[Green Tea -3]

hey hey

I'm literally in a bind because there's this girl I've been going steady with and things have been through the roof with excitement.
We hang out a lot basically enjoying each others company.
I think we're bf/gf by now. Unfortunately we haven't made out or done anything too scandalous but all in due time. Patience is a virtue.
I've since started my own business venture and surprisingly my profits have been amazing nonetheless.
With the extra moolah I have decided it might be time to hit up Tiffany's and find a nice ring or necklace as a friendship/love piece.

Would it be advisable to buy this girl I'm seeing flashy bling or is it too soon?
I was talking to a friend and he told me girls go absolutely nutso for Tiffany's jewelry.

But I don't want to come across as a sugar daddy and be taking advantage of. Thats my biggest worry

- G^are G^are

[MISSxSHAMPOO]

if you think its the right moment i guess its alright.
but im not sure you guys are like offically dating you seem like you don't know your self.
"think" you guys are boyfriend&girlfriend? hmmm.

[juicejuice]

I don't know how long you both have been going steady... what you consider the time frame is going study... Every girl is different...and I don't know what kind of girl she is either...

I don't want her expecting you to get her a flashy gift every time cause it really hurts the wallet, especially in this economy. I don't know about your current financial situation. As a female, it is best not to spoil her with materialistic gifts because once she gets use to it, it will be much harder to get out of it. She will expects for it...it happens to many girls and they don't realize it and if a guy is not financially stable it really hurts the guy and the relationship as well. That is my honest opinion, I am not saying that she is the type of girl that I have stated because only you know the girl not me.

[c[:]

You think you guys are bf / gf? I think you should clear that up first so you know she not sending you mixed signals.

[Humilious]

I think we're bf/gf by now.

Yes, you should really get this clear before buying her a Tiffany necklace. And even then, I wouldn't get her something dreadfully expensive.

[donporkuloin]

No girl, and I repeat NO GIRL DESERVES TIFFANY'S OFF THE BAT. It should be years down the road before you buy a girl anything from Tiffany's. If you buy her the gift? Watch things go downhill from there. You're just going to be seen as a cash cow the moment you put that gift in her hands. You think you're bf/gf with her. I'd get that clear with her ASAP, because you have no idea what she's thinking? Like my ex gf told me, "a lot of girl's are snakes." That statement holds very true!

[Mannosuke]

Start with a fake one to see her reaction.

[<Soojin>]

haha i think that maybe its time to buy a tiffany and ask her to be your gf!
that is if you like her

[OMGitzYOU]

I agree with starting with a fake one to see her reaction. LOL

[Mango.Tango~]

lol how can you be going steady if you THINK ur bf/gf?
I dont think she should get her it.
It'll seem all too much...think of it this way, would you give your good good friend a tiffany necklace randomly?
nope...

[daisy]

yes its too soon. it doesnt even sound like your relationship is solid. i would suggest giving it later or she will expect more and greater gifts later.

[kirra12]

even ppl who've dated for awhile wont get those things.
i agree to pretty much everyone. its a bad present.
sometimes getting handmade presents wud be much more meaningful to girls compared to these.
if im the girl, i cud really get the wrong idea. and if really you get the wrong signal, she might run away from u.

and how old r u and her? o.0 why the sugar daddy comes to picture?

[joxxy]

If you buy her something from Tiffany's when you're unsure of your relationship status, she's gonna expect more and more as time goes on.
If you get her a Tiffany's necklace now, she's gonna expect like a diamond necklace for your monthsaries/100 days, etc.

[charat]

i bought my girlfriend and i matching tiffany bracelets a month into our relationship...oh... dont wear it too much.. they scratch easy... XD

[donporkuloin]

Start with a fake one to see her reaction.

I totally agree with that. Lmao.

[charat]

If you buy her something from Tiffany's when you're unsure of your relationship status, she's gonna expect more and more as time goes on.
If you get her a Tiffany's necklace now, she's gonna expect like a diamond necklace for your monthsaries/100 days, etc.

thats only if the girl is a gold diggin w****... if she's a good girl with a good heart, she'll see it as nothing but a token of how much you love her... nothing more, nothing less.

[damyoungji]

I think it is way too soon, especially when the two of you never talked about being an official couple yet.

Even if the two of you are a couple, remember that its the thought that counts when it comes to gifts. I'm not saying that you should never buy something nice and/or expensive on someone, but to give such a big gift as a first gift? That might not be a good idea. The reason being that she might expect more in the future and look at you as her own personal wallet.

[koreanwarrior]

It really depends, man.
Are you rich? If you are, then there's no problem here.

[SailorBoy62]

Too soon man, too soon. Some girls love it, the really materialistic ones who'll be like, "Oooh, money." Other girls will think it's sweet. Most girls I know would be like, "Omg, he's moving too fast. Look what he got me!" and freak the hell out. Play it safe, just take her out to a nice dinner.

[iamzen]

just save your money. your just friends nothing more untill you two are officially. No one starts off with Tiffany's. Maybe 6months into the relationship. But that is still too soon.