[onFiRE*]

Thanks for everything guys! :]!

[Lie]

What do I do? :/

Even though it's tough, I don't think there's a whole lot you can do in this situation. The impulse is to keep texting/calling/etc until things get back on track, but I think in situations like this the best thing you can actually do is to give him his space, and don't initiate texts/calls/etc. for awhile. If he really wants to be with you, he'll find you. If he doesn't, though, texting/calling/etc. often will probably just push him away.

[KanyeWEST]

its over. nothing you can do about it. he is cheating on you.

[alduhkneel]

pretty much exactly what happened to me this summer except my (now ex-)boyfriend and i were already in an ldr. he came up to visit me and then after that it was all downhill. he stopped doing everything he did in the beginning. i confronted him but we kind of left it alone. give it some time (a couple of days) and then reach out to him again. if it's meant to be, you guys will talk about it and work it out, but if he's not willing to communicate with you then it's not worth it. you can do better.

[angels.disguise]

i think its that phase where the guy gets comfortable and starts lagging.
if he wants to be in a LDR with you, shouldn't that mean he likes you enough
to want to keep the relationship going?

personally i think hes being emotionally lazy.
communication will solve your problems.

[Mannosuke]

He's kind of stopped doing sweet things for me...and I don't know...it feels like after the road trip, he's started to like me less...?

A relationship's health is not determined by how much gifts he showers on you.

[myxo]

^^
No where did she mentions gifts. Sweet things can mean a lot of things, texting sweet messages, saying I love you, cooking for you, etc etc.

You were in a bad mood because you felt left out during that trip and he forgave you for that? What is this nonsense? If I organized a trip and my s/o didn't know anyone there and felt left out, I'd do what I can to try and accomodate, not give him crap for not belonging.

If he likes you less, then it means just that. There really isn't much you can do to make a person like you more. That's up to them. I'm really sorry.

[naito]

You were in a bad mood because you felt left out during that trip and he forgave you for that? What is this nonsense? If I organized a trip and my s/o didn't know anyone there and felt left out, I'd do what I can to try and accomodate, not give him crap for not belonging.
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I agree with this. Why is he forgiving you for something that isn't your fault? It's not like you picked fights with his friends or something. It sounds like he's blaming you for his trip being awkward and is holding it against you or something. Or maybe his friends are telling him they don't like you and to end it? Anyway, I think he should listen to you when you say that his friends were hard to get along with and maybe talk to his friends about it. He shouldn't take sides, which (to me) it seems like he is.

[onFiRE*]

i think its that phase where the guy gets comfortable and starts lagging.
if he wants to be in a LDR with you, shouldn't that mean he likes you enough
to want to keep the relationship going?

personally i think hes being emotionally lazy.
communication will solve your problems.

thank you for your response reading your post was reassuring XD
you're right, I should probably communicate my problems with him better.

A relationship's health is not determined by how much gifts he showers on you.

yes, because that is obviously what I'm most worried about.

^^
No where did she mentions gifts. Sweet things can mean a lot of things, texting sweet messages, saying I love you, cooking for you, etc etc.

You were in a bad mood because you felt left out during that trip and he forgave you for that? What is this nonsense? If I organized a trip and my s/o didn't know anyone there and felt left out, I'd do what I can to try and accomodate, not give him crap for not belonging.

If he likes you less, then it means just that. There really isn't much you can do to make a person like you more. That's up to them. I'm really sorry.

thank you for the reply I guess I just felt bad for being in such a bad mood and as a result, I did give him bad attitude as well :/ I really hope giving him some space will work out >___<

I agree with this. Why is he forgiving you for something that isn't your fault? It's not like you picked fights with his friends or something. It sounds like he's blaming you for his trip being awkward and is holding it against you or something. Or maybe his friends are telling him they don't like you and to end it? Anyway, I think he should listen to you when you say that his friends were hard to get along with and maybe talk to his friends about it. He shouldn't take sides, which (to me) it seems like he is.

Thank you for your reply ! well I know some of the guy friends that went and I'm friends with some of them as well so I'm sure they don't have a problem with us and the other girls he isn't really that tight with so I don't think their opinions really matter to him.

[Mannosuke]

I was under the impression that you're worried that he doesn't like you as much anymore, cause the only signs that were provided was him not doing sweet things for you such as texting you every night and not having much to talk about.

[evans]

its over. nothing you can do about it. he is cheating on you.

how do you even know????!

anyway, give him some space, if he wants to continue this relationship, he will look for you? but another way would be that you talk to him about it? why does he have to forgive you for the road trip thing? you didn't do anything wrong, and you can't be blamed for feeling that way at all. if he likes you less for it, then maybe it's not really that worth it? but maybe he's just slightly busier and such. try giving it a few days, and if he doesn't contact you about it, then go talk to him?

[ricebunni92]

its over. nothing you can do about it. he is cheating on you.

wtf why would u say that?

neways, i kno how u feel~ an i just recently broke up w/ by bf b/c he just seemed to stop caring after like 2 yrs.
honestly, of course its really hard at first and its still hard sometimes (been like 2-3 months) but
i know eventually w/ time i'll get over that ***hole tat didn't treat me like i should hav been treated
u should do the same, and if he really really loves you then he'll try an get u back, not the other way around.
life is too short to waste on ppl who don't care for u

[kerpao]

you had to appoligize for having a bad time on a road trip he convinced you to go on? what a jerk. maybe you could try giving him some space then trying to talk it out again, if not, you just have to let go.

[pocketsoul]

I personally think a person's friends say A LOT about them. This is the group of people they choose to affiliate with. If your boyfriends friends are cold/unfriendly, I hate to say it, but it sort of reflects on him as well. It baffles me that you had to earn his forgiveness for being upset. You should not have to apologize for not getting along with his friends in the first place. He should have been giving you extra attention during the trip knowing full well that you don't know his friends very well, and if you weren't having a good time, he should have picked up on the cues and talked to you about it... not ignore you. I don't know, I might reconsider this relationship if it were me. Maybe you should talk one on one and see where both of you stand.

[gotoAndParty]

I personally think a person's friends say A LOT about them. This is the group of people they choose to affiliate with. If your boyfriends friends are cold/unfriendly, I hate to say it, but it sort of reflects on him as well. It baffles me that you had to earn his forgiveness for being upset. You should not have to apologize for not getting along with his friends in the first place. He should have been giving you extra attention during the trip knowing full well that you don't know his friends very well, and if you weren't having a good time, he should have picked up on the cues and talked to you about it... not ignore you. I don't know, I might reconsider this relationship if it were me. Maybe you should talk one on one and see where both of you stand.

Tru dat. If the majority of his friends don't accept you are then it's likely that he doesn't/won't. Personally I'd get really upset if the guy's friends shunned me and the guy did nothing to make me feel included. I'd feel like he's not proud enough to have me as his gf around his friends and that's insulting to say the least. You... don't need to be forgiven for that, it's his problem.

Tell him you weren't comfortable with his friends and you did try your best. And try to find out why he's upset and why he didn't do something about it.