A Boyfriend Is..
#1
Posted 29 August 2009 - 10:09 PM
Also, should a boyfriend be criticizing your weight and saying stuff like 'when are you gonna do something about your weight'? etc

#3
Posted 29 August 2009 - 10:15 PM
but most importantly love me for who i am....so no they should not be criticizing your weight/appearance, esp if it's totally bringing you down
#4
Posted 29 August 2009 - 10:20 PM
Criticism is "okay" but it has to be constructive. If you're offended, then you need to speak to him about his approach. He needs to learn to be more sensitive to your feelings.
Glory is forever
#5
Posted 29 August 2009 - 10:55 PM
As for weight wise, its really hard for a guy/girl (I think more difficult for the guy to bring it up usually) to bring up a topic on weight, I actually talk to my boyfriend about it. We both agreed that is best not to bring up at all or basically you have to be careful how you phrase the way you are going to say it. And you are willing to accept the responsibility after what you have said and your partner's response. Why? Because it will get nasty, because some people are very conscious about their weight and how they look. And there is a limit to how much you can look a certain way.
#6
Posted 30 August 2009 - 03:39 PM
Also, should a boyfriend be criticizing your weight and saying stuff like 'when are you gonna do something about your weight'? etc
I have no idea why I quoted it. =__=
Anyways.
A boyfriend... - a whole bunch of things rush through my mind -
Someone... Ah. There's a lot of things he should be and shouldn't be.
Can't really think of one particular one.
And my exbf used to all the time. He'd do it in a way that I couldn't really say anything back to him about it. I weighed more than him (bleh , I was taller too, okay!) lmfao and he would always bring that up. And he would always recommend various diets and exercises. I don't think I'm overweight but after him, that's always weighed down on me.
I think a boyfriend should be someone who accepts who you are but wants the best for you i.e wants you to eat healthier, etc. not someone who makes a joke out of everything. Someone who can be serious and caring but at the same time carefree and fun loving.
I think that the definition of a boyfriend is different for everyone just like the criteria one has for their s/o
#7
Posted 30 August 2009 - 03:42 PM
Trust and love.
Talk with.
Spill my guts too.
Be comfortable around in.
Mess with.
Have fun.
Tease.
Cook with.
Sleep with. (not even the dirty kind.. but that's good too.. Haha..)
Be myself.. not trying to impress.
Care for me.
Protect me.
Okay.. you get the idea.. there is a lot of things that can go into this.. but yeah.. ^^ You get the idea.
and I must say.. my current boyfriend.. is all that and more.
#8
Posted 30 August 2009 - 04:03 PM
"I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand."
#9
Posted 30 August 2009 - 04:11 PM
im forever yours, faithfully.
#10
Posted 30 August 2009 - 05:42 PM
#11
Posted 30 August 2009 - 05:59 PM
#12
Posted 30 August 2009 - 06:31 PM
Must mean I have a lot of boyfriends..
#13
Posted 30 August 2009 - 06:33 PM
A boyfriend is allowed to give the girlfriend some criticism about their appearance, but it depends on how they bring about the suggestion. Many girls are sensitive about things like their weight, so they would have to know how to talk to them about it. Suggesting change is okay, but forcing them into it is not. They should still love their girlfriend for who they are, not someone they want her to be :]
#14
Posted 30 August 2009 - 06:58 PM
alter their DNA and make super lemons !
#15
Posted 30 August 2009 - 07:39 PM
#16
Posted 30 August 2009 - 07:47 PM
#17
Posted 30 August 2009 - 09:44 PM
lol
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#19
Posted 30 August 2009 - 10:02 PM
someone who loves you, cares for you, fills your heart with love, makes your day and your bestfriend&sweetheart at the same time.
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 04:06 AM
































