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Is It Okay To Get Girlfriend/boyfriend Advice From Mommy/daddy ?

Poll: Is it okay to get girlfriend/boyfriend advice from parents? (37 member(s) have cast votes)

Is it okay to get girlfriend/boyfriend advice from mommy/daddy?

  1. Yes to both (17 votes [45.95%])

    Percentage of vote: 45.95%

  2. No to both (13 votes [35.14%])

    Percentage of vote: 35.14%

  3. Yes to mommy, No to daddy (7 votes [18.92%])

    Percentage of vote: 18.92%

  4. No to mommy, Yes to daddy (0 votes [0.00%])

    Percentage of vote: 0.00%

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#1 User is offline   Jentage 

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Post icon  Posted 19 August 2009 - 05:53 PM

Okay biggrin.gif I know this is gonna make me sound like a loser and what not, but I'm curious about what you guys think.

Is it okay to get relationship tips from Mothers?
For example: You like a girl but don't know how to ask her out and etc. You go to your mom for advice. A bit embarrassing, I know. But do you guys think it'd be okay or should guys & girls should just stick to advices from friends?

After all, everything worked out for mommy & daddy. So why not? biggrin.gif
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#2 User is offline   OooxItzDave 

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Posted 19 August 2009 - 05:55 PM

common bro..im here for u...u dont need them..lol
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#3 User is offline   adiavoy 

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Posted 19 August 2009 - 06:27 PM

It's okay to get relationship advice from parents... but am I going to ask MY fob parents if I need it? Hell no.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 06:31 PM

Can't really talk to them about relationships...i feel awkward about telling them...
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#5 User is offline   shinji. 

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Posted 19 August 2009 - 06:32 PM

QUOTE (adiavoy @ Aug 19 2009, 10:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It's okay to get relationship advice from parents... but am I going to ask MY fob parents if I need it? Hell no.


I agree. My parents think way too different than me so I rather not.

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Posted 19 August 2009 - 06:41 PM

LOL no way man sad.gif that's just too scary for me rofl.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 06:49 PM

I think it is totally fine for a child to ask their mom and/or dad for advice about relationships. It depends on what the topic is about and who the child is closer to. If it's something like how to understand a guy or a girl, asking for advice might help - after all, most likely a parent will know better since they have met more people than us - or at least seen more things happen. I don't ask my parents for advice.. the main reason being that I don't really share any of my issues with people in the first place.
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#8 User is offline   hippiehop 

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Posted 19 August 2009 - 07:06 PM

No way I'd ask my mom for advice.

She thinks she knows everything.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 07:14 PM

It's nice to be able to get advice from your parents. I know some people who do it, and it works pretty well from them. I always wonder what that's like, haha. Me and my folks, we have a, "Don't ask, don't tell" policy, and the same goes for my sister and my parents. They like to pretend we're asexual, and we'd rather just pretend that they don't know.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 07:14 PM

not from my fobby parent. pfft no way! ;[
but other parent sure what's not. but not mine -__-^^
i don't share anything with them anyways =/
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#11 User is offline   jang neul 

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Posted 19 August 2009 - 07:17 PM

Yeah, sure. I'd talk to my mom, she's pretty open-minded, she isn't that traditional for an asian parent. I can pretty much tell her everything though I'd rather not at times.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 07:22 PM

eh i don't
better to get it off friends, well good friends lol
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 07:41 PM

No!
Go to your friends and ask for advice.

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Posted 19 August 2009 - 08:32 PM

my parents would just tell me that im not allowed to date and i should wait until i graduate college...yay..
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 08:34 PM

It really depends on the parent I guess. I wouldn't mind asking my own parents.
But I'm usually told by my mom that if I do get a bf, I should ask a guy who is a bit older than me
that I trust to see what they think about the person.


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Posted 19 August 2009 - 08:40 PM

My mom tells me a lot of things when it comes to the types of girls I should look out for and pay attention to. She keeps telling me to meet girls and keep my options open. She's the one who says that I'm too kind, and that I shouldn't be so nice to girls because they'll all fall for me if I keep being nice, like I'm leading them on? I agree with her when it comes to the type of women I look for. Smart, driven, kind, and family oriented. She has some pretty good advice when it comes to dating and whatnot. Tells me all the flaws in my dad and what I shouldn't do hahaha. It's pretty funny when she tells me her dates with my dad and whatnot. It's pretty entertaining listening to her stories. You guys should listen up, your mom and/or dad can teach you a lot. My dad on the other hand is... well.. reserved, I haven't gotten much advice from him except, "go marry a rich girl." haha.

My grandpa on the other hand tells me I'm too kind and that I should start saying no and voice my opinion. I mean, what kind of a korean grandpa tells their grandchildren to voice their opinions and say no to them if they dont agree? He's the alpha male and a very respectful man. Very family oriented and a leader. He's always the one that asks me about the girls that he see's me with. He's always like, she's too fat, she's too skinny, she's too this and that. I like this and that about her. He even asks me if he should hook me up with a smart and pretty girl. My grandpa is tight, and he'll be a role model to me in what a man should be responsible and appropriate for.

Could I get this kind of advice from a friend? All they give me advice for is giving me pointers on how to play with girls and finding little tricks and pointers in playing with girls emotions. They aren't the advisors that I'd look up to. Sure it's a fun and entertaining conversation my friends and I have, but it's not what I want to get advised with. What my mom and grandpa tell me are life lessons that will make me into a better person to find a great woman to be with.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 08:50 PM

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