[opensea]

How do you go about asking a girl out on a date? I've met this girl twice in a group setting and we seem to click. Since she works does dinner and maybe dessert suffice? What's important to keep in mind during the date and how should i end the evening? (i.e telling her we should do this again)....thanks in advance for your help and pardon the newb factor i'm sure everyone had their first somewhere down the line so thanks for being understanding.

[sigh991]

dinner is a pretty formal setting for a first date. i'd suggest something like minigolfing or bowling. she'll probably have more fun, and both of you will always be active so there's less chance for awkward silence.

[kishycathiee]

^ yes! cute ideas for a first date (=

do anything that won't make her bored, because she might get uninterested and you might not have a second date :'(
if the date was good, say at the end "today was awesome! let's hang out more." <-- a bit too casual, but it's the first date so i think it'll be ok

[jsp]

You can start by asking her if she has plans for the weekend. If you gives you a laundry list of things she has to do (eg, I'm busy, I have to wash my hair), and is "busy" weekend after weekend, then she's probably not that into you. If you get good vibes, then ask her to something casual, like lunch, or movie, and so on. Just be yourself and don't be scared. Girls can smell fear.

[kenny3435]

You can start by asking her if she has plans for the weekend. If you gives you a laundry list of things she has to do (eg, I'm busy, I have to wash my hair), and is "busy" weekend after weekend, then she's probably not that into you. If you get good vibes, then ask her to something casual, like lunch, or movie, and so on. Just be yourself and don't be scared. Girls can smell fear.

lol
i asked mine to come help me shop for something for fathers dayy tomorrow =)

[&love?]

first date should be simple. nothing too big, or else she'll expect more from the later on dates (if u succeed heh).
how about just going for a small snack. especially swweets.
ice cream? marbleslab
fondue?

[bonjour tristesse.]

Simplicity is the key. Since it's the first date, ask her to do something 'cute'. Tease her a little ; when she asks why joke around and tell her you need someone for advice on what you should get for your mom. Girls like it when the guy is on full mode sense of humor ;D

[opensea]

Simplicity is the key. Since it's the first date, ask her to do something 'cute'. Tease her a little ; when she asks why joke around and tell her you need someone for advice on what you should get for your mom. Girls like it when the guy is on full mode sense of humor ;D

Good point. Point well taken.

first date should be simple. nothing too big, or else she'll expect more from the later on dates (if u succeed heh).
how about just going for a small snack. especially swweets.
ice cream? marbleslab
fondue?

Would a dinner date be too much? I was thinking of doing something simple like deep dish pizza or maybe even thai food..I'm planning on asking her what she wants for dinner but i'm expecting her to be indifferent. Therefore pizza and thai food is something i have in mind...Any suggestions on cuisine? Would dessert afterwards be appropriate?

[* veenee]

be simple, don't scare her.. be like wanna grab a drink "after class, weekend.. etc
get to know her more BEFORE seeing her more often.
because i would be scared if a stranger wanted to see me, and i don't know anything about him/her, unless theres more people with me

[opensea]

be simple, don't scare her.. be like wanna grab a drink "after class, weekend.. etc
get to know her more BEFORE seeing her more often.
because i would be scared if a stranger wanted to see me, and i don't know anything about him/her, unless theres more people with me

oh veenee i probably forget to mention a small detail. I've hung out with this girl on two separate occassions in a group setting within the past two weeks. Both times she accepted the offer to hang out knowing that i would be there too. any thoughts?

[opensea]

Thanks for all the comments. It gives me something to think about. Drop an additional line if you think of anything else.

[nHi-O]

well u know if u meet her with other friends and she said she would like to hang out that pretty much means 'lets meet up for coffee, lunch or a drink sometime'. She will be thinking of something very casual! So dinner would be a no no too formal and date like. That's if she suggest it.

So you want to get to know her more one-on-one then from there ask for a dinner date.

Good luck Buddy