so i spoke to the ex-boyfriend. the guy finally said that he knows what he wants, that it's to be with me. the past few days, it's been phone tag. i always miss his calls, when i call him back, he always misses it. but usually, he always answers his calls. today he called to tell me this while i was at work so i said i'd call him back after work. he texted me 10 mins later saying he has night class and that he'd call me after that. nope. its almost midnight and nothing from him. maybe he knocked out, which he usually always does. it shows how important this talk really is to him, huh? wtf is this? is he playing games or something? i feel like it's a big joke to him.
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 10:17 PM
By not calling you back it really shows he knows what he wants alright.
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 10:30 PM
In my experience, dont wait around for his calls he is most likely playing games
who knows what hes doing when he isnt picking up or calling when he says he will?
it shows how unreliable he is and maybe he could be using you as backup if
other plans dont go right? go with your gut instinct; if it feels like a big joke or
something just isnt right about him forget it and go on your way, eventually if
he really wants to be with you that badly he will find a way to contact you no matter
what.
who knows what hes doing when he isnt picking up or calling when he says he will?
it shows how unreliable he is and maybe he could be using you as backup if
other plans dont go right? go with your gut instinct; if it feels like a big joke or
something just isnt right about him forget it and go on your way, eventually if
he really wants to be with you that badly he will find a way to contact you no matter
what.
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 11:04 PM
get him to get on his knees and beg for forgiveness. 
jkk.
but yea, don't wait. boys will be boys. they always have a way to get us worrying. :/
jkk.but yea, don't wait. boys will be boys. they always have a way to get us worrying. :/
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 10:03 AM
hey guys,
i forgot to mention i ran out of batteries so my phone was off for two hours while i was at yoga. anyways, i called him last night to see what happened and why didn't call me, to find out he was already in bed 'sleeping'. and he said he called me many times but my phone was off. still, i felt he could have waited to talk to me. since it's important to me, i would have done so. i mean he fell asleep before midnight. it gives me the impression he didn't really care that we had to talk about things.
i forgot to mention i ran out of batteries so my phone was off for two hours while i was at yoga. anyways, i called him last night to see what happened and why didn't call me, to find out he was already in bed 'sleeping'. and he said he called me many times but my phone was off. still, i felt he could have waited to talk to me. since it's important to me, i would have done so. i mean he fell asleep before midnight. it gives me the impression he didn't really care that we had to talk about things.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 10:08 AM
QUOTE (ilovemangos @ Aug 19 2009, 10:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey guys,
i forgot to mention i ran out of batteries so my phone was off for two hours while i was at yoga. anyways, i called him last night to see what happened and why didn't call me, to find out he was already in bed 'sleeping'. and he said he called me many times but my phone was off. still, i felt he could have waited to talk to me. since it's important to me, i would have done so. i mean he fell asleep before midnight. it gives me the impression he didn't really care that we had to talk about things.
i forgot to mention i ran out of batteries so my phone was off for two hours while i was at yoga. anyways, i called him last night to see what happened and why didn't call me, to find out he was already in bed 'sleeping'. and he said he called me many times but my phone was off. still, i felt he could have waited to talk to me. since it's important to me, i would have done so. i mean he fell asleep before midnight. it gives me the impression he didn't really care that we had to talk about things.
if you've followed the advices above you would've probably ruined yours relationship.. NO Offense, just my thoughts..
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you wrote ex-boyfriend? eh??
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 10:21 AM
QUOTE (ilovemangos @ Aug 19 2009, 02:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey guys,
i forgot to mention i ran out of batteries so my phone was off for two hours while i was at yoga. anyways, i called him last night to see what happened and why didn't call me, to find out he was already in bed 'sleeping'. and he said he called me many times but my phone was off. still, i felt he could have waited to talk to me. since it's important to me, i would have done so. i mean he fell asleep before midnight. it gives me the impression he didn't really care that we had to talk about things.
i forgot to mention i ran out of batteries so my phone was off for two hours while i was at yoga. anyways, i called him last night to see what happened and why didn't call me, to find out he was already in bed 'sleeping'. and he said he called me many times but my phone was off. still, i felt he could have waited to talk to me. since it's important to me, i would have done so. i mean he fell asleep before midnight. it gives me the impression he didn't really care that we had to talk about things.
