[Mzz L]

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[HaplessChild]

I can't say I'd care. I don't see why it matters.

I was casually dating an ex of mine from before... maybe one or two weeks after I stopped talking to him he got some girl preggers. I just remember thinking "maybe there is a god bec damn that could have been me... phew!"

[cinderbl0ck]

When i found out my ex had a gf i kinda had to facebook stalk her =X lol. Not because I cared he had a girlfriend but to see if she was prettier than I was or cuter or better. I guess it was just an insecurity thing.

[slowpanda]

I was with my ex for 9 months, 2 weeks after we broke up he had a girlfriend, I admit it was pretty hard to deal with. Then again I don't blame him cause he did lose feelings for me. Then I find out his gf made him delete me off his facebook, I am still a bit hurt by it because we did honestly plan to be friends, now I don't know how things will turn out.

[lil_star]

well, for me, it was i who broke up with my ex. and yes he found a new girl before me but that didn't force me to dwell over it because i had my reason to break it off in the first place and if i was to be disturbed by him and his gf then why did i break up with him? it took him a few months before he found his gf and it took me 3 years i say, until i wanted to be in another relationship, not because i couldn't be.

[[HyuNi]]

why does it matter?
He no longer has anything to do with you...

I personally feel like it's selfish to expect things from your ex, because he/she no longer has ANY obligation to you.
In every relationship, I hope people wish the best for their ex. It's baffling so see how so many ex couples are so livid towards each other, when a few weeks or months ago, they claimed to 'be in love'.

[MangaPanda]

I don't really care actually, I wish he did find a new girl already, then he would leave me alone @_@"

[Javus]

Since the relationship is over it shouldn't really matter anymore. If anything, if it does bother it should motivate you to move on.

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

thats why a break up is a break up. there should be no way of knowing what he's up to. (ideally speaking)

[bitter SOOweet]

uh.... i never found that to matter at all to me.
... i mean as long as its not like the day after we break up...? its just whatever

[naoto]

I found that if she finds one before me I'm hurt, if I find one before her I'm fine with it. Just find a new guy. Also, if the relationship is over he is free to be with anyone right. I know you know this but there was never a rule on how long he has to wait before going for girls, just like there is no rule on how long you have to wait!

[michilatte]

Ah, my ex has gone through at least 10 girls since me, while I haven't had any serious relationships yet.
I'm okay with it though, since we're not even together anymore, and we're just friends.

Your ex finding someone new shouldn't bother you at all. You two have split, so what he does is really no longer any of your business. This should help you move on from him, since he's moved on already.

[Mzz L]

I can't say I'd care. I don't see why it matters.

I was casually dating an ex of mine from before... maybe one or two weeks after I stopped talking to him he got some girl preggers. I just remember thinking "maybe there is a god bec damn that could have been me... phew!"

Hahah. Thank God.

well, for me, it was i who broke up with my ex. and yes he found a new girl before me but that didn't force me to dwell over it because i had my reason to break it off in the first place and if i was to be disturbed by him and his gf then why did i break up with him? it took him a few months before he found his gf and it took me 3 years i say, until i wanted to be in another relationship, not because i couldn't be.

Yeah, I'm the one who broke up with my ex too. Cept I didn't do it because I stopped caring/lost feelings for him. I did it cause he did something f*ked up.

After reading everyone's post,
It is over and done so I shouldn't dwell on the what if's and what's to come. And I should wish his happiness (already do but wholeheartedly) even though he fkd it up.

But yeah everyone's right.

[캐띠]

Hmmm. Well my boyfriend and I have had a lot of break-ups and he's gotten rebounds when we broke up. 4 rebounds and he gets them usually the next day after we break up. I get really pissed especially since I feel like he has genuine feelings for some of them but he lies about not liking them anymore to get back together with me. -__-

[hippiehop]

Honestly, I don't know HOW but I'm the one who usually finds a guy before he finds a girl... but I think it's because we're all people who are very picky about who we get into a relationship with.

[sus]

try to come to peace with it urself
once u dont care
it wont hurt as much

[aznxmushu]

i dated my ex not for long... and he broke up with me... and about a month later he got a gf... i've been single for two years... and he notice that... so one day he askes me... "did the break up hurt you that bad? why don't you move on"
basically my face was like ... this O_O...O_o... >_<... =S
i tried telling him that i've gotten picky about boys... jerk face was too full of him self to beliieve me.

[myxo]

why does it matter?
He no longer has anything to do with you...

I personally feel like it's selfish to expect things from your ex, because he/she no longer has ANY obligation to you.
In every relationship, I hope people wish the best for their ex. It's baffling so see how so many ex couples are so livid towards each other, when a few weeks or months ago, they claimed to 'be in love'.

Yeah well that's also because you didn't know that a few weeks ago your ex was sleeping with another girl behind your back while telling you he loves you. It is baffling, but some things are really hard to get over.

Back on topic, I know it's not suppose to matter, but even if a relationship ended, it doesn't usually mean the feelings go away with it. For some, the feelings take awhile to really go away. Most of it may have already died off during the break up, but some feelings linger til.. you find someone else. Til then, it's understandable why it's difficult seeing your ex with someone else.

[MyLovelyKimchi]

i broke up with him because he was obsessedd and way too much in my 'bubble'
he was still 'waiting for me' for 5 months.
but thennn found another girl.
i guess i was pretty jealous because he used to buy me stuff and care about me.
nowww. its just awkward between us.
so we dont talk anymore.
[he goes to my church! ]
the end.

[Mzz L]

i broke up with him because he was obsessedd and way too much in my 'bubble'
he was still 'waiting for me' for 5 months.
but thennn found another girl.
i guess i was pretty jealous because he used to buy me stuff and care about me.
nowww. its just awkward between us.
so we dont talk anymore.
[he goes to my church! ]
the end.

For me, it's not jealousy. It's because I still love him and even though I broke it off I feel that is unfair that he'd be happy first before me, when he's the one hurt Me. He betrayed me and even though he learned his lesson, said he was sorry, and begged me back I couldn't continue the relationship with him as much as I wanted to. I guess I get these selfish thoughts that I want him to suffer longer than me because of what he did to me but that wouldn't equal love if I wanted that, now would it. That's why I'm looking for ways to "cope" to get away from those thoughts/feelings.

So it's a lose - lose for me.