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How Do You Confess? silly but i'm clueless

#1 User is offline   fossilain 

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Posted 10 August 2009 - 09:47 AM

so i posted this topic in march

http://www.soompi.com/forums/index.php?sho...83401&st=20

and... updating, i've met with her and went to korea in june to meet her and her family, really nice and all. same kind of touchy feely as in the old topic, even in front of her family (her 2 older sisters and her parents)

so i'm back in the states, and i really didn't get to tell her anything. just had lots fun. i'm not really too satisfied with that, and so i just bought a plane ticket back to korea for 2 days just to confess

but then i just realized, i did it without thinking, and i don't really know how to. i've had gfs, but they all sort of fell into place. i've never had to tell a girl i like her, so... how do i do it?
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#2 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 10 August 2009 - 09:49 AM

Be my gf. Be mine

You can add in accessories and other material items to make it "creative"
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 11:35 AM

^ Aww, that's kinda cute, lol..

I'm a wuss and only told my current boyfriend after I wrote it on my xanga for everyone to figure out... then he told someone I liked them before I found out he liked me... then he told someone else after we broke up for a while. I'm a loser. @_X

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I just realized!! When my boyfriend was trying to hint to me that he liked me (I'm also a clueless retard), he told me to look up the lyrics to Bi's [I do] song. *hint hint* LOL
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 11:38 AM

Knock her out. Strip off her clothes and throw her in a bed.
Wait for her to wake up. And just smile.
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 11:39 AM

Read it from a fanfic,,, on a cupcake write yes, on the second cupcake write no, and you can put "Do you want to be my girlfriend/fiance whatever" on a small cake, or on another cupcake, have her chose one...

or you could just simply tell her, Please be mine.. hahah ^^

creativity rocks!
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 12:01 PM

There's so many ways! LOL. Well, be straightforward. Just ask her straight out, 'do you want to be mine?'

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Posted 10 August 2009 - 12:12 PM

Just tell her how you feel, describe it and then tell her you like her.
Actually, do what feels natural when you're with her, everyone does it differently.
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 12:41 PM

When you see her, tell her how you feel. When I confessed to my first girlfriend, I was wondering what I needed to say and was a little hesitant. Eventually I just told her I liked her and the rest came naturally.
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 12:44 PM

However you decide to say it, make sure at the end you ask her officially to be your girlfriend.
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 02:30 PM

you slap yourself in your mind. and you just do it.


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Posted 10 August 2009 - 02:38 PM

"I like you a lot and want you to become my girlfriend." Write it down and recite it. I know it's a lot to say but you seem like an intelligent dude so it shouldn't take you too long to memorize it. Make flash cards if you need to.
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 03:14 PM

"I like you." Simple as that smile.gif.

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Posted 10 August 2009 - 09:56 PM

@OP - you're one lucky bastard smile.gif i read your previous post on this and i think at least a little effort is all you need to tell her that you want to be her boyfriend. you won't need anything grand to impress her. just be honest with her, and just make sure everything you say to her is true and heartfelt.

good luck bro!
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Posted 10 August 2009 - 10:11 PM

Wow, if only visiting Korea was that easy for me .__.
LOL. anyways

seeing as how she likes to hold hands,
just grab her and and tell her you don't want to let go.

kind of cheesy but fits for you two

good luck. =]

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Posted 10 August 2009 - 11:51 PM

thank you for your replies!!! my mind was wandering, so i did a mental slap and i'm just going to occupy myself until i get there. i had told her the reason for coming again was to go shopping, so i might sneak in a trip to nam sam tower and do it up there.

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Read it from a fanfic,,, on a cupcake write yes, on the second cupcake write no, and you can put "Do you want to be my girlfriend/fiance whatever" on a small cake, or on another cupcake, have her chose one...


XD what if she's hungry and chooses both! i've found that hungry girls don't tend to look too closely at what they're eating smile.gif

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seeing as how she likes to hold hands,
just grab her and and tell her you don't want to let go.

"I like you a lot and want you to become my girlfriend." Write it down and recite it. I know it's a lot to say but you seem like an intelligent dude so it shouldn't take you too long to memorize it. Make flash cards if you need to.


i kinda like these two, maybe i'll mix them together. soompi remix. after going through college sciences, i'm so pro at making flash cards too.
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 01:58 AM

QUOTE (fossilain @ Aug 11 2009, 03:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
thank you for your replies!!! my mind was wandering, so i did a mental slap and i'm just going to occupy myself until i get there. i had told her the reason for coming again was to go shopping, so i might sneak in a trip to nam sam tower and do it up there.


sounds like a neat plan. go for it! smile.gif

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Posted 17 August 2009 - 11:36 AM

i feel like i'm in the exact situation as you because i just bought my ticket... to do the exact same thing...
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Posted 17 August 2009 - 11:57 AM

"Hey, I like you, wanna be mine?"
simple and honest..
that's how easy it is, for me, i'm not doing it, until i'm sure i'm getting a yes.. wink.gif
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Posted 17 August 2009 - 12:03 PM

I don't think you can be sure, can you?
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