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#1 User is offline   hunnyy_x3 

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Post icon  Posted 15 August 2009 - 10:23 AM

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#2 User is offline   endlessbeauty 

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Posted 15 August 2009 - 11:50 AM

i can somewhat relate to your situation, usually i would say that its all about trusting him and giving this long distant relationship a chance. but considering that you guys have only been dating for a week there could be some issues that arise since you haven't really had a chance to spend time together as a couple.

i'm NOT saying that its not going to work, just that you both will have to try and make it work. You never know, it may not work out or it could turn out to be the best relationship you'll have! Just follow your gut and see where it takes you.

and as i say sometimes when you don't see the person, it makes the heart grow fonder smile.gif well in my case anyways lol

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#3 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 15 August 2009 - 12:07 PM

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What should i do?


Keep it going, that's what you do.


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#4 User is offline   lorayy3 

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Posted 15 August 2009 - 12:12 PM

what a coincidence, that's what my boyfriend said too. i mean i broke up with him
like a week after,& i mean i'm sure you'll miss him& stuff but for me, in the end.
being separated was actually a good thing. i'm not sure if long distance is going to work
or not cause it usually never does. but that's up to you.

i think you should try the long distance, then what happens, happens.
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#5 User is offline   joxxy 

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Posted 15 August 2009 - 12:55 PM

My boyfriend and I broke up when I moved 6000 + miles away but we're still best friends.
Long distance relationships are really tough.
If you guys are going to be able to visit each other often and think you're patient and understanding enough for it, then stay together.
But I think it's better if you guys just break up and remain friends rather than stay in a relationship and get into arguments and have that affect your friendship.
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#6 User is offline   peppermintsugar 

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Posted 15 August 2009 - 05:26 PM

If you're young, then I'm going to be honest and say that it probably won't work, especially if his mom is still the deciding factor on when he can and can't see you. You'll meet new people, he'll ESPECIALLY meet new people -- there's no harm in trying to make it work, just don't be blindsided if it turns out negatively.
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#7 User is offline   killasnake 

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Posted 16 August 2009 - 09:45 PM

1 week? Don't make it any harder on yourself. Break up or just be friends before you are in to deep.
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Posted 16 August 2009 - 09:51 PM

1 week?????? and your writing this!?!?!? lolololol

are you 14 or something........... laugh.gif
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#9 User is offline   Humilious 

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Posted 16 August 2009 - 11:39 PM

your boy's made pretty big promises considering you guys have only been going out for one week. it doesn't hurt to try and keep the relationship does it? if you break up with him now, won't you wonder what could have happened if you just kept it going?
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Posted 17 August 2009 - 12:44 AM

Long distance might work out.. if not, u should go with him, or visit him smile.gif
but 1 week seems too short, even 1 month and i still think its a short time..
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#11 User is offline   juicejuice 

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Posted 17 August 2009 - 07:20 PM

wow... 1 week...do you know that he was moving 1 week before you guys got together? just a question...
I don't know if you should or shouldn't keep the relationship going.
A woman, without her man, is nothing.
A woman: without her, man is nothing.
Rome wasn't built in one day.

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#12 User is offline   hunnyy_x3 

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Posted 17 August 2009 - 07:35 PM

yeah, well i've been crushing on him since September '08 LOL ._.'' We were pretty good friends even before so yeah. but when he asked me out, i was like, Why not give it a try? and i knew he was moving since June. but now idk what to do now that he's actually moving away :/

Yesterday, he said ''Our relationship is going to get harder from now on... Will you bear it with me?'' i was really touched since he seems like he believes that the relationship will last even after he moves. I'm supposed to be faithful, trustworthy, and loyal... So, maybe i'll just see how it goes.

Thanks for your suggestions and opinions, guys : )
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 02:01 AM

uh...well coquitlam isn't that far from vancouver, i mean it's not like he's moving to another province >_> it's just about an hour away. you can still call/msn/visit and go on outings to try to keep the relationship going. but you never know cause you've guys have been going out for a pretty short time..


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