[rukawa-kun]

Many times I happen to worry too much over my gf, cuz she's a pretty social person and talks to guys quite often and everytime I bring it up to her she says that there's nothing to worry about. I constantly try to convince myself that it's nothing, but it's just that the feeling of insecurity still lingers.

My gf often tells me how she gets checked out by like older men or how she got honked by a car filled with guys, and sometimes I don't even know how to react to that. -___- If I don't say anything and treat it as nothing, then she might think that I dont' care about her BUT if I DO say something then it may seem that I don't trust her to handle the situation on her own.

I sorta told my mom about this situation and how I worry about it too much and she says how she would find it really annoying at how paranoid I'm being. Although I have to admit my mom gives me crappy advice... that one actually tops them all. -_____-

[Mannosuke]

1: If you say nothing, she'll think you don't care
2: If you say something, she'll think you don't trust her

Nothing can help you lol
You're probably thinking too much about #2.

[sodaniechea]

My gf often tells me how she gets checked out by like older men or how she got honked by a car filled with guys, and sometimes I don't even know how to react to that. -___-

Should've said, 'It's because you're extremely beautiful, and I'm lucky to have you' and pull her close

It's not like she remembers every guy who checks her out, so you have nothing to worry about.
Besides, she's with YOU, soooo it must mean that you have something that they don't.

[Frozy]

I sorta told my mom about this situation and how I worry about it too much and she says how she would find it really annoying at how paranoid I'm being. Although I have to admit my mom gives me crappy advice... that one actually tops them all. -_____-

It's actually not that crappy. If she knew you'd worry over her all the time, that'd be exactly what she'd think. You just need to reassure yourself that you two are a couple, not the boys that woo her, or any of them. There's a reason why you two are together, eh? But of course, it's not always that simple, just try to keep your worry on a moderate level or else you'd lose your hair over her, lol.

[peppermintsugar]

You should talk to your girlfriend very seriously about this. I was very flirty and friendly when I met my current boyfriend and I didn't even realize it, now that I've started to evaluate the way I was to the way I am, I'm much happier, and he's much happier.

[myxo]

What exactly are you worrying about? Has she done something in the past that led you to be so paranoid?
Your mom's advice isn't as bad as you think it is. It's hard being with someone who you have to constantly reassure that everything is okay just because he has insecurity issues.

[lxh]

You should talk to your girlfriend very seriously about this. I was very flirty and friendly when I met my current boyfriend and I didn't even realize it, now that I've started to evaluate the way I was to the way I am, I'm much happier, and he's much happier.

You took the words right out of my mouth (including the whole flirting thing).

[`123]

i worry about my boyfriend, but not on that issue..
i mean, for a relationship to work out, you gotta
have trust.

i'd say, stop being paranoid and cherish this
relationship and try to put some trust into it.

[<3 Kim]

You should talk to your girlfriend very seriously about this. I was very flirty and friendly when I met my current boyfriend and I didn't even realize it, now that I've started to evaluate the way I was to the way I am, I'm much happier, and he's much happier.

Yeah I agree with this, that happened to me too. I wasn't flirty with other guys but I'm quite close to a lot of guys. We're good friends and we talk a lot and hang out quite often (theres nothing going on between us, we love photography so we go out and take pictures together and that). My bf never showed that he cared if I hung out with other guys, he never showed he was jealous before. Recently he talked to me and said he thinks I go out too much with other guys. I never realised it made him feel that way until now. I still hang out with them, not as much anymore though, but when I do I ask my bf if he wants to come along with us. So yeah talk to her about it seriously