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Do You Hate It When You Are Left Out On Purpose? Ok i got tired of searching up to page 21 but didnt find the topic aha

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Post icon  Posted 11 August 2009 - 07:39 AM

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Yesterday I felt left out because my friends and i usually do aiming in groups as traditions;but since i wasnt friends with one of this girl they left me out.I felt hurt lol . Share your experience
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 08:07 AM

that must have hurt. i don't remember being left out by my friends because i'm not friends with somebody. it's usually i who choose not to join them if there's someone i'm annoyed with.
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 09:06 AM

yeah when I was little,
On valentines day everyone received a carnation flower..
and noone gave me one.
Well, maybe its not exactly like left out "on purpose"
but it made me feel icky inside.
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 11:16 AM

and i thought i was the only one ^^"
i always feel left out but then sooner or later i got used to it.
and well it came back and it hurts to the point i was crying
but what can i do?
meet new friends...of course biggrin.gif

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Posted 11 August 2009 - 11:36 AM

it does hurt my feelings when people leave me out.
that's why I try my best to include everyone so they don't end up hurting.
Like if you're friends with a lot of people in class and you have to work with a partner, it would be nice if instead you partner out with your best friend, you could partner up with someone who doesn't really know anyone in the class.
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 12:46 PM

yepp. happened to me too.
my two close friends were planning to go
to the movies on the weekend on the way to school
on the bus one day .. and they invited our friends who also
rode the bus .. asked everyone but me and i was sitting beside them ..
i was really hurt on the inside.

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Posted 11 August 2009 - 02:50 PM

i hate the feeling of being left out i thought i was the only one feeling like that sad.gif i keep seeing their conversation baack and forth on purpose trying to make me feel left out on facebook.
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 03:01 PM

Holy shiii. YES. It has happened when I was in middle school and later on in my senior year of high school. Now I'm going to college so let's see if I'll have anymore left out-ness.

It does feel pretty terrible.


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Posted 11 August 2009 - 03:22 PM

Sort of but not really? Most of the time I just forget about it afterward or I just don't really care anymore LOL. If I'm really hurt, I'd usually just tell the person XD
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 04:20 PM

yeah all the time. thats cuz it happens-all the time. i just gotta accept it really. but honestly, i hate it bcuz it makes me feel so lonely T-T

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Posted 11 August 2009 - 04:29 PM

i felt lefted out alot last year when one of my friends got in a fight with me and turned all my other friends against me T-T
but i grew over it and now i have new friends that r nice and never leave me out of things
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Post icon  Posted 11 August 2009 - 05:19 PM

OMG YES. D: well, i don't think i was left out purposely; most of the time people
don't notice when they do it. but when it happens... i'm a super jealous person.
haha, so if my friends are giving hella attention to some other "new person" in our
group, i get irritated. XD & i just hate the feeling.
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 05:21 PM

like being the third wheel? tell me about it. this one girl pretended to be friends with me, so she could be friends with my sister. well, now, our parents started to turn into family friends, so now i'm forced to see her at school and at family get togethers. At school she acts like my friend [ which really gets annoying, because shes like using me ] and at parties, i'm totally ignored. ahh, and even during conversations, she would write or say ' can you tell your sister that ___________________' and so on.
number one thing i hate is being used.
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 05:25 PM

no one likes being snubbed.
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 06:47 PM

dang. i've been left out a lot...
there were two events this past week with a couple of church people that i wasn't invited to.
damn, i got pissed when i saw their pics on facebook
ass munchers.

yeah, im a jealous person too.
i even had a dream about confronting my friends about it last night.
anyway, i would love to put "another gathering i wasn't invited to" on every picture.
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 06:51 PM

I think everyone does.
I hate it beacuse I am a very nosy person. My two friends who speak Vietnamese to each other when one of them wants to tell a secret, then they say they'll tell me. Then why couldn't they speak in English then?!
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 08:52 PM

Lol i guess i could say im a jealous person too yes im talking about being the 3rd wheel
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 08:53 PM

Yes I hate it when I'm left out of a group chat or something.
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Posted 11 August 2009 - 09:04 PM

i did , but now i'm pretty used to it :/
It's not a goodbye,but a see you later.

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Posted 11 August 2009 - 09:19 PM

heh, terrible experience of neglect from "friends" for two years in middle school.
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Halloween was coming around and my supposedly close friend was throwing a party and inviting almost everyone in our grade, but never invited me. Most likely because I wasn't on good level with the "popular" kids, he just wanted to bring up his reputation.
For the whole two weeks I had to hear about the party was going to be super great and totally awesome, yo.

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Well that's the only one that I can actually think of purposely, the other ones was just the fact that I wasn't worth noticing unless it involved boys, money, or me bringing presents to some people.
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