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#1 User is offline   KaoriSaru 

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Posted 10 August 2009 - 06:16 AM

Anyway, I have this friend who is a guy. He is like saying the good stuffs about females. Its very clearly shown he dislikes being a guy. Reason is, he says like "Why in Singapore, South Korea or other places only males must go National Service/Military. He also says like, way smaller stuffs like, why is pushups for females different than males? Also like, he doesnt believe males are physically stronger than females are which I think its true. Also like, if females wear exposed clothing like for example (short shorts, tank tops, skirts and others) he will blame females for wandering eyes by males. Alot of other crap he will shoot at me and I dont know how to answer him. Also I forgot to tell you. Im female. I need ideas on what to say to him because he is seriously getting on my nerves. Sorry if its boring and long. Please I need help!
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 06:27 AM

He doesn't seem to not like being a male...o_O I dunno your examples are kinda contradictory.
It just seems to me he's really sour about everything. x_X

Just tell him you don't like what he's saying. :\

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Posted 10 August 2009 - 06:32 AM

He's a feminist. Most people believe in gender roles. He's ahead of the game. You think it's annoying because he doesn't believe in gender roles? So basically, you're a sexist and you're annoyed by him not being one?
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#4 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 10 August 2009 - 07:34 AM

I don't really get why he's getting on your nerves.
Is he being overly sexist?
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 09:38 AM

He seems like an interesting conversationalist. He's just stating his opinions which I think in this situation is normal. You don't like it? State you opinions too. You can make a good conversation out of it.
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 11:10 AM

Hmm..I don't really find anything annoying from what you told us?
He's just stating his opinion?
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 11:45 AM

QUOTE (xspringrollsx @ Aug 10 2009, 12:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
He seems like an interesting conversationalist. He's just stating his opinions which I think in this situation is normal. You don't like it? State you opinions too. You can make a good conversation out of it.
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