How Do You Start Conversations? i need some tips
#1
Posted 28 August 2009 - 03:43 PM
*sorry if this is a double post, I couldn't find a thread like this*
EDIT//
I mean in person, when you meet someone new, what do you say?
& how do you keep the conversation going and not boring.
After you say, hi/hello, what's next?
I dislike ending a convo by just saying hi.
& what if, I have nothing to compliment them on?
#2
Posted 28 August 2009 - 03:57 PM
but mostly the time on msn .. jsut be like Hey..
Cuz ppls are nice when theyre online ...
And well in person...If you know them then I don't know ...Just say hi..
and if ur talking bout making friends on the first day ... o.o
Then i don't know..compliment on their outfit or lil things ahha
#3
Posted 28 August 2009 - 04:11 PM
I usually say hi, ask how they're doing, and then it goes from there.
When meeting up/bumping into someone:
I usually say hi, ask where they're going or what they're doing later or something like that.
Iunno, for me starting a convo comes naturally and I do it without noticing how I actually start the convo.
#5
Posted 28 August 2009 - 05:13 PM
I don't know, because it really depends on who I talk to.
With my 'rents, I say 'Hey, Mom/Dad',
With my siblings, I either hit them in the head with something or say anything weird to get their attention.
With my friends on AIM, to start convo, I say rawr or itingso (which is a inside joke/greeting with us).
With my friends in person, I say yo, or I hug them or give them a high five.
But with strangers, I just say hello, or a simple hi.

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#6
Posted 28 August 2009 - 05:32 PM
And I personally like to ask how they are. It just makes them feel good to have someone ask how they're doing and what's going on.
I don't know, but usually conversations just go off from there.
#7
Posted 28 August 2009 - 08:22 PM
"Hi kid, what's your name?"
As you can probably see, I'm not very formal when meeting new people, I never even said hello to the first guy, I actually said:
"Hey, can you stand up for a second? I want to see your shirt"
But it just depends who I'm talking to, because I also met a number of people who were really awkward to speak to.
#8
Posted 28 August 2009 - 08:28 PM
but i would usually start a convo by saying "yo" and it goes from there, haha XD
#9
Posted 28 August 2009 - 09:17 PM
I talk about things that relate to them and things that relate to us in general and perhaps random things like the weather, economy, and politics. Or what I read on the news today.
Basically the same thing you'd do online lol
#10
Posted 28 August 2009 - 09:54 PM
Since I tend to make conversations awkward....
I fail at starting up a conversation..
But once I start talking about a topic, it jumps everywhere.
#11
Posted 29 August 2009 - 10:29 AM
-ask questions about them.
ex: what school do you go to?
what grade are you in?
are you in any sports?
how many siblings do you have?
when you ask, don't sound like
you're asking just because;
sound like you're interested in them.
-make eye contact.
if you're not looking at them,
they'll think you're not interested in them.
-this may be something hard to do, and takes time, but it will help you a lot:
learn to think positive things about others.
ex:shes always confident and brave.
she knows how to comfort others.
shes funny. shes nice. she cleans really good.
when you think positive of other people, it raises your self-esteem and self-confidence,
and it will help you become a better person, and help you learn more about others.
#12
Posted 29 August 2009 - 12:26 PM
i don't really pay attention to it but the last two random people i talked to
i started off with 'nice shoes' / 'nice top' and a smile
it makes them like me cos i show that i like them
^ thanks rawr_sheila, those tips are so gonna help my me start highschool next week
#13
Posted 29 August 2009 - 03:25 PM
After that, to keep the conversation going I ask them what school they go to and if we're on holidays, I'd ask if they had a good holiday.
And it doesn't matter if you don't have anything to compliment them on, you don't always need compliments to keep the conversation going
#14
Posted 29 August 2009 - 08:36 PM
I would say
Hey, what's up? Talk about school and homework.