No, he tried to call, but it didn't go through, so he's already fulfilled his end of the bargain, which was "after class"
It's very unreasonable to have him "wait" for you. That's ridiculous, why should someone wait for you just to show how important you are?
Suppose you were in a relationship and the guy was 20 minutes late for a date (which is rather common lol), would you get pissed? I know I would.
Of course, he probably could've handled the situation better by leaving some sort of message or getting a friend to tell you that he tried.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 12:34 PM
QUOTE (Mannosuke @ Aug 19 2009, 11:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
No, he tried to call, but it didn't go through, so he's already fulfilled his end of the bargain, which was "after class"
It's very unreasonable to have him "wait" for you. That's ridiculous, why should someone wait for you just to show how important you are?
Suppose you were in a relationship and the guy was 20 minutes late for a date (which is rather common lol), would you get pissed? I know I would.
Of course, he probably could've handled the situation better by leaving some sort of message or getting a friend to tell you that he tried.
It's very unreasonable to have him "wait" for you. That's ridiculous, why should someone wait for you just to show how important you are?
Suppose you were in a relationship and the guy was 20 minutes late for a date (which is rather common lol), would you get pissed? I know I would.
Of course, he probably could've handled the situation better by leaving some sort of message or getting a friend to tell you that he tried.
yea, i thought it was selfish of me to think that at least he could have waited. i thought this way because i would wait for him. but shouldn't have expected for him to do the same, right? when i turned on the phone, i wasn't sure if he called since my phone only received text messages; my phone didn't say ''__ missed calls'' i thought he would have at least texted me to say he called me many times or just a text from him but nothing from him. the reason i got pissed was because i called him so many times after, but i assumed he fell asleep. bottom line though is he did keep his word, and he did call me. i guess that was a misunderstanding/miscommunication.
QUOTE (L40 @ Aug 19 2009, 11:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if you've followed the advices above you would've probably ruined yours relationship.. NO Offense, just my thoughts..
Edit:
you wrote ex-boyfriend? eh??
Edit:
you wrote ex-boyfriend? eh??
most definitely. i take advice into consideration but i make the decisions.
and yup, ex boyfriend. this phone call was important because we were supposed to talk about fixing our relationship.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 12:47 PM
He is playing with you. You guys broke up for a reason. He's trying to see if you can be his safety. That's what my ex did to me....I was like "eff off and never contact me". Hahaha. You should do the same.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 12:55 PM
QUOTE (ilovemangos @ Aug 19 2009, 01:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
yea, i thought it was selfish of me to think that at least he could have waited. i thought this way because i would wait for him. but shouldn't have expected for him to do the same, right? when i turned on the phone, i wasn't sure if he called since my phone only received text messages; my phone didn't say ''__ missed calls'' i thought he would have at least texted me to say he called me many times or just a text from him but nothing from him. the reason i got pissed was because i called him so many times after, but i assumed he fell asleep. bottom line though is he did keep his word, and he did call me. i guess that was a misunderstanding/miscommunication.
most definitely. i take advice into consideration but i make the decisions.
and yup, ex boyfriend. this phone call was important because we were supposed to talk about fixing our relationship.
most definitely. i take advice into consideration but i make the decisions.
and yup, ex boyfriend. this phone call was important because we were supposed to talk about fixing our relationship.
i'll just say only you can understand the situation we talking from here, doesnt really matters, you should check him out yourself, and then take decision..
Good luck..
i hope he aint playing around.. with you
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 01:21 PM
Your whole relationship is ridiculous. Why be in a relationship if neither of you even have time to be together? And don't say "It's not that we don't have time, it's just that we can't get a hold of each other." If that's the case then you obviously do not have time for each other.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 02:10 PM
For me ex's are a no no to go back too. Its really depends on how you past relationship was and the break up. Seeing from what your writing, he seems to be playing with you. If he truely wants to be with you then he should show it.. so don't wait around. Most likey he thinks you have a lingering attachment to him, so he wants to put it through play.
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