Posted 19 August 2009 - 08:40 PM
My mom tells me a lot of things when it comes to the types of girls I should look out for and pay attention to. She keeps telling me to meet girls and keep my options open. She's the one who says that I'm too kind, and that I shouldn't be so nice to girls because they'll all fall for me if I keep being nice, like I'm leading them on? I agree with her when it comes to the type of women I look for. Smart, driven, kind, and family oriented. She has some pretty good advice when it comes to dating and whatnot. Tells me all the flaws in my dad and what I shouldn't do hahaha. It's pretty funny when she tells me her dates with my dad and whatnot. It's pretty entertaining listening to her stories. You guys should listen up, your mom and/or dad can teach you a lot. My dad on the other hand is... well.. reserved, I haven't gotten much advice from him except, "go marry a rich girl." haha.
My grandpa on the other hand tells me I'm too kind and that I should start saying no and voice my opinion. I mean, what kind of a korean grandpa tells their grandchildren to voice their opinions and say no to them if they dont agree? He's the alpha male and a very respectful man. Very family oriented and a leader. He's always the one that asks me about the girls that he see's me with. He's always like, she's too fat, she's too skinny, she's too this and that. I like this and that about her. He even asks me if he should hook me up with a smart and pretty girl. My grandpa is tight, and he'll be a role model to me in what a man should be responsible and appropriate for.
Could I get this kind of advice from a friend? All they give me advice for is giving me pointers on how to play with girls and finding little tricks and pointers in playing with girls emotions. They aren't the advisors that I'd look up to. Sure it's a fun and entertaining conversation my friends and I have, but it's not what I want to get advised with. What my mom and grandpa tell me are life lessons that will make me into a better person to find a great woman to be with.