doing it.

[Mannosuke]

...Everyone is fake on some level. It pisses us off, but then later on we find ourselves doing it.

You must define what "fake" is.

I don't feel that I'm fake. My behavior with friends or online is definitely different than a formal setting with my employer. Does that make me "fake"? No, I'm not putting on an act of any sorts.

[migrub]

Maybe she was just trying to avoid an awkward confrontation since you're all in the same group. Dont look at it so black and white. I'm sure theres people youre nice to but secretly dont like.

[x123x]

Ehhh..no offense but I don't really trust international students
It might be just at my school, but most of them seem hella fake, especially the chinese girls (I'm not being racist [I'm chinese myself])
I've hung out with that crowd before, and I always feel like they're talking about me behind my back or something D:
I haven't made any enemies with any of them, but I don't plan on getting close to them either

oh yeah. same here.. i know a bunch of such chinese girls you're talking about (haha, i'm not being racist either since i'm chinese myself too!! lolz ) but yeah, they just give me the impression that they gossip a lot, and when they say things, it's so... sarcastic? really gotta fully interpret everything and all the meanings it could have.. it's so uncomfortable being around those types of people i'm gonna avoid them when i can too...

[x Sim pli city x]

you just have to learn not to trust people so easily and in the real world majority are fake and manipulative , most people want to reach the top position they would go to the extend to knock you down and climb on you. i too had been in the same position before when i thought a girl i went to school with since the 5th grade and when we reach highschool, she left me hanging and went hangout with the popular upperclassmen and she didnt even acknowledge me when she saw me. after all the years i stuck by her side listen to her problems and lend my shoulders for her to cry on, she went far as using me as her tools to escape her parents to go meet with her bf. since her parents know i have good manner and good background, so she used me as an excuse every time she went on date and because of her i started to have fears that history will repeat itself with the people i meet in my life. so i know how it feel, my advice to you is to be smart with the people you hang out with.

[smileyface(;]

tbh I can be fake sometimes , just barely .
Im a very honest person Idc how harsh it is , I'll tell you straight up .
but theen again sometimes I talk behind peoples back . xD but usually its people who Im not friends with .

I cant stand really fake people .
theres this girl I know she hates me for no reaason and it pisses me off so much .
shes a sl** anyways .
excuse my language . =/