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#1 User is offline   x3yajme 

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Posted 29 August 2009 - 10:09 PM

What are your definitions of a boyfriend?

Also, should a boyfriend be criticizing your weight and saying stuff like 'when are you gonna do something about your weight'? etc
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#2 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 29 August 2009 - 10:15 PM

Someone that you're in a romantic relationship with?
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#3 User is offline   sgl 

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Posted 29 August 2009 - 10:15 PM

my bf is someone who will be there for me, that i can have fun with, cuddle with during scary movies...all the good things in life
but most importantly love me for who i am....so no they should not be criticizing your weight/appearance, esp if it's totally bringing you down
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Posted 29 August 2009 - 10:20 PM

True love is unlimited giving and sharing. So, a boyfriend is someone you can give everything to and share everything with.

Criticism is "okay" but it has to be constructive. If you're offended, then you need to speak to him about his approach. He needs to learn to be more sensitive to your feelings.
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Posted 29 August 2009 - 10:55 PM

I think if I am going to describe how a boyfriend should be....its going to be a long and detail post. So as short and brief as I can would be, someone that makes you happy and satisfies and/or can provide all your needs and more. Lastly able to step down when wrong and admit defeat, and apologize because he knows what he has done wrong and not for the sake of saying "I am sorry" and not knowing what he is apologizing for.

As for weight wise, its really hard for a guy/girl (I think more difficult for the guy to bring it up usually) to bring up a topic on weight, I actually talk to my boyfriend about it. We both agreed that is best not to bring up at all or basically you have to be careful how you phrase the way you are going to say it. And you are willing to accept the responsibility after what you have said and your partner's response. Why? Because it will get nasty, because some people are very conscious about their weight and how they look. And there is a limit to how much you can look a certain way.
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 03:39 PM

QUOTE (x3yajme @ Aug 29 2009, 10:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What are your definitions of a boyfriend?

Also, should a boyfriend be criticizing your weight and saying stuff like 'when are you gonna do something about your weight'? etc


I have no idea why I quoted it. =__=

Anyways.
A boyfriend... - a whole bunch of things rush through my mind -
Someone... Ah. There's a lot of things he should be and shouldn't be.
Can't really think of one particular one.

And my exbf used to all the time. He'd do it in a way that I couldn't really say anything back to him about it. I weighed more than him (bleh , I was taller too, okay!) lmfao and he would always bring that up. And he would always recommend various diets and exercises. I don't think I'm overweight but after him, that's always weighed down on me.

I think a boyfriend should be someone who accepts who you are but wants the best for you i.e wants you to eat healthier, etc. not someone who makes a joke out of everything. Someone who can be serious and caring but at the same time carefree and fun loving.

I think that the definition of a boyfriend is different for everyone just like the criteria one has for their s/o

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Posted 30 August 2009 - 03:42 PM

A boyfriend is someone that I can... (vise versa too for the girlfriend)
Trust and love.
Talk with.
Spill my guts too.
Be comfortable around in.
Mess with.
Have fun.
Tease.
Cook with.
Sleep with. (not even the dirty kind.. but that's good too.. Haha..)
Be myself.. not trying to impress.
Care for me.
Protect me.
Okay.. you get the idea.. there is a lot of things that can go into this.. but yeah.. ^^ You get the idea.

and I must say.. my current boyfriend.. is all that and more. biggrin.gif


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Posted 30 August 2009 - 04:03 PM

A boyfriend is your current best friend.
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 04:11 PM

Someone who'll be there for me. Someone who'll love me. Someone who'll understand. Someone who'll care .. Basically .. a special someone wink.gif
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 05:42 PM

They can suggest changes to a certain extent. But if they push y ou to change in a certain way, that's not right.
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 05:59 PM

Someone who is honest, truthful, fun to be with, and ultimately, someone who will love me for me. And that does include not judging me for my weight. sleep.gif
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 06:31 PM

A boyfriend is a guy I can john tesh everyday.
Must mean I have a lot of boyfriends..
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 06:33 PM

Someone who will love you more than you love him, haha. He's basically someone you probably will consider spending the rest of your life with, I guess. He has to be there for you, care for you, spend time with you, and tons of other stuff. He has to be like a friend, but more than just a friend at the same time.

A boyfriend is allowed to give the girlfriend some criticism about their appearance, but it depends on how they bring about the suggestion. Many girls are sensitive about things like their weight, so they would have to know how to talk to them about it. Suggesting change is okay, but forcing them into it is not. They should still love their girlfriend for who they are, not someone they want her to be :]


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Posted 30 August 2009 - 06:58 PM

someone who is loyal and romantic, funny, but not too funny that it gets annoying. oh and has a sence of style and is taller than me smile.gif and nice.
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 07:39 PM

Someone who can protect you. Someone who's there for you when you're down. Someone who can cheer you up. Someone that makes you happy!
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 07:47 PM

A boyfriend is someone who provides your materialistic, physical, and emotional needs.
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 09:44 PM

a boyfriend is a male best friend that you can share anything with and have romantic feelings for
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 09:54 PM

a boyfriend is a person who fills your heart with love so much that it'll explode
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 10:02 PM

a boyfriend is..
someone who loves you, cares for you, fills your heart with love, makes your day and your bestfriend&sweetheart at the same time.
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 04:06 AM

Everything a best friend is, except when you're with him you feel more love for him. :-)
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