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Should I Fall For Him? >> Help Neededdd << but i have a feeling that i wont have a chance with him.

#1 User is offline   MyLovelyKimchi 

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Posted 17 August 2009 - 10:13 PM

i call him nachos.
he goes to my church.
we met not too long ago.
and we dont have a long-lasting convo.
i dont think we're much of a talker.
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can you guys help?
i wanna know what kind of feelings he has towards me
i barely know him
but i wanna get to know him more.
what should i do?
just saying hi is weird
because the only response i get is a 'hi'

EDITT;; yeah. i dont think i have a chance with him.
although i still haven't had the chance to go up to him and start an actual convo,
i still dont think i have a chance.
the reason is: we're fb friends.
and i was.. lets just say,, "facebooking stalking his page"
and most of the girls he talks to are like. super pretty.
not just that. from reading their convo's it looks like he's a party type.
as well as the other girls. :[

T^T
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our church held a VBS for little kids
and i really love this little kid who was in his group.
[he was the leader of the group]
at the end. he goes, 'you stole my kid'
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we both have the same car.
so we call each other thief/car stealer.
>>our church people were eating at a pizza buffet.
and we left together, coincidentally.
the funny thing is. i ended up leaving earlier than him
and we saw each other at a highway.
we kept on waving bye everytime we passed each other
and yelled across the lane when there was a stop light<<
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we talked on fb and noticed that he kept on calling me suckaa.
and basically i ended the convo [he didnt reply back]
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our church had a retreat last week.
and he kept saying 'hi thief' multiple times, until i noticed that he was calling on me.
>>usually other days. he wouldn't even bother saying hi<<
as we passed right each other,
i was like, 'hi car stealer'
and then he was like, 'thief!' as he "pretended" to beat me up (like throw his fists in the air?)
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that same day i had to go on an errand and buy some guys snacks
and nachos asked me to buy him some chips. lol smile.gif
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at church. theres this greeting session (?)
>>everyone goes around and greets people. i ended up shaking nachos hand!<<
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there was a church soccer game yesterday
and as i was going to go throw away something,
nachos almost sat in my seat, until i said, 'now youre going to steal my seat?'
him: 'you can sit here'
me: 'i was just kidding but you can sit here [there was a seat nxt to me]'
him: 'no its okay. i smell like sweat anyways'
me: so..?
him: believe me. i smell pretty baddd.
>>he had to warm up for soccer before sitting down<<

what do you think..?
please help.
thanks for reading this long ass essay about nachos. tongue.gif

every little moments like these makes me so happy biggrin.gif
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#2 User is offline   Rainbow-lotus 

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Posted 18 August 2009 - 01:23 AM

^ wow u guys met sweetly and coincedently...

but i alwyas think things are "love a first sight"

if he likes you... then you would definately know it...

if your still wondering.. then he is probably just be nice to you.
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 06:36 AM

^aw. you think so?
i dont think so.
i thought it was normal to meet like that. xD
the thing is i cant even tell if anyone likes me sad.gif
i'm sooo confusedd @.@
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#4 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 18 August 2009 - 06:43 AM

Just talk to him if you want to know more about him.
What do you want to know about him? Be specific.

Who cares if he likes you.
Who cares if you can't tell when someone likes you.
Take matters into your own hands and initiate the moves.
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 07:43 AM

hahaha this story is cute, i guess just try to get to know each other a bit better before taking any action. ask him out casually for coffee or lunch or carpool? xD hope things go well smile.gif

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#6 User is offline   MyLovelyKimchi 

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Posted 18 August 2009 - 09:12 AM

i guess youre right, mannosuke.
i just need to go with the flow..?
like. what i want is for us to talk out of church.
:[ and i dont know how i'm going to do that. haha.

yeahh i dont think i'll be able to make a move
until i get to know him betterrr. haha
i dont want everything to go downhill~~
loll! thank you kerpao smile.gif
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 09:16 AM

QUOTE (MyLovelyKimchi @ Aug 18 2009, 01:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i dont want everything to go downhill~~


You can't be going downhill if you haven't even started scaling the mountain

You have plenty of experiences with him to strike up a conversation. Maybe laugh about silly things in the past.
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 09:19 AM

QUOTE (Mannosuke @ Aug 18 2009, 09:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You can't be going downhill if you haven't even started scaling the mountain

You have plenty of experiences with him to strike up a conversation. Maybe laugh about silly things in the past.


Right

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Posted 18 August 2009 - 07:54 PM

Sounds like he's interested. Just go with the flow.

Try not to get too excited over the little things he does. lol.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 09:00 AM

QUOTE (Mannosuke @ Aug 18 2009, 01:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You can't be going downhill if you haven't even started scaling the mountain

You have plenty of experiences with him to strike up a conversation. Maybe laugh about silly things in the past.


thankk youu smile.gif i'll try that. haha
i really appreciate ittt smile.gif

QUOTE (gotoAndParty @ Aug 18 2009, 11:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sounds like he's interested. Just go with the flow.

Try not to get too excited over the little things he does. lol.


you really think so?
but the thing is.
out of the days we see each other.
we barely say hi. or have a long-conversation.

he can say hi and talk to the other girls
while i can talk to the other guys without any hesitation. :/
its just him that i cant say hi to T____T


hahaa i'll try not to. thanks for the advice.


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