[xJoyful]

Well, i have this friend who i've known for like 11-12 years.
we just got into high school last year and near the end of the year she got a boyfriend.
i know i should be happy for her, but i've heard things about him like i know he does drugs and uses girls to ..bow chicka wow wow, then suddenly dumps them. After he dumps the girl he would usually say 'she's ugly' or something !
Also, i recall going to summer school with him the summer before freshman year.
he went up to this girl, lets call her Girl B, and asked her to go out. Girl B knew that he had another girlfriend and said something .. i forgot though.
his response was : i'll dump her for you.
girl B was smart enough to reject him.
almost a year later, he used that same line on my best friend. but unilke girl B, she fell for it.
my best friend was cutting everyone out from her life just to be with him, and i'm like worried that he got her to do horrible stuff. even the people from his former school has been trying to confront my friend that hes the player kind of guy. She even got warnings from other guys that hes that type of guy, if that makes a difference. and like from the people who do have his e mail, i was told like every few weeks he would always have a number or a new girls name on his msn name.

*unrelated: ..why do people put numbers and I LOVE YOU ___ on their msn names. i find it quite annoying, really.

ANYWAYS BACK TO THE TOPIC.

so should i try to stop this? or wait until they break up..which i'm hoping for. i can't believe i'm saying that, but she deserves better. i sereously have tried confronting her about him, but i think shes so caught up in having a boyfriend that she thinks that hes perfect or something. i'm only worried because i know that hes a horrible influence.

oh and would you date someone who your friends don't like ?

[kh00]

If you're really good friends with her, just tell her exactly what you just said.
It may not work, but just warn her and make sure she knows you're there for her.
All a friend can really do =]

[xJoyful]

If you're really good friends with her, just tell her exactly what you just said.
It may not work, but just warn her and make sure she knows you're there for her.
All a friend can really do =]

Thanks for the advice, but i already have.
just waiting until it sinks into her brain.

[kh00]

no problem, sorry i couldnt have helped you more though!

[brownman90561495]

if it doesn't sink into her brain, that isn't your problem. if you do more than you did, you'd already be invading some people's privacies. you already did what you had to do.

[Mannosuke]

I honestly don't think you should do anything. It's not your place to meddle with others' affairs.

[acsrad]

*unrelated: ..why do people put numbers and I LOVE YOU ___ on their msn names. i find it quite annoying, really.

^^ LOL

And, just be there for her if/when she needs you

[,astrolicious]

If you're super super close with her, I think you should mention these things to her.
But don't pester her because the way you put it, she sounds pretty damn attached to him.

And if that doesn't work, wait it out.

If what you said is true, well, she'll just be like all the other girls.

And I'm sure she knows that but hopes that maybe it'll be different this time.

[rawr_sheila]

the only thing you can do is give your opinion on that guy.
tell her how you feel about her dating him.
but its her choice, don't stop it. if something bad happens,
she has to learn from it. just be there as a friend if anything
happens.

[ling_ling]

Because you and your friend are super young ~ you should just warn her
But she is going to be really head over heels because shes at that age (14? if you just entered high school?)

But all you can do is warn her and let her be and let her learn for herself
But I mean tell her to be really careful but dont push it because that could aeffect your friendship
Also because she is young tell her not to do anything (ya know bow chikka wow wow)

But the best thing to do is let it run its course and let her learn for herself ~ just be there when she needs you after

[kerpao]

stupid teenage love leads to teenage pregnancy, make sure she doesn't go to far.

[Melody93]

-sigh- love makes you blind.
well, just hope she'll realize that ASAP