[my_monkey]

Ever get the feeling of everything is separating in your life whether its good or bad?

Ever since I moved here beginning of my high school year I always thought that all my friends and cousins would live together here forever. I was naive back then thinking of that. As of right now I feel and see that everyone in the group is separating to go do their own thing such as school or career related stuff. Everyone has a plan for their future and is moving fast towards it. Yet I do have my dreams but still going slow towards it. Some of guys in the group are within reach and some are moving to many states away. We probably wont see each other for a while. Its kinda sad and exiting. Sad cuz everyone is going separate ways but at the same time they are doing what they feel happy doing which is a good thing.

I guess everything comes to and end and something new starts up again.

Is this happening among your group of friends? and how do you guys handle it? move out and find something for yourself?

I feel like this is the end of a chapter and starting a new chapter in my life. Probably find some new friends and see where that leads me.

your stories.

[koreanwarrior]

I find it as good, because it's life and that's how it's supposed to be.

[brownman90561495]

as long as no one is falling significantly behind and basically everyone is ok, this should be a good thing.

maybe soon one of you can shoutout for a reunion

[kimmi.kami]

True.
Life's like that , people come and go ...
people feelings change .
I honestly dislike it.

[hamdainvincible]

I know this is stupid, but the summer of 2006 my uncle passed away from cancer.
I was so desperate to be happy and one day I found happiness in a group of friends online.
We became the biggest group in a forum dedicated to DBSK and we would talk everyday
and tell each other this would last FOREVER. Almost a year into the relationship things just fell apart.
Now after 2 years since we stopped talking I feel so vulnerable and haven't been able to make new friends,
or at least none that came as close to what they were as friends to me.

If I could go back, I'd end everything on a clean note so I don't end up being hung on the way it ended and being lifeless until now. -o-

In my life, friends come and go, and the only time family come and go is when they pass away.
But of course, life is dynamic, it just doesn't freeze and wait for you.

[lidolaydeej]

Yeah I feel that way.
Most of my friends are all starting university.
I'm starting university in a new town.
I doubt I'll ever be as close to them again. But that's life, You move on, people change. It sad, but you'll make new friends. Honestly, I don't feel that sad because I never felt super super close to them anyways. Like we hung out practically everyday, but we weren't the type of group to really talk about our innermost feelings and stuff. It just felt like people I hung out with to pass the time, who had similar interests as I did.

[iadoreyooh]

It happens to everyone once you go away to college. You make new friends, meet new people, and soon enough, the only people who you stay in contact with are the ones you really found worth it.

I saw it as a weeding out process of all the unnecessary and annoying people in my life. I was sad at the thought of it before it happened, but now I'm very happy and content with my life. They really were unnecessary after all.

[K3.]

it's happening to me now and noone's even moving. \:
everyone just stopped talking to each other one day and splitted into little groups among our circle.

it's really depressing and hurts alot to see the circle splitting.
but i guess i'll have to deal with it.

[milkyway19]

It happens to everyone once you go away to college. You make new friends, meet new people, and soon enough, the only people who you stay in contact with are the ones you really found worth it.

I saw it as a weeding out process of all the unnecessary and annoying people in my life. I was sad at the thought of it before it happened, but now I'm very happy and content with my life. They really were unnecessary after all.

That's true. I kind of distanced myself from the group of friends i hanged out with everyday after my college life ended. Though i wouldn't call those friends annoying, but i felt that they were really different from me in terms of their mindset and such. I felt a bit guilty that i was actually a bit relieved that the college days had come to an end.

If the bond between the friends are strong and treasured, they will naturally still keep in touch no matter where they part to.

[des monstres]

people come and go.
but the most important people stick by you.

it's just how life goes, for better or for worse.
i'm not trying to sound corny or anything, but yeah.

[AngieK]

I love it.

I really do. I think it's a beautiful process to hear about how much your friends and family have grown. I'm still close with my high school friends, even a few middle school friends. We don't talk everyday, yes, but our friendship is so strong that we don't need to talk everyday.

I actually posted a blog about this whole topic a few days ago. Here's a small quote from a part of it:

"I know that my friends have changed. They weren't the same person they were three years ago, or last week, or yesterday. But all that means is that when I talk to them I get to discover how much they've changed, learn and get to know their 'new' self."

Distance means nothing to me. People go their own way throughout life. They grow at different rates, their mindset changes, their interests change. But to me, it just keeps life exciting and fresh. I get new friends, yes, but I don't lose my old friends either. But I put effort into it, even if it's not fully reciprocated. And a lot of people aren't willing to do that.

[Tranb3rry]

When highschool started for me, I left my friends to go to a different school...
But I don't regret it at all because the school was filled with even better people (:
I've really become distanced from my old friends, but it was just something that I couldn't avoid.
I knew it was going to happen, but I know we all belonged on separate paths anyways~

[joxxy]

Unfortunately, that's just how it is.
When I graduated from high school, all my best friends moved away to different states while I stayed for 1 year.
I started attending the local university and hung out with a new group of friends whom I grew really close to.
A couple of months ago, I moved 7000 miles away from them.
I know we'll drift apart eventually and that's just reality.
But my best friends and I are still friends and still remain in contact.
Things are continually changing and you just have to go with it, whether you want to or not.
Otherwise, you'll be left behind.

[ashtee]

I remember when I first began highschool the few senior friends I had used to tell me that in two years my core friend circle would be completely different.

I didn't believe them at the time.. but .. it happened. peoples values, priorities and goals change. I no longer talk to the 3 girls I considered my 'best friends' in elementary school.

and I know it's gonna happen again when we go off to university in a year. but it's inevitable, right? changes happens. and don't worry about changing at a pace too slowly, everyone has their time!

[kishycathiee]

at the time, i didn't like it when me and my friends all separated because we were all too different and we strayed away from each other.

but now, sometimes i analyze the change; when did it go wrong, the event that ultimately ended the friendship, and it's interesting. interesting how people change so slowly or so quickly. i would like to see how much they have changed ever since we broke ties.

life is losing and finding people ^^

[rawr_sheila]

one door closes and another opens.
im sure new people will come into your life.

[ForgottenReason]

Yeah all my friends are going to separate colleges. I actually just started yesterday. I believe that certain people play a role in your life and when they are done playing that role, they leave in order to play the role for someone else.

[bonjour tristesse.]

*sigh* such a depressing topic. but i agree, moving on is something that was always painful to do. but what can we all do, its part of life and definitely part of growing up.

[tinnny]

It will happen to me soon because I'm in my last year of high school. So, when graduation comes, I'll be separated from all my friends. I think the way we'll handle it is cry and hug each other at first but sooner or later, we will be excited for the new life we have waiting for us after. It's not like we won't keep in touch. We can talk to each other on the phone or email each other. Even though we won't see each other, as long as we keep in touch, it's good enough.

I already experienced this though. When I graduated from middle school and started high school. I was separated from most of my friends because we were going to do different schools. Both of my best friends went to a different school than me and one of them moved out of the country; however, we all kept in touch a lot, so it wasn't that bad.

[nobody knows]

I'm immature, I hate it
it's almost school time, all my graduate buds have already moved to their college dorms, whether it's still in the same state or across the country

I miss them, I regret not doing one last thing with them before they left, and now I'm stuck here D:


I'm the type that can't let go of the past, and doesn't wanna grasp the future
it's a terrible trait